What is kuabang?
Kuakuakua gang, also known as the study room for parents who praise their children, is actually a group of parents who get together every day to praise their children desperately. At the same time, I will share parenting knowledge every day, take everyone to upgrade their cognition and better accompany their children to grow up.
It is said that family education is greater than school education, and there must be excellent parents behind excellent children. Then, the duty of boasting is to lead everyone to learn how to be a good parent.
Why did you set up a braggart gang?
Original intention:
See the advantages of children from practice, give them a little affirmation every day, gradually help them build up their self-confidence, and then find the internal driving force for learning and growth, and finally gain a mutually nourishing parent-child relationship.
After being a teacher for more than ten years, I found that those children who are sunny, confident, optimistic, positive and kind to others develop very well in the end. But such children are rare in my teaching career. Most children are not confident, shy and shy. ......
Some children answer questions in class, and their voices are very small. I have to go to TA and erect my ears to hear clearly. Some children are so self-abased that they dare not look up at my eyes when they speak. How can such children be independent and competent when they enter the society in the future?
Self-confidence is too important for one's development.
Only those who have full confidence in themselves have the courage to try different things and accept various challenges, and it is also possible to achieve some success. For example, if you learn a new skill, confident people will be willing to try it. They think that if they are willing to learn, they will learn well. People who lack self-confidence tend to shrink back. They lack confidence in themselves and have no motivation to try.
Confident people dare to try, so they can seize every opportunity. Teacher Yu said: He was an unconfident person when he was young, so he lost many opportunities.
In order to help children build their self-confidence, we want to start with changing parents' ideas and improving the family environment to help children find their self-confidence.
Not long after the mobilization order was issued, more than 20 small partners signed up for the first phase.
At present, the small partners in the group have been punching in for 7 days.
I share parenting knowledge in the group every day. Everyone praises children for punching in time, and friends learn from each other and encourage each other. This small action, which lasted only seven days, produced results. Some parents gave feedback in the group, saying that they had already felt the changes of themselves and their children.
Fu mother said:
I feel very calm these days, and this state is really good. My daughter is becoming more and more intelligent and sensible. She told me before going to bed that she would get up early for class tomorrow.
Zi Qian's mother said:
Today, the length of chatting with my son has made a great breakthrough, from the initial dislike mode to getting better and better. During the conversation, I also learned more about my son and reached an agreement on the use of his mobile phone time. Children realize why they always want to use mobile phones, and they are willing to adjust themselves and reduce the time of using mobile phones every day. This is really a big step forward.
I am sincerely happy to see everyone sharing the harvest, my mind has also been nourished, and my efforts will be rewarded.
I think the action of praising children should be applied to parents first. Parents can learn parenting knowledge by taking part in activities to praise their children, change their own ideas, pay attention to and appreciate their children every day, and after a long time, they will form habits and treat their children's every move with positive thinking, and then this ability will be transferred to other things, such as treating colleagues at ordinary times and being good at discovering the bright spots in others.
Secondly, it acts on children. When parents start to change, they will find the bright spots on their children every day, even if they are small, they will appreciate them. Children will definitely feel their parents' love in person, and then begin to be gentle and understand their parents, thus enhancing parent-child feelings. Then, they will also apply this positive thinking to other things, such as getting along with teachers and classmates around them and seeing more advantages of others.
Continue to give, hoping to help more parents see the advantages of their children and help more children find their lost confidence with their professionalism and enthusiasm.