If a clever mother does this, her daughter can have confidence in her husband's family.

My friend Zhao Jie, in the era of strict family planning, gave birth to three children, two daughters and a son in order to have a boy.

As a rural person, it costs a lot of money to raise three children and train them into college students. Therefore, when the two daughters look for their in-laws, Sister Zhao must find a better family, so that the daughters will suffer less. This is also the idea of most mothers.

Her eldest daughter was also beautiful and had a good job, so many boys pursued her at that time, so Sister Zhao chose Wang Jun who had a house, a car and a job. His family is also very famous in small counties. There is a processing factory and a facade room at home.

Compared with her in-laws, Zhao Jie suffers a little in money, but in order not to let her daughter be looked down upon in her in-laws, she has never caused her daughter any trouble.

Her daughter is also very low-key Although her husband's family is rich and has her own salary, she has never been extravagant in clothes. She usually has one or two sets of clothes, and the ordinary can't be more ordinary. Just like Guo Jingjing, marrying into a rich family is still a civilian life.

Sister Zhao has never asked her children for money at ordinary times. The children occasionally give her some money to show their respect. She always said, I can still make money now, and I don't need your subsidy. When I can no longer work and have no income, all three of you will support me.

When Zhao Jie was building a house that year, she borrowed money from relatives and neighbors and didn't talk to her in-laws. She doesn't want her daughter to be looked down upon by her mother-in-law.

Because her daughter's house was bought by her husband's family before marriage, Sister Zhao seldom stayed at her daughter's house, and she felt very angry. This year, my daughter bought another house with her own money, but she didn't ask her in-laws for a loan to facilitate her mother's future life.

Sister Zhao said that her daughter just got married and her in-laws told her how many houses she had and how much money she had. Now that my daughter has been married for ten years, she has never had economic contacts with her in-laws and son-in-law, and her usual manners are also polite. Because my daughter has never asked her in-laws for money, and she has never bothered her in-laws. My in-laws are also happy to have such a sensible daughter-in-law. Now, Zhao Jie's in-laws no longer say that they are rich in front of Zhao Jie.