Linlin, my cousin's daughter, got married before New Year's Day. When the Chinese New Year was coming, she came back alone, saying that her husband was on a business trip, so she would come back for the Chinese New Year first, and then take her back after her husband came back in a few days.
Speaking of which, I'm still a little confused. It's almost Spring Festival. Which unit is still on a business trip at this juncture?
However, the problem is the problem, and I don't have the courage to say it to my face.
Sure enough, during the Chinese New Year, Linlin has been living in her parents' house, and her husband didn't come to meet her. Linlin doesn't look happy either.
During the Spring Festival, COVID-19 broke out. For the sake of safety, neighborhood offices and residential properties have been issuing notices, asking everyone not to go out to visit relatives and friends at will, so our whole family stayed at home. Fortunately, I hoarded food years ago, and my mother said it was no problem to eat it for a month.
If you can't go out, send a group message to your friends to celebrate the New Year.
Just as I was replying to my friends and relatives, I suddenly saw Linlin send me a WeChat asking if I had time to chat. I'll reply to her right away and say, ok, if you have time.
I talked with Linlin for a long time. After chatting, I realized why I ran back to my mother's house alone during the New Year and my husband disappeared.
It turns out that before getting married, her husband's parents gave Linlin a bride price of 200,000 yuan, and their parents gave all the money of 200,000 yuan to Linlin. After all, the couple have only one daughter, and they are very distressed by Linlin. When I got married, I gave him 9999 yuan in cash and a car of several hundred thousand yuan.
After the wedding, Linlin and her husband happily traveled to Japan for more than a week.
After the trip, the two people liquidated their assets, and there were still about 654.38+0.8 million in the account. In addition to paying the mortgage, the two have no other big expenses.
Linlin said that it was not easy for her parents to raise her, and even gave her all the bride price money. She felt guilty and wanted to go back to her parents' home and give them 654.38+10,000 yuan.
I didn't expect my husband to disagree and say that Linlin was selfish. He only thinks about his parents, and doesn't care about how much their parents have paid for their marriage.
Linlin repeatedly explained that her husband only scolded her for being partial to her family, but also took her bank card while she was unprepared and transferred 200,000 yuan.
Linlin was angry and annoyed when she found out, and she had a big fight with her husband. However, Linlin is a lady, and she doesn't know how to importune and quarrel at all. She can't quarrel with her husband, and she doesn't want to disturb her parents-in-law, so she has to leave her malicious words to her husband and go back to her family alone.
She thought that her husband would pick her up soon, but she didn't expect her husband to compromise and not pick her up. She wanted to go back and talk to her face, but she was trapped here because of the epidemic.
Now, Linlin feels sad, anxious and regretful. She said she didn't want a divorce yet, but she was indifferent to what her husband had done. She and her husband are both trying to carry it now, and neither of them will compromise.
But it's not going to solve the problem all the time. Linlin said that he didn't know what to do and was afraid to tell his parents. Now he is worried to death.
After listening to this, I think her husband is also petty. No big deal.
This kind of man only loves himself, is selfish, loves money the most and wants to be loved by women the most. But in men's eyes, women love money and are greedy for it. In the eyes of women, men don't understand love at all.
He has no right to deal with his wife's money unilaterally without her consent! Because it was a bride price given to Linlin by her parents before they got married, the old couple paid 200,000 yuan for their only daughter. According to the provisions of Article 17 of the Marriage Law, the property obtained during the existence of the relationship between husband and wife belongs to the common property of husband and wife, except that it is obtained according to law and agreed by one party.
If it is purchased before obtaining a marriage certificate and there is no agreement on the ownership of the property, it belongs to one party's pre-marital property. Therefore, the dowry is divided according to the above principles in divorce. Such separation, guarding the New Year.
Friends also have opinions on this matter, and Linlin has not arranged it. If he loves his parents dearly, he should directly deduct money from the bride price and leave it to his parents. Now married, this is the same property of husband and wife, suddenly proposed to parents who are not short of money and are only children. This operation is only for a new family. I want to leave at any time. There is really no other explanation.
Under this logical reasoning, the boy must first transfer the bride price. After all, the bride price is a gift for the purpose of marriage. Since the woman doesn't want to live, she should minimize the loss. Are you waiting for a lawsuit?