I remember when my best friend first fell in love, her relationship with her boyfriend at that time was particularly chaotic. Sometimes it's so good that I don't talk for half a month and ten days.
Once, my best friend came to me to complain, and I wasted half a box of tissues. Then she said that she hadn't contacted her boyfriend since the quarrel three days ago, and her boyfriend didn't take the initiative to apologize. She also ignored her tentative messages.
As a dog head strategist, of course I want to help her analyze this situation. I first analyzed that her boyfriend might still be angry, and then deliberately ignored her; Then give her an analysis of what her boyfriend is doing, which is obviously a sign of not loving enough and doesn't care about her feelings at all. Anyway, I analyzed the pros and cons, gains and losses, and so on, and did a lot of analysis. The final result is to tell my best friend that her boyfriend doesn't love her as much as she thought, so that she can be more careful in the future and stop giving so wholeheartedly.
At that time, my best friend kept nodding while listening to my well-informed analysis, and I couldn't help but be proud of my high EQ. I thought she would grow up and listen to me.
After that, my best friend went home. When she left, the lofty sentiments made me feel that she was baptized by me and the whole person was completely new.
A few days later, my best friend appeared before me with her boyfriend. I was surprised that two people made up?
Don't tell me, they really made up. After six days of cold war, two people gathered together and wept bitterly, then expressed their thoughts on each other, and then promised that they would never be so naive again and would make up.
After making up, my best friend sold me directly and told her boyfriend that she came to me and analyzed their emotional state. Then two people came to me, and her boyfriend told me that he loved my best friend very much and must love him more than my best friend. Let me not blindly analyze and destroy their feelings.
I was dumbfounded. who the hell are all these people？ Especially my best friend, I wanted to strangle her at that time. Why did I tell her boyfriend everything, so I didn't want my best friend for so many years?
Later, I stopped giving advice to my best friend. Although I still can't stand her unreliable love, I have learned that silence is golden. I don't like her boyfriend's nonsense, and I ignore her at most. As for the two of them, I will shut up.