When life is not going well, what words do you read in Zhuangzi?

When life is not going well, what words do you read in Zhuangzi? 0 1 About feelings: "It is better to forget the rivers and lakes than to know each other and cherish each other". It is better to let the other side go than to live on the other side. Sometimes, leaving is actually a satisfaction. There is a well-known story in Zhuangzi: the spring is made. In order to save their lives, two fish spit on each other and moisten each other. For fish, this living condition is not suitable, and the ideal situation is to let them return to the water. Forget about each other and live your life in an area that suits you. In fact, it is also true emotionally. If you can't go hand in hand with each other, you can't be separated from * * *, which is also an option.

But some people can never forget the person in their hearts. If they expect too much, they can only disturb their hearts and feel unhappy. Unsuitable people will get lost in the sea of people one day. Laughing at the world of mortals, not reluctantly, is a kind of generosity. There is a saying in Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon: "Hold tight, there is nothing in it;" If you open your hands, the world is in your hands. "A person who wants to go, no matter how tight, is of no help. Might as well let go of his hand. He will always do it for himself, not for himself. By the way, who can always accompany you? Be integrated into your life forever. When you love, cherish the people around you. Take care of yourself when you don't love.

On fame and fortune: "If you don't value things, what can you get and hate?" Human nature is infinite, and when using things, we should not be manipulated by material desires. There is such a short story in Zhuangzi Qiushui. Zhuangzi is knowledgeable, and Chu Weiwang wants him to assist him and govern the great cause of the country. On one occasion, Zhuangzi was fishing in Lishui, and Chu Weiwang immediately sent a special envoy. The two envoys rushed to Zhuangzi and told him: "Chu Weiwang specially invited you to the palace and hired you as the prime minister, so that you could go down in history." But Zhuangzi just wanted to fish and turned a blind eye to them. They never wanted to leave. Then, Zhuangzi told a short story: "There was a chitose turtle in the State of Chu. It has been dead for three thousand years. King Wen of Chu gave him bone armor and worshipped it on the dry side. Excuse me, for this thousand-year-old turtle, do you want to keep the bones after death or live in a muddy pond? "

He continued: "Please go home and tell Chu Weiwang that I choose to live a good life and just want to live a quiet life." It is a long-cherished wish of many people to be a prime minister and occupy a high position, but Zhuangzi is indifferent, does not seek fame and fortune, and has his own pursuit of a perfect life. There is a saying in the works: "Modest gentlemen make things, not things." Man should be the master's home, not the slave of the fallen. In the greedy world, standing on the road of chasing fame and fortune, people are very easy to lose their way, thus ruining their future life. Therefore, it is a good practice not to be kidnapped by chemicals, to be content and to subtract from life.