What should I do if my child has poor hearing?

Parent narrative: My son is in the second grade of primary school. Shortly after school started, I got a call from my new math teacher. She said: "Your children are inattentive in class and often distracted. Listening to my instructions is always half a beat slower than their classmates. When you call him to talk alone, you will know that I am talking about his problems, and your eyes are wandering. " The teacher said that after his son fell behind others, the biggest problem was listening. I understood half of what the teacher said, because she was not the first person to reflect this problem. Once in the middle class of kindergarten, the teacher said that her son didn't listen to her stories in class, but only liked to play the regional corner games he was interested in or read his favorite books. In order not to affect other children, let him go; In the first grade, six parents invited an experienced teacher to guide their children to practice "looking at pictures, talking and writing" after class. Teacher's comment: quick response and fluent writing, that is, I don't pay attention to the lecture in class, and I always have to tell him twice in one sentence ... My son has a positive and cheerful personality, good physical fitness, likes sports and strong hands-on ability. Compared with children of the same age, I feel that he is less bound and more thoughtful. Why is there such a big problem as "listening ability"? It is not only manifested in the lack of concentration in class, but also in the interruption of others before they finish, and I can't hear the voices of my teachers and peers in group activities, which makes me feel very tired and want to listen to the opinions of experts. Expert opinion: "deaf ears" may be ADHD. Miyamoto Hiroshi read his parents' descriptions, and I can understand his mother's feelings. Poor listening will not affect children's intelligence, but it will affect their learning ability. Personally, I think this child has appeared in the kindergarten middle class. At that time, if parents and teachers could seize the opportunity, pay attention to and concentrate on training instead of letting themselves go, maybe the situation would be different. According to my parents' description, I was initially diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). When you listen to ADHD, you may think, is this child just inattentive, hard of hearing and inactive? This is a misunderstanding. There are actually three main manifestations of ADHD in children. One is the well-known ADHD, which is mainly manifested in the non-stop movement of hands and feet, and it is difficult to sit still or twist in the seat when you need to sit still; Often make small moves or whisper with classmates in class; Running around at inappropriate times and occasions, etc. The second is poor control, impulsive, impatient and impatient; Often interrupt or interfere with others; It is unbearable to encounter setbacks, and it is prone to intense emotional fluctuations and excessive behavior. The third is the child's performance, which belongs to inattention, showing that it is difficult to concentrate and easy to be distracted; Do not pay attention to details and often make careless mistakes; Do not understand or listen to others; It is difficult to always follow instructions and complete homework and daily housework according to instructions; I often forget three things and four things in my daily activities. ADHD usually begins before the age of 6, and the symptoms are obvious at school age. The survey shows that the prevalence of ADHD among school-age children in China is increasing year by year, about 5% ~ 8%, most of them are between 6 ~ 12 years old, and the ratio of male to female is 4∶ 1. In other words, two or three children in a class suffer from this disease. Of course, if you think that your child is far from being sick, but his hearing is poor and his concentration time is short, parents can also improve it from the following aspects. First, don't interrupt your child at will. When a child is absorbed in something, parents should not interrupt or interrupt at will, such as "Baby, what are you doing". Many times, in order to attract children's attention, parents often interrupt their children suddenly, but they don't know that this will affect their attention. Also, when children do their homework, please be sure to provide a relatively quiet environment. At the same time, be careful, adults don't be too wordy. Don't say one thing many times. After saying it again, let the children retell the key words. Second, use games to train children's listening and attention. For example, the game of "missing numbers" (reading more than five serial numbers twice, and deliberately missing one or two of them the second time to see if children can find them), the game of "missing animal names" and the game of "driving a train" (this game needs more than three people, and the more people, the more fun it is. Take three people, for example. The method is: three people sit around, father doing Beijing station, mother doing Shanghai station and children doing Wenzhou station. Father clapped his hands and shouted, "The train in Beijing is about to leave." Everyone clapped their hands and shouted, "Where are you going?" The father clapped his hands and shouted, "Wenzhou has opened", so the son of Wenzhou Station immediately said, "The train in Wenzhou is about to leave." Everyone clapped their hands and shouted, "Where are you going?" Wait). Similar games can be played every day for a few minutes at a time. Third, take children to nature to listen to beautiful sounds, such as the sound of spring rain; Cicada and frog in summer; The bleak autumn wind in autumn; The sound of snow in winter, etc According to the characteristics of children's love of telling stories, children can often be told interesting stories, so that they can repeat them intentionally or unintentionally, thus improving their listening ability. Of course, you can also start with your child's interest and improve your attention time. Usually give priority to appreciation education, and don't make children's frustrated little hearts worse. In addition, parents should set an example and tell their children subtly with actions. When others talk to themselves, they should listen politely, look into each other's eyes and respond accordingly.