Isn't that what her idol big S is like? My husband Wang Xiaofei and I fell in love at first sight, fell in love for 20 days and got married.
So, handsome Xiao Nan and handsome Feng You met at a party and fell in love at first sight. Only two months later, they decided to get married.
Xiao nan said with a full face of obsession that it is more than twice as long as the love time of big S. That's enough.
Not long after getting married, Xiao Nan was not ready. On her birthday, she learned that she was unexpectedly pregnant with a baby. The two were not disturbed by lack of psychological preparation, but happily thought it was the best gift.
When the daily triviality doused the original spark, Xiao Nan became heavier and heavier, and found that handsome Feng You was not "handsome" at all in taking care of pregnant women.
Because of the change of progesterone, her taste has become particularly picky. Often at twelve o'clock in the evening, she suddenly wants to go five kilometers away to eat Chongqing noodles. Feng You always perfunctory "Uh-huh, oh-oh" and then give up.
She can't smell the smell of oil smoke, so Feng You said she was melodramatic, so let her do it by herself and get over it, otherwise she will easily become a fat woman if she doesn't do anything honestly.
What made her almost suppress internal injuries was that once in the middle of the night, she suddenly had a stomachache, but she couldn't wake him up. Finally, she woke up, twisted her face in pain and said in a panic, it's almost dawn. Can you endure going to the hospital again?
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During this pregnancy, Xiao Nan felt that she was too different from her expected marriage and pregnant mother's life.
Six months after the baby was born, Xiao Nan couldn't bear it and filed for divorce before breastfeeding.
It is said that couples always want to "strangle" each other dozens of times in their lives. As a novice mother, Xiao Nan's shortcomings are simply scratching her heart. At that time, it was estimated that she was in this emotional outburst.
Most people also know that the subtext of a woman's divorce is: "I am angry and want you to coax me and be good to me."
Feng You actually lives in a big child who loves to play, but he is trapped in the "box" of the wretched old man and has long wanted to quit. Where can he see Xiao Nan's subtext?
When Xiao Nan took the initiative to divorce, she simply agreed and stimulated her to say, "Whoever doesn't leave is the grandson."
When malicious words were thrown out, both sides were carried to a humiliating position. Immature, they made a decisive decision. They didn't even say who to raise the children and how to divide them. They directly changed the little red book into a green book.
Not long after, both parents knew about it and hurried forward to persuade. Make three unique tricks: bitter words+"coercion and inducement"+commitment to help, and finally let the two "shake hands and make peace."
"Seduction" means that Feng You's parents give their grandchildren a considerable red envelope, and Xiao Nan's mother takes the initiative to help take care of the children, so that the young couple can gradually adapt to the day when they have a baby.
A month later, the two changed the green book into a red book.
At that moment, the young couple were in a good mood and teased themselves: "The color of the notebook is changing. What about playing house? "
The next year, the young couple still made a chicken fly a dog to jump.
Once, they had a big fight to buy a brand of diapers for their children. This is just the fuse. They began to look back on the past year and dig out what they were super unhappy but forced to endure before to "fry cold rice" again.
Don't give in to each other until the child cries.
Xiao Nan went out with her children in a fit of pique. She just got back in the evening and is going to pack some clothes and stay at her best friend's house for a few days. Who knows, in just a few hours, when she got home, the door lock had been changed. And there is a piece of paper on the door: it's time for you to reflect on yourself.
Xiaonan "pretended" to be a solid "flood dike" and collapsed instantly.
She offered to separate again! This time she was very calm and didn't ask for attention to the inner subtext of the last courtship.
Afraid of their parents' interference again, they did not intend to divorce in a big way, but chose the form of separation by agreement.
This time, Xiao Nan finally began to seriously think about how to fill in the agreement. There is no real estate, no savings, and only the custody and maintenance of children are left.
From this, it is not difficult to think that maternal love is nature, and children naturally belong to Xiao Nan. It is agreed that Feng You will give 3,000 yuan in support every month. In order to put pressure on him to pay on time, Xiao Nan added a strict stipulation in the agreement: if he fails to perform the contract, he will pay a penalty of 654.38+ 10,000 yuan.
After paying the maintenance fee for half a year, Feng You failed to fulfill the agreement. Xiao Nan called him, only to find that it had become an empty number.
Feng You lost contact. I haven't seen him for two years.
In order to take care of children's convenience, Xiao Nan chose to engage in WeChat business in her spare time. Because of the unstable income, I can only support my life with my children. All kinds of sadness, only you know.
Just when Xiao Nan thought she couldn't hold on, a friend's phone call made her see a glimmer of light in the dark.
This friend recently returned to Wuhan from Shenzhen to apply for a leading technology company.
Coincidentally, the interview supervisor is Feng You.
This friend met Feng You at Xiao Nan's wedding photo and wedding scene. Because he was handsome and impressive, she recognized him at once. For Feng You, she is just an ordinary examinee who meets for the first time.
After Xiao Nan mastered the basic information, he immediately sued Feng You, who was thousands of miles away, demanding a divorce and recovering the alimony and liquidated damages owed by the separation in the past two years.
When Feng You received a court summons, he was really shocked.
He suddenly disappeared because he wanted to hide the fact that he was married and had children. At that time, he was with Bai. The girl found that he regularly transferred 3000 yuan to an account called Xiaonan every month, and asked what was going on.
If the girl knows the truth, this relationship will definitely be ruined. Feng You lied that his ex-girlfriend was ill and hospitalized, and asked him to borrow 20,000 yuan, which was transferred to 3,000 yuan every month for half a year.
The girl said that if she wants to be with herself, she must break up with her ex-girlfriend. No matter what money she lent, she couldn't borrow any more, so she began to monitor his income and take care of his bank account.
Worried that Xiao Nan would find him as soon as he knew that he would not pay alimony on time, Feng You simply changed his phone number and residence. Even, he offered to develop in Wuhan, Bai's hometown, in order to sever all the people and things with Shenzhen.
Apply a classic line from TVB, a Hong Kong drama that has been circulating for many years: people are doing, and the sky is watching.
Somehow, Xiao Nan's friend brought the man who wanted to avoid paying child support back to Xiao Nan.
Finally, the court ruled that Xiao Nan divorced Feng You, and Feng You made up the unpaid alimony according to the separation agreement and continued to pay it to the child until the child 18 years old. The court did not support Xiao Nan's claim for liquidated damages.
Xiao Nan and her children can finally feel a little more secure in their lives ... (End)
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Editor's note: This novel is about child rearing. The payment of alimony is based on the legal obligation of parents, not on the agreement between parents. Parents can and can only agree on the amount of alimony. The original intention of establishing alimony is to protect the legitimate rights and interests of minor children after divorce, and to make efforts to restore the life of minor children to the state before their parents divorced by giving the parent who has not been raised legal obligations. The maintenance fee is essentially a kind of protection for minors, so the dependents should not benefit from the child maintenance fee in the form of liquidated damages.
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