Perhaps, on the first day, the children went to kindergarten happily because of curiosity. But when they know that they will stay in kindergarten for a day or even a week before they can go home to see their parents, they will never go again. I have a deep understanding of this.
I once told my daughter how much fun kindergarten was when she was two years old, until I sent her to day care class when I was three years old. She was very happy on the first day of school. She got up early, put on her schoolbag, and didn't cry when she got to kindergarten. She just looked around curiously. I left in a hurry, but when I came back at night, she cried and said she would never go again. Parents must not be soft-hearted at this time! I ignored her, and when she stopped crying, I greeted her and said something about kindergarten: what the teacher taught, how to sleep, what's interesting, and so on. My friend in preschool education "What should I do if my child doesn't want to go to kindergarten?" Let her think about interesting things in kindergarten and things that are not at home but only in kindergarten. A teacher once said at a parent-teacher meeting: Parents should cultivate their children's feelings for kindergarten at ordinary times, and don't persuade her to say, "If you cry again, send it to kindergarten and never bring it back." Such intimidation will increase the child's fear of kindergarten and make her more afraid of kindergarten.
Maybe my daughter is introverted. She has been in kindergarten for more than two years, but when she delivers it every Monday, she still tears: "Mom, come and pick me up early." I tried to pick her up early to make her feel that her parents wanted to be with her, too. When I come back every weekend, I ask her what she learned in kindergarten with great concern. Whenever she learns to sing to us, we listen carefully and applaud her happily. We all praised her when we saw the small fan she folded, the shuttlecock she made, the pictures she posted and the flowers she cut. I also asked her if she could fold quilt clothes. If there is, let her fold and perform for us at home, which will make her feel useful in kindergarten and learn a lot.
Every morning, it may be the biggest headache for parents. The child refused to get up, and it was noisy and noisy. Every day after I get up, I will play some children's songs to wake up the children. As our home is far from the kindergarten, it takes a few minutes to drive. In the car, I will look at the words on both sides of the road with her to see who can remember quickly by looking at the license plates of passing cars, or have some fun to let her go to kindergarten in a relaxed atmosphere.
Recently, because I took my daughter to have a boy's head cut, she stayed at home for three days and refused to go to kindergarten, saying that she would wait until her hair grew, probably because she was afraid that the children and teachers would make fun of her. When I arrived at the kindergarten gate that day, I was still crying and saying no, ignoring her. When it was time for class, a teacher happened to say, "Qiqi, you cut your head so short!" " "I said quickly," isn't this great? " "Good-looking and very energetic." After listening to the teacher, Qiqi said goodbye to me happily. Sometimes, no matter how much parents say, the teacher doesn't help.
In fact, I think the attitude of parents is very important for children to go to kindergarten, and the education of kindergarten teachers is also very important. May we work together to do a good job in early childhood education.