Sister Wu is 39 years old. She has been married to her husband for seven years and has two children. After marriage, the relationship between men and women has always been good. The only deficiency is that the family's economic situation is not very good. She rents a house all the year round and has no small family of her own. A few days ago, the couple had a conflict because the landlord repaired the water pipe late at night, and her husband proposed to be single, which made Sister Wu very wronged.
Sister Wu told us that she and her husband have been working outside since they got married. Because of the heavy financial burden at home, they have been renting houses for more than ten years, but she has never complained. The relationship between husband and wife has always been very good. The landlord came to the door and said that the upstairs residents complained about the blocked water pipes and came to the room rented by her and her husband for maintenance. As a result, her husband just came back and ran into him, because it was already late at night, and the landlord only wore a pair of shorts, and then the husband fought with the landlord. Afterwards, her husband insisted on being single with her without any explanation.
In the face of his wife's grievances, her husband Liu Dage was very excited. Brother Liu told us that what he saw and heard was completely different from what his wife said. When he came home from work that night, he heard his wife say "you can't go in like this" as soon as he entered the door. He realized that he was wrong and rushed into the toilet. As a result, he saw his wife hugging the landlord. At that time, the landlord was wearing a pair of boxers, and his wife was wearing a short skirt and stepping on the toilet.
When this happened, he fought directly with the landlord and then called the police. In the face of his doubts, his wife insisted that it had nothing to do with the landlord, but instead put him in jail for three days, which made him particularly disgusted and proposed to be single!
Her husband's words made Sister Wu very sad. Sister Wu said frankly that she did say such a sentence that night. At that time, the landlord said that he would repair the toilet as soon as he entered the door. When she stood by and watched, the landlord suddenly said that she liked her, then hugged her and touched her, but she still insisted on the bottom line and did not have sex with the landlord. That sentence is also to discourage the landlord.
In the end, the two sides reached an agreement through consultation. Under the persuasion of the two, Liu Ge promised not to pursue it. As for the landlord, he said that he might be drunk and talking nonsense that night. If the relationship between husband and wife wants to be maintained for a long time, both husband and wife should work hard to maintain it. Usually say something that makes your partner feel warm, but it is best not to say anything that makes your partner feel sad. At the same time, they should not have any inappropriate behavior, whether male or female, so as not to hurt their feelings. It's not worth it.
Some people think that "husband and wife have a good relationship", and the other person knows himself well enough, tolerates himself enough, acts willfully, does something that makes people criticize, or makes some principled mistakes, and as a result, the feelings of husband and wife are hurt. It's too late to regret. In fact, no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, we should not have these performances. Do not believe!
Whether men or women want to be alone, they have some privacy that they don't want their partners to know. If you don't understand this, you always feel that you have a good relationship, your partner should trust you completely, you should give yourself all the time, and you should tell yourself all the secrets. If your partner doesn't want to do this, it will invade your partner's personal space and privacy unscrupulously, which will often lead to your partner's boredom.
Therefore, between husband and wife, we must know how to respect each other. If you don't hurt your partner's personal space and privacy, you can give your partner more trust and understanding. When your partner sees that you respect her so much, he will naturally feel warm and better for you.