Do you want to marry a divorced uncle with a baby?

In the recent hot TV series "Do you know that it should be green, fat, red and thin?", the male client's second uncle has an outer room, with two babies not married, but the female host Sheng still married it, and finally achieved a happy marriage.

Zhao, who plays Sheng, and Uncle Gu also officially announced the play. In this play, the two are sweet from outside the play to the heart, attracting countless audiences to praise and support.

But in reality, should we support an unmarried woman to marry a divorced uncle with a baby?

My sister, nicknamed Cheng Cheng, fell in love with a divorced uncle 12 years older than her and brought a girl 1 1 year old. I was shocked when I first learned the news from my relatives. In my impression, Cheng Cheng is still a high school girl who is eager to study fine arts, but her family conditions can't support her and gives up her ideal.

I quickly asked my mother, "Honestly, how old are you now? Have you considered it? " My mother sighed, "Cheng Cheng is 20 years old this year. Her mother said that she had been talking for three years and no one advised her to listen. After the New Year, she has to get a certificate from him. "

Three years ago, Cheng Cheng only wanted to paint, but didn't want to study. After failing to communicate with his family, he dropped out of high school and went to work in a clothing factory. That year was 20 16. When 17 years old, she met Wang, and Wang divorced when 12 years old. One is an innocent and lovely girl 17 years old, and the other is a mature uncle with an 8-year-old daughter after divorce.

I wonder when love came into being. But I know that in those sincere eyes of falling in love, Wang has his own mature and considerate feelings and sense of security. After that, Cheng Cheng became more and more infatuated with Wang, regardless of his poor family, the gap of 12 years older than himself, and his daughter who was 9 years younger than himself.

Cheng Cheng is 20 years old, Wang is 32 years old, and Wang's daughter is 1 1 year old. The news of true love was kept from parents and relatives at first. My aunt and uncle were kept in the dark until this year I learned from the clothing factory where I really worked that my daughter had been with a divorced man with a child for three years. Uncle and aunt took their cousin and went to find their daughter angrily.

When I was about to take Cheng Cheng home, according to my cousin, I seemed to play a villain who beat Yuanyang. Love never fails to stare at my cousin and parents angrily. Finally, under the pressure of parents, Cheng Cheng packed the clothes in Wang's room, walked out of the room, and looked back in three steps.

As soon as the love affair stepped out of the door, Wang slammed the door and cried like a crybaby. Cousin said, "Be honest, let's go home!" " Sincerely silent, slowly walked to my cousin's car. "sincerity! You still have something to stay here. " Wang Dasheng shouted. Cheng Cheng immediately went back the same way, trotted into Wang's room and closed the door.

A door blocked the view of my aunt and uncle. Inside the door is the favorite love in my sincere heart, and outside the door is the grace of parenting. Aunt and uncle knocked on the door crazily, but the door never opened.

Sincerely tell parents that they have reached marriageable age and will marry Wang after the New Year, not to discuss but to decide. At this point, it is useless for aunts and uncles to persuade them. When love is frustrated, it becomes stronger.

I can't help thinking, is love really great enough to override family ties? I think, the passion brought by phenylethylamine will gradually fade away, and it is not just love that will be maintained between partners who will be together for life.

My aunt and uncle, as well as my mother and other relatives, all expressed opposition. Because Wang has no skills, his family is poor, and he brought a little girl of 1 1 year. Cheng Cheng became a stepmother as soon as he got married and earned hard money to support his family. The most important reason is that even the recognition of the woman's parents depends on sincerity, crying, making trouble and hanging, and there is no man's responsibility and responsibility at all.

We admit that love will dissipate, and it's really no big deal. The saddest thing is that most people think they are married to love, but when love dissipates, they have to face a feather in real life.

Will you support an unmarried woman to marry a divorced uncle with a baby? Someone will definitely support it. The reason is that love is supreme and others have the right to choose freely. Some people will definitely object that it is not the best choice for a girl to marry a poor uncle with a divorced baby.

If we are brought into the position of the woman's parents, most people will definitely object. Why? Because she is her own daughter, no matter how naughty and willful she is, she is also a good baby who has been carefully cared for since childhood. As soon as I get married, I have to support my family and be a stepmother to a girl who is 9 years younger than myself. It's incredible to think about it.

In novels and even TV series, Uncle Gu and Sheng Xiaoliu live an enviable marriage life with their wisdom and hard work. Back to reality, this choice is not as simple as we thought.