Seeing this thing you described,
What your boyfriend said to your mother,
This means that when you have children,
He won't let you take care of the children hard.
In fact, every family has a difficult experience.
This is the crystallization of husband and wife happiness!
Little sister, you can reply like this:
"With children, I am not the child's mother?
We can take care of the children together!
This answer is the best way,
This also makes you realize the greatness of your mother.
I hope my answer can help you, and I hope it will be adopted!