Something happened ahead, so I took a long rest and wrote something for you. In fact, as you know, two months ago, the multi-disciplinary teacher complained that your behavior at school was a bit out of line, such as provoking for no reason, teasing your classmates, contradicting the teacher in class and so on. As a student, things that probably violate the school rules become nothing to you, and even challenging these school rules has become your habit. As a result, from the subject teacher to the class teacher, I couldn't bear to call to complain.
? To be honest, my mother has a temper, too. After listening to too many teachers' complaints, she is really angry when she faces you at home. So when Teacher Li called me on the phone that day, I was also angry: "Teacher, do whatever you like, I can't control it!" Guess if Miss Li's face will change color, it must turn green instantly.
? Of course, my mood has passed a little, and my mother knows that as a parent, I shouldn't be so emotional. When schools and parents want to discuss educational methods, we should actively cooperate. But, to be honest, I am also weak and indignant. Why is my baby like this?
? On the one hand, my mother tried to digest her emotions, on the other hand, in order to avoid misunderstanding during the teacher's waiting, I asked my father to communicate with the teacher. After all, my father was not at the scene, and I didn't see you losing your temper or the teacher's direct accusation.
? Dad, who is in danger, does not disgrace his mission. He not only got the strong support and understanding from the teacher, but also encouraged and comforted his mother by the way. You see, children are their own, and we must find ways to teach them well. Your father and son are both right. I will continue to upgrade.
In fact, my mother has another selfishness, that is, she doesn't want to face others' criticism directly. You are my child. I find that you are doing something wrong. I will criticize you mercilessly and even teach you a lesson. But if someone else does that, to be honest, it is difficult for mom to be completely peaceful. This is probably the deep affection for the calf. Mom also shared this with you, because you are my family. Protecting and defending your family is human instinct. Even if you know that your family is not doing well, you know that you need education, guidance and criticism, but at that moment, there is only affection and no reason. With this in mind, it is understandable that those TV programs always show that mothers have to take great risks to protect their children. Of course, understanding is one thing, and doing it is another. For example, I can't accept the teacher's criticism of you emotionally, but I know in reason that they are right. So my mother digested this in different ways, and when we recovered our normal mood, we faced the problem together and solved it together.
In fact, emotions can't solve any problems, but will enlarge them. I'm sure you must have a deep feeling about this. So we spend a lot of time on how to manage our emotions. It's easy to let them go, but it's really a bit difficult to control them and even manage them. Not only you, but also mom, this is a lifelong problem, and many people can't solve it all their lives, including many great people.
When emotions get out of control to a certain extent, behavior will get out of control, and finally it is very easy to rise to the height of destructive results. Whether you hurt yourself or others, it is actually a destructive result. The consequence is terrible, so the sooner you get involved, the lower your influence will be.
This is what we have been working hard for the past two months. How to manage our emotions effectively?
Whether we are depressed, happy or bored, we have been trying to train ourselves in various ways in the past two months.
I only accompanied you for half a month's training, and then you went to train independently. I meditated 10 for more than minutes from shulte Square where professional pilots were trained. At first, I was sitting, scratching my head like a monkey, with thorns all over my body. Now I can sit still with a thick book on my head 10 minutes. Seriously, it's not easy for you.
It is a fact that you are not a stupid child. But after entering the fifth grade, all your learning interests and habits collapsed. We don't talk about subjects, such as Go. You used to be very self-disciplined and interested, and you all returned to the state of 10 minute chess. To tell the truth, my mother has never carefully observed your changes, but their tips are really timely now, because you are really struggling because of the incompetence and uncontrollable emotional management, and it is difficult to concentrate on your studies.
The teacher said rudely, if you don't intervene, then the current state is probably your ceiling. Thunder and lightning, especially your father. As a former king of self-discipline learning, he has always been proud of himself. You inherited his clever genes, and there may be a high probability that you will achieve or reach his unfinished goals and become a capital he can be proud of. You're sure to pout when you write here, feeling that dad's motives are not pure? In fact, every family member will be proud of his family, which is a natural attribute. For example, if someone praises or praises his mother, will you feel happy after listening to it? On the other hand, what would you think if someone said to your face that your mother was a liar and a bad person? So this is nature. We are proud of our family. And dad may show or need to be more and more obvious. As for why he is like this? My mother once shared with you my father's growing experience. I believe you will understand and feel relieved when you make some memories.
I have always adhered to the principle that solving problems, sadness and depression can not bring positive forces to solve problems, so I will soon discuss with you how to solve problems. I am glad that I can always get your support and cooperation to solve the problem.
We quickly reached an understanding and made a training plan. I also asked my colleagues to make a training table for me. In order to support you through the boring training period, we also agreed on a phased target reward. Sister Zhou said it was a routine. Well, if it can help you, it's a routine.
Yesterday, the headmaster of Lou called specially. To tell the truth, there are a lot of guests in the office when I see the phone number of the building and the school. I feel uneasy in my heart, thinking about what evil you have done? Apologize to the customer and say that the child's teacher called. Everyone expressed their understanding and quickly stepped aside to pick it up. As soon as the building came up, she said, Ma Cheng, Cheng Cheng has been much better at school recently than before. Although he will still resist revising his homework, he will still carry it out after saying a few words, and his inner desire for progress can still prevail and he can still listen to reason. In addition, in the morning, you took the initiative to share with her the red bayberry distributed to you by your classmates. She described herself as a kind child. Finally, she hopes that I can give you my praise, and then the next day, at the little congress, the drum team will perform, hoping that you will show respect for the class and the school and resolutely restrain your erratic personal behavior.
After I put the phone down, I still heaved a sigh of relief, thinking that manager Lou had already started to routine us, probably because I was afraid that I was in a bad mood, so I came up to praise first, and then the point was that the output of Shaodaihui must be stable, little brother.
But anyway, you see, everyone is trying to create a stable study and living environment for you and help you grow into a valuable person to society.
Finally, I want to share with you the recent bankruptcy of New Oriental Company. My circle of friends is constantly being screened. I have forwarded it many times. On the way to send you to school this morning, we watched this clip together. In the live broadcast room, the anchor teacher Dong said that her feelings suddenly burst into tears. Not that kind of crying, but red eyes, constantly wiping tears, and then constantly saying sorry. This kind of crying is really emotional, but it is really deeply felt. He said, thinking of those colleagues who were forced to leave and those moments when their hopes were suddenly dashed, he said, I miss them and hope to invite them back one day. Finally, he turned his back to the camera, dried his tears, turned around and said, we must continue to work hard, and God will bless those who work hard.
In the barrage, pieces of "Come on! ~ "It's spectacular, but it's also sad. Three years after the epidemic, how many enterprises closed down overnight and how many families were implicated, so many people felt the same way, and mom was one of them. Even if you can remember, you can feel the same. This "refueling" is not only for him, but also for himself.
Do you know the enterprise New Oriental? Due to the new regulations of the Ministry of Education, third-party institutions are prohibited from providing profitable teaching and training. Within a few months, the enterprise hit the bottom, laying off hundreds of thousands of employees, and finally only a few hundred people were left. They are a group of teachers when they encounter such unexpected troubles. In fact, they were really helpless at first. I tried many ways, but it didn't work. About half a year ago, I began to try to help farmers in Tik Tok sell their products. They call it a plan to help farmers, because the boss says he is a farmer's child and must have a lot to help farmers. For half a year, few people really watched the live broadcast room. Eight hours of live broadcast a day, a live broadcast usually attracts more than 1 1,000 people (when my mother broadcasts live, there are more than 1 1,000 people). Even if the boss directly broadcasts live, he can achieve sales of more than 300,000, which is really less than a fraction compared with some first-line online celebrities. Relying on this to support the company and support the team seemed to be a fantasy at that time.
But they are not discouraged. When they were in New Oriental, they mastered a wealth of knowledge and knew the operation of the group very well. They just don't know how to sell goods for a while (as I told you this morning, it takes a process for a teacher to become a salesperson), but as time goes on, the effect of dimensionality reduction will gradually emerge. In the face of goods, they won't just tell you the price, function and function like other anchors. They tell you more about the history, origin and even the world of this commodity. What they sell is no longer commodities, but cultural output.
When people gradually understand what they are doing, it is really good to find that we can learn so much cultural knowledge behind buying some daily consumer goods. For a time, people flocked to the live broadcast room, things were sold out of stock, and finally the circle was successfully broken.
Therefore, they say, never underestimate scholars. If a scholar lowers himself to do things, others will have to step aside. You see, this is a real case. It can be said that the importance of reading is evident.
Recently, we have been reading Cao's Heart is Bodhi. Every time we finish watching it, we share his experience. Have you ever found that being a valuable person is surprisingly honest and persistent?
At some point, I began to reason with you in detail. In fact, my mother just wants to share with you what I have seen, heard and felt in my life. If you think it's useful, listen to it. Between mother and son, in fact, they all want each other to be well, that's all.
Your fifth grade holiday is coming. Last night, you told me that the math test-free students you longed for so much this semester also lost the election because of the mistakes in the second half of the semester. I can see that you are very upset. But this evaluation is fair, not only considering your grades, but also evaluating your usual homework and study habits. Anything that does not meet the standards will affect the evaluation results. I always agree with this evaluation method of your school. Only one student can be called excellent if he has really achieved all aspects, not the final result.
But you don't have to be discouraged. You see, Xiao Liu, our classmate next door, never got an exemption in the past. This time, he got three exams, and he had a chance to get four, but because of a small mistake, the teacher also brushed him off. So in fact, everyone has a chance. As long as we are not discouraged, opportunities are always prepared for hard-working people.