As long as it involves female reality, it always seems to cause a curse, and there is even a stalk: when you meet a man who doesn't know what to talk about, talk to him about female reality.
It seems that women are always labeled with all kinds of labels and never feel equality between men and women.
Women don't like you, do they? You said she didn't like you because she was poor. She likes you, right? You'd say she just put it backwards. Women will be said to be material if they want a bride price, and you won't know how to cherish it if you don't want a bride price. Women don't forgive you, you say she is stingy; Forgive you for pushing your luck again ... no matter what a woman does, it's wrong.
Some people say that men are so difficult, but I think women are the most difficult. Men have been doing one thing all their lives, that is, making money, while women have to do many things all their lives, such as making money, taking care of their families, children, husbands and the elderly. ......
Are women realistic? Reality. Are men realistic? More realistic than women.
Many times, we will have a double-standard judgment rule for the same thing: through the success of women, men are capable, and through the success of men, women betray themselves.
I want to say what is the difference between the two, the essence is the same, but the object is different.
I have seen such a sentence before: the more incompetent a man is, the more he complains about the reality of women.
I can't say that I totally agree with this sentence, but it at least tells us that as long as you have the ability, there is no real woman.
Women want to take shortcuts to achieve wealth freedom through their own conditions, but how can men not have such an idea? Some people have no choice but to think about it.
When you can choose better, will you choose better? The answer is self-evident.
"No matter how good the ex-girlfriend is, it is not as good as the current girlfriend having a room in a first-tier city."
This happened to Xiao Chen, who is a friend of a friend around me. I met him several times, but I didn't communicate much. When I first met him, he took his girlfriend Wen Wen with him. It should be said that it is his ex-girlfriend now. After all, Dou is getting married.
At first, I learned from my friends that he was going to get married, and I also said that I would ask my friends to send me their blessings. Later, when I learned the inside story, I said forget it. Not worthy of these blessings.
Xiao Chen is 28 years old. His ex-girlfriend Wen Wen is one year younger than him. They have been dating for more than three years. They have always been on good terms. I remember when I first met them, my friend jokingly said to Xiao Chen, When are you going to get married? At that time, Xiao Chen said. I want to get married too, but I don't have a house. I can't rent a house to get married Let's fight for a few more years and buy a suite in this city.
When I heard him say this, I thought Xiao Chen was ambitious, but his words didn't show up in practice. Holding a salary of 7,000 yuan a month, excluding rent, utilities and other expenses, I can finally leave 2,000 yuan, not counting the money for dinner with friends.
At that time, Wenwen's monthly salary was not much, about 6,000 yuan, but she was not willing to spend money, and she always saved about 4,000 yuan every month. In fact, Wenwen's family had already urged her to get married, but she refused to say that she was seeing someone, and Chen Yizhi did not promise when to marry her.
Later, a new colleague came to Xiao Chen's company. He is 29 years old. In fact, he is a relative of a shareholder. Probably because of his bad looks, he has never been married. Xiao Chen often helps this new colleague at work, and gradually understands that this new colleague is a local, his father does some business, his mother is a teacher, and this new colleague has his own suite.
Later, Xiao Chen moved his mind and thought: People have a house and good conditions at home. If you can marry her, you can struggle less for decades in this life.
Kerwin Chen Jr. is a clever man. He didn't choose to break up with Wen Wen directly, but began to pursue new colleagues. Instead, he gradually approached his new colleagues. After all, my new colleagues are not young, and my family is anxious. Of course, for the other half, there is no need to ask for a house and a car, as long as you are good to yourself.
Xiao Chen had nothing to do at first, and then his new colleague fell in love with Xiao Chen. However, in this case, Xiao Chen still didn't break up with Wen Wen and kept it from her until Chen Xiao and her new colleague set a wedding date. Chen Xiaoru told Wenwen truthfully, but he didn't tell her personally. He may know that he is indefensible, which was said by a friend.
Later, a friend asked him, "Wen Wen is such a good girl that she wouldn't abandon you without money, so you abandoned her. Where is Wen Wen suitable for this woman? " You will regret it one day. "
Chen replied coldly:
"Yes, she is fine, but she has no money and no room. She won't be happy with me, she can find a rich man. "
Looking at Xiao Chen who is getting married next month, I wonder if he will regret it one day. What should Xiao Chen do if he is abandoned by others? After all, those things were not obtained by his own efforts at all.
In fact, there are too many people in real life who always want to get something for nothing, but they can't say that they get something for nothing, but treat themselves as an exchange for something that doesn't belong to them.
In fact, about "who is more realistic, men or women?" This topic is actually the same. But isn't this someone else's right? What did he violate? You would say moral? Or your own conscience?
Do you think they will feel uneasy about doing so? No, they will feel a sense of accomplishment and feel that they have all worked hard.
Don't put this label on women and men in the future, which is at least fairer.
But you have to remember: some things come too fast and are lost soon; And some things are lost, and they can never come back.