I am a slightly sensitive and self-abased person, an engineering student who likes writing, a technical man who likes psychology, and a real estate agent who wears a formal suit and shuttles through Shenzhen's international metropolis, eating fast food for ten dollars and talking about millions of businesses. Every day, I will meet different customers and owners, and different stories and accidents will happen and encounter. Tear off all hypocrisy, and what remains is naked and true human nature-the beauty and ugliness of human nature are TM routines.
Here, I talk more about the ugliness of human nature, because I also see more ugliness of human nature. There is also the truth, goodness and beauty of human nature, but it is difficult to survive in ordinary people. Tragedy destroys the valuable things in life for people to see, and comedy tears up the worthless things for people to see. The ugliness of human nature will make us see ourselves more truly and look at the world more rationally.
I remember a saying that a person's quality depends on his attitude towards waiters. Therefore, recognizing a person's cultivation and quality, some strangers who have nothing to do with interests can actually see each other's essence. This can be applied to unmarried single men and women choosing the other half.
In Shenzhen, a young city with an inch of land and gold, there are still many people who can afford houses and need to settle down in this city. A house with a price of10.23 billion yuan is just one of ordinary commodities for a seller, but it is the most important choice and tactic for a person who supports his family or spends all his money to buy a house, even as important as life. The first-time home buyers, whether in the process of buying a house, or matters needing attention, or comparing choices until making a decision, lack rational vision and courage and cannot make the most appropriate and appropriate choice. Because I care too much and have no experience at all, I can't trust all the intermediaries, but I am particularly concerned about the unprofessional opinions of so-called relatives and friends around me. As a result, the truest side of human nature is mercilessly magnified, clearly visible and unobstructed in the face of huge financial interests.
I have read too many stories, behind which is a bitter history of buying and selling houses, as well as the family background and personality causes in the depths of the story. Everything, the last thing I saw was human greed, fear and selfishness.
I've seen the price rise too fast during the house transaction, which led to the seller's deliberate difficulties in the final transfer process. Finally, everyone broke up and finally got things done.
I have seen my granddaughter secretly sell her grandmother's house without telling her parents, and then three generations of the family were at odds.
I have seen homeowners change their minds again and again because house prices have risen too fast, instead of selling houses quickly and buying houses quickly. In this market, it seems that only one's own house is increasing in price, and the house I want to buy will not increase in price, but I don't know that the house I want to buy can appreciate more and rise faster.
I have seen people all over the world looking for houses and losing their mobile phones everywhere. Finally, I complained that there were too many harassing calls. Look around for a house if you need it, and don't answer the phone if you buy it.
I have seen people who come out to look at the house in the middle of the night and early in the morning, whether it is hot or heavy rain, not looking at the house or on the road. After reading it, I asked my family, friends and all kinds of people who didn't buy a house or whose house prices were very different, but I didn't want to trust myself and the real estate agent. I always feel that others are hurting him to do his business. I don't know the purpose and original intention of buying a house at all. Looking at one set and selling another, the price keeps rising. It's hard to see once. The final outcome is to spend 2 million yuan to buy a house that you could have bought at the beginning, or not to buy it if you can't afford it, and then say that there is no fate for that house. Fuck ape shit.
I have met people who have no sense of time. They arranged to see the house at three o'clock, but they didn't arrive until four o'clock and five o'clock. I have also seen a greedy house with a market price of 2 million. He can bid1600,000 or other prices. I have also seen people who have seen the same house three times before and after, once by themselves, once with friends and once with family, but they didn't buy it or their family and friends didn't like it and gave up. There are 10 thousand grass mud horses in my heart, but I am more sad for their misfortune and hate them. I told myself that hateful people must have compassion, and it will be much more comfortable to think about the people closest to them.
This is just an ordinary story between different customers and owners in my work every day. Looking back on these ordinary stories and accidents, few people can see their initial fear, greed and selfishness. In the face of huge money and interests, only naked human nature is the most real.
By analogy, you can easily know the character and character behind the decision to buy or sell a house. Through the attitude, punctuality and trust to the real estate agent, we can know the most basic personality quality of this person; By treating the choices made in major decisions and whether you care about other people's opinions, you can know whether this person is decisive. We can know whether a person can correctly understand and treat the market economy and whether he is self-righteous by treating the price and choice range of commodities. Through the comparative choice of a person constantly looking for a house, we can know whether this person's requirements and attitude towards choice are picky and pursue perfection. Through a person's attitude and habit of saving money and spending money, we can know his lifestyle and whether he has a developmental vision to invest in financial management and allocate assets in order to improve his life and change himself.
Through a person's behavior, we can see a person's character and personality, and we can see his attitude and way towards marriage, life, career, family and self. The world is so big and the city routine is deep, but tearing off the disguise of everything is the most real human nature in the end. It depends on what kind of eyes and ways you see the world.
I wish you and I more sincerity, more trust, less hypocrisy, less routines and less detours in this fucking world.