First, projective identity
1. What is projective identity?
Projected identity is that babies throw unbearable and hateful parts on others in their fantasies. Usually, others will naturally accept what the baby projects and respond accordingly.
Individuals can predict the possible reactions of others and induce others to express or respond to individual interpersonal behavior patterns in a limited way. It means interpersonal manipulation.
Projective identity occurs within and between individuals.
2. Projective identity stage:
Projection of projector
Introspective identity of the projected person: identity of vibration ~ consistency or complementarity with some object relationship systems.
Projection response: mixed projection of human projection content.
Introspective identity of the projector: the early object relationship type verification of the projector was reconfirmed or modified.
3. Classification of projective identity
Projection identity can be divided into positive projection identity and negative projection identity.
After my birth, I have enough good experiences in interacting with the object, that is, more good experiences and less bad experiences, so that the relationship between myself and the object can be integrated, and the positive projection can be accepted to complete or correct the type of life script.
The experience of interacting with objects is not good enough, that is, there are few good experiences and many bad experiences. There are two situations: oppressing students and spoiling students. The repressed * * * creates a broken relationship between self and object. Spoil the relationship between self and object in the integration of production and life. Produce negative projection identity. The bad ones are projected out, and then the bad ones are projected back. The self-realization of the life script.
4. Four functions of projective identity
(1) defense: isolate what you don't want.
(2) Attempt of communication: In order to put pressure on the receiver, let him experience the feelings he once had, and let him be understood and empathetic.
(3) establish contact with the object: interact with the receiver in the separation that is enough to accept the projection, allow some misunderstandings in the projection, and cultivate a sense of consistency.
(4) As a way of psychological change
5. Treatment and correction of projection identity
Visitors project their bad objects or self-experiences to consultants, who purify and respond to each other.
6. Object-oriented therapy
Prevent the negative projection identity of the visit from being fulfilled, and provide corrected interpersonal experience to correct the early distorted object relationship model.
7. Projected identity types and interpersonal pathology.
After-the-fact communication and induction of pattern relations
I can't take care of myself because I am helpless.
Power control, can't live incompetent.
Sexual temptation makes you sexually excited.
Catering to the loss, you owe me gratitude.
Second, anti-empathy.
1, what is anti-empathy?
Reaction to the image of tourists.
2. Psychological counselors deal with anti-empathy techniques.
(1) A gentle (similar, tolerant) refusal will count but not (don't be fooled).
(2) Tolerance of anti-empathy: Do not discuss, do not wait, do not confirm, save first.
(3) Use it to form an explanatory understanding: understanding and clarification.
(4) Cautious use of self-disclosure: the consultant observes the self-function display. Connect in parallel with the visitor. That is, the exploratory deep-seated principle. Psychological counselors know the situation of visitors through their own cognition.
3. The meaning of anti-empathy
Psychological counselors' empathy for visitors may be an appropriate emotional response or an inappropriate emotional response.
Counselors' projection of visitors needs analysis and consciousness.
Consultants need to remain neutral.
It is very important for consultants to feel and perceive their own feelings, which can promote the development and completion of the consulting process.
Psychological counselors can find out the defense mode of visitors according to their projections.
4. The common anti-empathy reaction of psychological counselors.
(1) Save the Fantasy
(2) Bored or sleepy
(3) the feeling of love
(4) Feeling helpless
(5) unable to move
(6) Turn to rational discussion and suggestions.
5. Anti-empathy form
(1) Subjective anti-empathy: The induced feelings of psychological counselors come from psychological and pathological problems of psychological counselors themselves.
(2) Objective anti-empathy: The feelings of psychological counselors are induced by the core conflicts of psychological counselors.
Thirdly, the conceptualization of case problems in object relation theory.
1, the focus of case conceptualization
(1)whst~ deviant behavior, symptoms, distress, confusion, interference ~ consultants collect information.
(2) Why is the loss of ~ ~ object the loss and seeking for love and security? That is to analyze the relationship between symptoms and growth experience.
Loss of love and security leads to bad self and object, which leads to the instinct of driving death, destroying the destructive form of object-finding, leading to the unconstructive form of object-finding, leading to deviant behavior as a symptom, leading to frustration in object-finding, leading to the loss of object again.
(3) The mechanism process of how the ~ ~ problem develops and evolves. Including various forms of defense mechanisms, the failure of separation and individualization caused by morbid health, the operation of division and negative projection of identity ~ ~ ~
Establish consulting objectives and plans.
2. Matters needing attention in case conceptualization
(1) The consultant asks himself first: Did I give him what he wanted?
(2) The consultant asks himself, how do I know what the visitor wants?
(3) The treatment goal setting and intervention strategy selection of psychological counselors should be based on the clients' seeking.
(4) The identification of the projected identity pattern of visitors and the application of counselors' awareness, identification and treatment of their own anti-empathy are the best bridges to enter the inner world of visitors.
3, case conceptualization workflow
(1) Identify and confirm the visitors' subjective desire of object loss and seeking, and then concretize the connotation of object seeking, that is, the work direction and goal of the consultant.
(2) Investigate the consistency between the current behavior of visitors and their own goal of finding objects, so as to promote visitors to realize the inappropriateness of current behavior.
(3) Re-guidance, selection and execution of new actions that the object seeks and tends to satisfy the subject's desire.
(4) Follow-up, review and correction of after-effects of actions.
Psychological theory is the presentation of human life phenomenon, and its main value lies in its usefulness. That is, understanding, predicting and changing life phenomena. It is obviously not enough to study the object relationship theory for a day and a half, but it has started my journey of studying the object relationship theory and analyzing life phenomena by using the object relationship theory.