This actually comes down to the unequal status of men and women since ancient times. This society is really too tolerant of men. A man's infidelity can be considered a mistake that a man will make. Men drink, smoke and have domestic violence, which is said to be a problem for men. Men only care about making money and taking care of their families. People think that men should be outside and women should be inside. But when is it women's turn to have these problems? Will suffer moral condemnation, other people's finger pointing, all kinds of remarks will say that this woman is a easy virtue, without morality and self-restraint, how can earth-shaking changes have taken place as soon as her gender changes? In marriage, a man's failure to do well can be understood and tolerated, and a woman's failure to do well is the whole responsibility of this person, as if everything should be done by a woman.
No matter which party is at fault in divorce, it seems that women bear the greatest responsibility. If the family is not harmonious, it must be that women will not be wives and will not take care of the family. Because there are no divorced children, they think that women can't have children ... In short, women will bear a bigger pot when divorced for various reasons. Even if men cheat and lead to divorce, they will think that women can't catch men's hearts and let men go outside to find women. This is very! Very! Very! That's a good idea.
Women will also suffer more strange eyes after divorce. When they want to fall in love again, they will be rejected because they have been married, and they will be considered second-hand and feel unclean. Therefore, women will lower the standard of mate selection, and will be very accommodating to men in all aspects, just for fear of being rejected because of divorce. If you divorce after giving birth, it will be even more serious. More and more men look down on this kind of person, thinking that she didn't get divorced after giving birth and couldn't marry and go home as a wife. Even though many people say that love has nothing to do with these things, when they really face these problems, they will still think about these things realistically.
As long as a man has one more divorce certificate, there won't be much obstacle to blind date in the future. Even if you have children, as long as you have good conditions, there will still be many girls who are willing to be stepmother. Without children, many women will think that you are married. If you know how to run a marriage, you should know how to take better care of your family and wife, and then this will become your advantage.
But I think, no matter how society treats divorced people, you must first recognize yourself and feel that you are very good and excellent, and no matter what others say, it will not hinder you. Everyone is entitled to find his own happiness, and there is no difference between poverty and inferiority.