Don't be a low-headed family, let the heart be closer to the heart.
"Low-headed people" is becoming a buzzword in modern society. Refers to people
Don't be a low-headed family, let the heart be closer to the heart.
"Low-headed people" is becoming a buzzword in modern society. Refers to people who almost bend their heads to play with their mobile phones or tablets when walking, taking transportation or eating.
According to a survey conducted by the Psychological Counseling Center of Capital Normal University, 77% people turn on their phones for more than 12 hours every day, 33.55% people turn on their phones 24 hours a day, and 65% people say that they feel a little anxious when their mobile phones are not around.
Asians prefer to bow their heads and play with their mobile phones at any time.
"The furthest distance in the world is when I sit opposite you and you are playing with your mobile phone." Due to the need of work, Small often travels abroad on business. It is found that compared with foreigners' "love to talk" when they eat, even when they go abroad, China people are less in the mood to appreciate exotic customs, but are more willing to lower their heads and play with their mobile phones and send WeChat.
Statistics show that Asians, especially East Asians, like to play mobile phones at any time. Faced with sub-health, cervical spondylosis, sore eyes, numbness of fingers and other symptoms, China people still enjoy it.
Everyone's "WeChat powder" and "symptoms" are not light?
Recently, Xiaoyan, born in 1980s, found that her 60-year-old father also fell in love with playing WeChat, and frequently posted photos in the circle of friends. However, in the face of "300 messages, 100 friends circle" and "ding-ding" from time to time in 24 hours, we kept scratching, copying, pasting and forwarding ... WeChat fans also lamented the "fragmentation" of time.
A Wen, a white-collar worker, feels that he has "WeChat obsessive-compulsive disorder": "I want to go to a circle of friends from time to time to see what is happening to everyone. If you send photos yourself, you can't wait to see what your friends say. " Wechat is broken, and Mimi, the "serious patient" in the circle of friends, is even more uncomfortable. Sometimes she refreshes her circle of friends every five minutes, feeling "extremely lost" and feeling that playing WeChat has reached the edge of "obsessive-compulsive disorder".
Don't be a "trap" in the information age.
Why are China people so keen on mobile social tools such as WeChat? Zhao Min, a sociologist at Fudan University, said that the core reason for the popularity of WeChat is that it meets people's social needs. "Because the mobile phone network enables people to communicate across time and space, it provides the greatest possible convenience for the current communication, and its positive role is beyond doubt." The photo sharing of "friends circle" well meets the needs of people's self-appreciation. In addition, "China people and orientals have subtle personalities, and it is difficult to express many feelings in person, while WeChat creates a certain sense of space-time distance, which can be expressed in various ways, such as recording, writing and photos. And it is more easily welcomed by orientals. "
But it is also dangerous to play with your head down. Low-headed people not only have health hazards, such as poor eyesight, fatigue, cervical and lumbar diseases, but also have psychological problems. After the daily life of low-headed people is eroded by electronic products, the communication between people will be affected, and they will begin to ignore the things around them and become more interested in the posts of strangers on the Internet, which will make teenagers form unhealthy personalities. Even some young people are flustered, nervous and uneasy as soon as they leave their mobile phones. In fact, such people already have psychological problems and need corresponding psychological correction.
Psychologists suggest that you should use electronic products such as mobile phones and tablets reasonably and be the master of these tools instead of becoming a "trap" in the information age.
Test analysis:
A news triggered by mobile phone shows us the A side and B side behind this social topic: A side is the ubiquitous mobile communication today, and mobile phone syndrome has become a pathological condition in people's lives; With the arrival of the old society, the B side closely linked itself with its elders, making respecting the elderly a normal state of society, not just a buzzword.
"The furthest distance in the world is when we are sitting together and you are playing with your mobile phone." This is a popular discourse on the Internet, which profoundly reveals people's dependence on mobile phones in the Internet age. No matter in go on road trip or whenever it is possible to be alone, you will often see people playing Weibo and reading novels with mobile phones. The importance of mobile phones to people can be seen.
Behind the old man's throwing plates, it actually reflects a kind of care for the old man that is lacking in the current society. "Children want to raise but don't stay close", a poem that everyone can recite, has long faded out of people's minds. When our parents are getting old and we are still young, when we are struggling for work and life, we often find various reasons to "not go home to see": anyway, there is plenty of time, and there is always time to honor and take care of the elderly. I don't know. Time is running out. In all kinds of "excuses", we missed the opportunity of filial piety again and again. Even if the opportunity comes, we will be like the younger generation in the news, either playing mobile phones or completely ignoring the existence of the elderly and talking about life and work with our peers.
The development of communication is due to human needs, and now it is more like that mobile phones dominate human beings. Games, Weibo, WeChat, etc. It is filled with every minute of people's lives, which makes people's hearts calm down all the time and leave it to themselves and the people around them. The whole society is moving towards an indifferent digital age. It's time for us to be our own masters. We can start by putting everyone's mobile phones aside when eating, and find beautiful communication, warm language and connection between people, so that the horizon between people becomes close at hand.