However, life is a platform for displaying personality and attitude, and a private space for self-cognition.
When these two things are intertwined, contradictions are always on the verge.
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A friend who has worked for nearly two years said that by the end of the year, the anxiety in the office became extremely obvious.
As an old employee of the company, he is particularly worried this year.
Because from the graduation season in June, whether it is a fledgling intern or a veteran with different plans, the iteration speed of the station staff around him is faster than that of the doorman.
Because everyone has a good relationship and the company has a tradition, once someone leaves, everyone will always get together in advance and bid farewell. But recently, everyone has been silent, because last month alone, they got together three times and were exhausted. ......
What's more, by the end of the year, the performance will be assessed immediately, and KPI is out of reach. The leaders communicated many times and asked for data reports.
"The boss asked me what my ideal is? My ideal is to stay in the office for eight hours every day without working. I can watch 10 episode of American TV series, play 20 games, visit 100 websites and brush 300 Weibo, but now I can only face these three documents, seven accounts, 30 pages of PPT and the boss's meeting in the afternoon. 」
Don't even think about it. The soul torture from the boss in the meeting is bound to be a hail of bullets.
"Imagine dissatisfied workstations, unfamiliar new colleagues, files piled up at the corner of the table, and the performance pressure hanging over everyone ... this! Just! Yes! Post it! Field! 」
This kind of intimidation from the old birds in the workplace can really scare many newcomers who have not yet entered the workplace.
So, is the workplace really all passive and helpless?
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As we all know, negative emotions are always more infectious and impressive.
We have heard and witnessed many people's aversion to the workplace before we left campus, so we always unconsciously think that the workplace is a cage, which is full of negative examples of superiors bullying subordinates and enterprises squeezing employees.
In fact, the more this time, the more we should explore the real workplace and awaken some neglected positive memories.
We interviewed some newcomers who have worked for 0-2 years and got these warm little jobs:
Urara
Recently, my deskmate asked for three days off and didn't come. Only when I came back did I know that my grandfather had passed away. My sister, who is usually lively and cheerful, is obviously quieter. At this time, everyone seems to lack emotional intelligence and don't know how to persuade.
At lunch, she secretly told me that the unreasonable devil quietly transferred 500 yuan to her WeChat. The message was, "Everyone has come all the way. Why don't you cheer up and try to walk well?" "Well, plus a supercilious look symbol.
Even if you can't wipe your face and say that comforting word, the implicit expression of the orientals can still be so warm.
Sub-Dragon
Before I went to the internship, my friends who had already started the internship kept chanting in my ear how annoying the work was, which really made me start the internship with the determination to die.
On the morning of arriving at the company, the boss dragged me into the department group and found that they were about my age and welcomed me with expressions in the group.
Because of this, I had a good first week.
Xiao b
When the department boss said he would treat us to milk tea, I thought it was not bad.
Blair
The leader we met in the first year of work always said to us, "If you can't arrange the work, please tell me and I will coordinate with you.". 」
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Not only daily contact, but also many companies are constantly creating surprises for their employees.
We learned that recently, a movie called "Attacking Teenagers" was quietly shown in the cinema. I asked around. This is the work of JD.COM Shao Dong.
The most shocking thing about this movie is that it was made for 70,000 campus partners. These 70,000 partners who work in their respective posts like us, like supporting actors who have been working hard for a long time, have finally become their own protagonists, which is of great significance.
The staff of Shaodongjia said that what impressed him the most was the scene at the meeting. Campus partners sit under the stage and play on the stage. The emotions of these ordinary employees and the actors on the screen are particularly synchronized, with laughter, crying and plots.
In the whole process of chatting, the light in his eyes showed me for the first time that an employee can trust an enterprise so deeply, and the tone of pride and pride could not be concealed.
Inadvertently, work and life are inseparable.
After a thorough understanding, you just know:
The office will always be a colorful place full of ups and downs. But there are always many sweet moments worth chewing and remembering.