How to deal with the trouble of being rejected by the company during the interview?

Xiao Dong really wants to work in a large cultural company. She did a lot of research. Everyone is full of praise for this company. The working atmosphere here is very good, the working hours are very scientific, and the company never works overtime. Moreover, the cultural company is characterized by high quality liaison personnel and no complicated struggle. Xiaodong even told himself that I would like to be a handyman in this company as long as I can get in. Xiaodong always pays special attention to the recruitment information of that company. Once there is a job vacancy that suits her, even if she deviates from the job requirements, she will carefully prepare and then integrate into the vast army of job seekers. Unfortunately, Xiaodong can't get what he wants, and he will always be rejected by that company for some reasons. Especially when she was rejected for the first time, she cried badly. At that time, none of her carefully prepared questions came in handy, because she had no work experience, and Xiaodong was speechless in the face of the examiner's brief concluding remarks. He said, "The company's current development stage is expansion, so it is more likely to use ready-made talents. You have no experience, and we may not have time to wait for you to become a talent. " Some people even bluntly said, "Little girl, to be honest, it's not that easy to get into a big company. There is no necessary knowledge accumulation in our industry, and it is useless to interview one hundred times. " However, from a painful experience, Xiao Dong believes that the problem lies not only in his own lack of experience, but also in his own knowledge reserve. It is precisely because of the lack of knowledge reserves that he lacks the possibility of rapid growth. Xiaodong still does not give up, does not despair, and is not idle in the days of unemployment. He keeps charging and improving himself in order to get opportunities in future interviews. After a while, Xiaodong went to that company for an interview for the eleventh time, but the outcome was different from the previous ten times. She was hired. Afterwards, Xiaodong asked the interviewer who had become a colleague why he was given the opportunity for the eleventh time. Colleagues tell the truth: "I didn't give you a chance because I knew you, but because I knew you." Considering that you didn't give up when you were rejected and didn't forget to charge in time, I believe your spirit can bring benefits to the company. Of course, I really appreciate and admire that you can still face it bravely after falling down ten times in the same place. Because most people don't hesitate to say goodbye to this company after being rejected for the first time. " ————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Many people think that being eliminated from job hunting is a professional problem. Make yourself more patient. Patience can make you show a calm temperament in peacetime, and it can also make you have enough personality thickness. In the workplace, you should not only be able to do things, but also be a person. Being a man is sometimes more important than doing things. Willing to accept new things. The speed of knowledge updating is getting faster and faster. The difference between people is mainly the difference of learning ability. The key to the contest between people lies in the contest of learning ability. Those who want to "learn" will be eliminated sooner or later. Therefore, to cultivate an "open" character, we must not exclude new things and try to accept them. The combination of reason and sensibility, teamwork, communication and coordination and cooperation are the inevitable forms in the future. You should be willing to share and contact with others, while maintaining the ability of independent judgment and action. When you encounter rejection, it is unpleasant to replace anger with calmness. Some people will be angry, others will feel depressed, but no matter how you feel, you should remember to accept the fact, and then you should replace your anger with calm thinking, because a timely summary will help you avoid the embarrassment of being rejected next time. Most companies have this habit. Whatever the reason, they are not obliged to disclose any information to you. Once any information about the real decision-making process is exposed, such as gender discrimination, the personnel manager is at risk of losing his job. Who would do that? Instead, you said something like "Your values are different from those of our company". Think about it, a company takes the time to call you or arrange an interview, which shows that you have passed the examination and have the ability they want. Since your skills meet the job requirements, what happened later that led to the failure of the application? In fact, when a job seeker receives a phone call or is arranged for an interview, he has already begun to accept a new round of tests. As long as you touch any field in the company's secret recruitment standards, you will be eliminated at any time. We need to calmly recall where we went wrong and where we frowned. For example, do you mention money too many times? Or you inadvertently expressed that you don't want to buy a house in the city where you work, because you still miss the living environment in your hometown, or there is a gap between your appearance and the "appearance" required by the company ... keep summing up, keep looking for the gap, and then make up. When most of the shortcomings of your reflection are removed by you, the probability of your rejection will be greatly reduced next time! Two tips to improve good luck in the workplace 1. Enhance your strengths and analyze your strengths and weaknesses in the highly competitive workplace. After knowing your weaknesses, you should be prepared to learn from anyone, do any work, deal with setbacks, keep learning, reduce your weaknesses and increase your advantages. By the way, after you start working, you should also be prepared to learn from anyone: don't look down on others at work. Some people have worked in this industry and post for many years. Although their academic qualifications are not high, they have a lot of industry, professional knowledge and social experience than the students who just graduated from school. Only by being good at learning can you meet good luck. 2. How can a person who is pragmatic and can't even do small things well do big things well? When choosing a job, you should give up many unrealistic ideas. After all, work is not a TV series. You basically have no time to fall in love every day except Saturday and Sunday. You have to work to pay next month's bills, so young people should have the mentality of starting from the bottom. It is best to participate in all kinds of work, and only after experience can you go through hardships.