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Parents often ask Hao Ge. "My child won't do his homework unless he is staring at him. If you want him to do his homework, you can only stare at him. What do you think we should do?
After educating children to have such problems, please read the following carefully.
It was the parents who first doubted the children.
"If you don't do your homework, you will be punished by the teacher tomorrow."
"The reuse of mobile phones is not only nearsighted, but also embarrassing."
Have you noticed? Doing that will improve children's efficiency. Everything said to the child is threatening, threatening him. Parents who communicate with their children in this way are the chief culprit in destroying their children. It is money that makes you lose money in business. However, if it is wrong to raise a person, then misery is the misery of the whole family.
Mom, please be careful if you treat your children in the following three ways.
The first way is to scold him, why are you so stupid, so lazy and so worthless.
The second method threatens him. If you don't do your homework, I won't love you. I don't like you. Wait for me without doing my homework, and be violent to the children.
The third way is to control him. I will help you with your homework. I saw you doing your homework. You do your homework at the time and place I said.
Children under these three ways of discipline may obey temporarily now, but in adolescence, you can try this rebound. That would be more rebellious than other children and bad for others.
Why are these three methods not desirable?
I have read many books on psychology and have been pursuing the ultimate answer. Why is it difficult for people to be self-disciplined?
Don't want to eat people who don't want to play, and don't want to indulge themselves.
The core of self-discipline is actually self-esteem and love. We love ourselves and cherish ourselves.
So we should be self-disciplined, and we should get something better.
Because our family loves us, we don't want to let them down. We should be self-disciplined and not let them become better because of us.
So have you found that the core of self-control has long been completely destroyed by some parents?
If you scold him, threaten him and rule him, he will become a child with no self-esteem and will never be able to form the power of self-harm.
So what is the correct way to communicate? Change a few questions to ask the children.
Why don't you want to do your homework? Are you not feeling well now?
Is the homework difficult? I've felt this way since I was a child. Do you have time to hate homework less?
Can we bear such a result if we don't do our homework?
Finally, ask the children. What will my mother do for me?
Change a few questions, to put it another way, a good mother can talk, not fight or scold.
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