1. Direct communication: You can communicate directly with your husband and express your feelings about his remarks. I hope he can treat you with more respect and love.
2. Respond calmly: You can try to respond calmly and rationally, such as "I'm sorry to hear that, I hope we can communicate in a better way."
3. Seek support: If you find it difficult to cope with such remarks, you can seek the help of professional psychological counselors or marriage and family therapists to help you cope with this emotional distress.
No matter which way you choose, try to avoid emotional reactions and deal with problems with reason and respect. Remember, mutual respect and understanding between husband and wife is the basis of establishing a healthy relationship.