This woman is very clever, and the means of harming others is also very clever. She dotes on Gu, who lost her biological mother when she was a child, obeys everything, and disguises the role of "good mother" perfectly. In fact, she just wants to cultivate her into a dude who only knows pleasure and does not seek progress.
Hua Lou came to ask for debt, which was not done by Gu, but Xiao Qin paid the money directly. Gu didn't even have a chance to explain, but she picked up a bargain and did it.
Every time Gu has a conflict with her father, she seems to be reconciled, but in fact she adds fuel to the fire. She also set up obstacles when Gu's father died, so that he could not even see the last side.
Such a "smiling tiger" is really smart. Obviously all the bad things have been done, but you can't pick out any mistakes.
In the early days, Gu failed to get hurt. After Gu and Ming Lancheng got married, Xiao Qin joined Zhu Manniang and Aunt Kang step by step, which almost killed her.
But in the end, her plot failed and all her hopes were dashed.
In the original work, Xiao Qin's son Gu Tingwei was instigated by her to besiege Houfu, and was finally shot to death by an arrow. The son's branch was expelled from Houfu, his own power of attorney was revoked, and his grandchildren died of illness. All his wishes for life became hollow, and eventually he died of paralysis.
In the film and television drama, the Queen Mother Party she stood for failed, and she couldn't turn over. She may even hurt her son because of what she did before. Playing the fool, she deliberately tied up her son Gu Tingwei and threw him into a dry well, then set fire to the ancestral temple of Gu Family and set herself on fire.
Compared with the ending of the original, the TV series is more tragic and profound. Because the ancestral temple is the foundation of a family, burning the ancestral temple can show her hatred for this family and feel how much she wants to resist her fate.
Maybe many people think this woman deserves it, but when I see this, I'm beginning to feel a little sorry for her. I believe that if you know her, you will have a vague sympathy for her, because her life is a woman's most tragic complaint.
Marrying someone he doesn't love is the beginning of Xiao Qin's tragedy. Xiao Qin's marriage to the ancient duke is not voluntary. When Dongchang Houfu fell, Xiao Qin's sister-in-law asked Xiao Qin to go to Guhoufu to be a second wife in order to deduct the rich dowry that Xiao Qin got married as an orthodox lady, and asked her elder sister-in-law to pay less dowry.
Xiao Qin actually didn't want to, but elder brother sister-in-law threatened to sell her if she didn't marry, so she had to swallow her anger and become her sister's body double.
Few women in this world want to be the body double of others, but in that feudal era, women had no way to decide their own lives. Xiaoqin is not like the little Zou family of my uncle's family, but has a double body. Who wants to be her sister? She is extremely disgusted with the respect and status given to her by Gu Duke because of her sister.
Marrying someone who doesn't love herself is the beginning of a woman's miserable life, because no matter how much you pay, you won't be cherished and loved.
Knowing this, I can understand Xiao Qin's hatred of the world. Although I think she really shouldn't hurt Gu He, hateful people also have pity. After all, feudal society still poisoned women and hurt her.
Insecure women tend to go to extremes. For women, nothing is more important than a sense of security. It's Gu's third wife. She watched Gu marry Bai for money, and she also watched her sister-in-law maintain a relationship with Hou Fu by herself.
She always felt that her life was unfortunate, because she could only be a pawn of others, that is, under such circumstances, her heart became distorted and she just wanted to win prosperity for herself and her son Gu Tingwei.
Therefore, after she married Gu Fu, she always pretended to be a good wife and mother, which was better for Gu. In fact, Gu's ultimate goal is the title.
Gu's eldest son is a sick seedling. Obviously, he won't live long. He can't hold the title forever. The next person to inherit the title is Gu and her own son.
She used this trick to turn Gu and his son against each other, in order to let Gu die outside, so that the only one who can inherit the title is her own son. This idea is her only hope, and it also makes her stuck.
When what she planned for more than 20 years suddenly failed to come true, she felt hopeless in life, so she used self-immolation as a desperate and fierce way of death.
In fact, there are many people in Know Not who are worse off than her, such as Ming Lan who lost her mother when she was a child, but she knows very well that if people want to live well, they must rely on themselves. If you count on others, they will eventually fail.
If Xiao Qin can have such an independent idea, then I don't think she will come to this step in the end. So women, if they want to live well, they should make themselves strong, because the only reliable thing in this world is themselves.
A woman who has never lived for herself, Xiao Qin's saddest line was really cracked. She shouted in the firelight: "This Houfu is a blood-sucking cave. My sister is such a kind person. In order to protect herself, she married a girl from the White House and had children with her. She left her, ruined the White House, ruined my sister, and tried to ruin me and play in this big house.
This passage is thought-provoking and brings tears to my eyes. This woman was forced to marry into Houfu by her brother and sister-in-law. She gave birth to a son and planned to spend her whole life, but she never wanted to pave the way for him herself.
All her life, she has been wearing a mask and never lived for herself. Until the last moment, she can live for herself with death.
This kind of life is really distressing, because no one in this world really wants to live so tired, and these wrong things that they can't do also make them bear heavy shackles.
In the final analysis, although Xiao Qin's misery has the helplessness of fate, it is also because he doesn't know how to reconcile with himself.
In fact, in Gu's heart, she always respected her, and in the end she called her "mom". What she should hate is not Gu, but that she has to marry Hou Fu's brother-in-law and the duke who doesn't love her.
If she can put down her hatred earlier, I believe Gu He will certainly give her wealth, and the gentle and kind Gu Tingwei will certainly get harmony between her brothers and peace at home.
Everyone's life is different. We can't decide our origins, but we will be able to control our own lives and live on our own feet. Only in this way can you be truly happy, keep the bottom line and principles of being a man, and be truly happy.
I hate Mrs Qin's tricks, but I sympathize with all her misfortunes. She has lived too tired and too fake all her life.
If everyone can be as transparent as Ming Lan and understand that ordinary days are the best and nothing is the best, I believe there will be more happy people in this world.
No matter what you have experienced, I hope you will get real peace and happiness in your growth. Never waste your limited life on calculating others. Only by focusing on your own life can you become a winner in life.