However, there are true feelings and ruthlessness. As the saying goes, "a friend in need can't be bullied, and a bad wife can't be abandoned." As a woman, you should stay awake. You can't let a man hurt you and choose to forgive again and again. In the end, you get nothing, but you are scarred. A woman should never give up her pursuit because of love. For a man, don't wait until the end to get bullied by her parents-in-law, betrayed by her husband, and love. Is it still worthy of our trust?
Yingying and her boyfriend come from remote rural areas. They can be said to be two innocent classmates. They fell in love in junior high school until they came to work in Dongguan. Because my education is not very high, I work as a front-line worker in an electronics factory. The wages of two people who work overtime desperately add up to only about seven or eight thousand, and the balance after daily expenses is very small. For those who dream of buying a house in the city, they have worked for more than four years and dare not mention marriage.
The two scrimped and saved and wanted to hand over the wedding room, but Yingying's mother had been worried about her daughter's marriage, thinking that she had reached the standard of older women, and she was afraid that her neighbors would gossip if she got married too late. Under the pressure of her family, Yingying and her boyfriend discussed marriage.
"Looking at Zhicheng is also an honest man. You can buy a house slowly after marriage. You are both old, it's time to get married. " Yingying also thinks that what mom said makes sense. Now that they are together, they can work hard to buy the house after marriage, and her boyfriend agreed.
Soon they returned to their hometown and had a simple wedding. Although Zhicheng's bride price for Yingying is only 80,000, which is not too much, it is not easy for Zhicheng's family.
Less than a year after marriage, Yingying unexpectedly found herself pregnant, which was not a happy thing for Yu Yingying. She felt that the baby was born at a bad time and there was nothing wrong after marriage. Having another child now will only increase the burden on both of them. In her mind, Yingying euphemistically told Zhicheng her thoughts, but Zhicheng was very happy: "I'm finally going to be a father", and he decided to let Yingying take them.
Yingying was very moved and her heart softened.
In order to give birth naturally, she insists on exercising every day, and Zhicheng also accompanies her. Yingying will feel that her life is too happy. Later, they gave birth to the crystallization of love, and Zhicheng also started his entrepreneurial road. Yingying sometimes can't bear to work so hard outside, so she takes her five-month-old child to her mother. She also helped Zhicheng. It was really difficult at first, but their efforts were far better than one person's. After five years of hard work, they finally have their own house in this city. After that, the two moved their in-laws living in the countryside to live together in the city. When her mother-in-law arrived, she said to Zhicheng, "You are so lucky to have married such a daughter-in-law!" Yingying was very happy to hear that. She feels that she is very happy now. With a house, her husband's career is on the right track, her parents are in good health, and her son is a few years old, and her life is satisfied.
Unfortunately, it didn't last long, and everything was ruined by Zhicheng. Since his career became more and more smooth, Zhicheng often stayed outside at night, and sometimes he came home with a smell of alcohol. Sometimes Yingying asks him why he doesn't go home. Zhicheng explained that he had drunk too much with his customers, and Yingying understood and didn't think much. However, the frequency of Zhicheng not going home is more and more frequent.
Until that day, Zhicheng and his parents-in-law went to Shanghai to visit relatives, and only their parents-in-law came back when they came back. Yingying asked where Zhicheng had gone, and her father-in-law said that there was work in Shanghai. Yingying believed this without much thought.
But when I came back, I overheard the conversation between my parents-in-law, only to know that Zhicheng didn't work in Shanghai, but had a woman outside and had lived together for a year. Yingying couldn't help rushing into the room and asking her parents-in-law: "Why did you lie to me? Why did you keep it from me? " My father-in-law was impatient and replied to Yingying: "Man, the waves are enough, so go home naturally. You are not as concerned as a woman. "
Yingying is about to collapse. She treats her husband for nothing. Her in-laws are like their relatives, but they always treat themselves as outsiders. Soon after, Zhicheng appeared, but only because of gambling was arrested in the police station. After Zhicheng came out of the police station, Yingying filed a divorce with him. Yingying said to Zhicheng in despair, "If you are poor and white, I will be rich. I've always thought that being a family is happiness. I didn't expect that the divorce was exchanged for your parents' deception and your betrayal. After that, you live your prodigal life, and I choose to quit. "
Zhicheng will definitely not agree. He has been praying Yingying not to divorce, but she is still stubborn. In the end, Yingying's heart was burning with despair, without even a tear. She thinks she can live, too. As for the property of husband and wife, after all, he cheated first. Even if it is a needle on the thread, it must be clear that the child must follow her and he must bear the child's support.
If he doesn't agree, Yingying will go to court to file a lawsuit. She told Zhicheng: "You cheated first. You have a gambling record. you are talking to the wrong person. I have a lot of evidence that you cheated. Do you think you still have a chance to win? "
If you want to keep your reputation, promise Yingying's request. Yingying changed the house with her children and started a new life as a single mother.
Nowadays, many people in the society always say: women are more and more material and realistic, and they will definitely not suffer with a man! In fact, these views are biased. This marriage tells everyone that it is not that women are afraid of suffering, but that they are afraid of being betrayed by men after going through all kinds of hardships.
Women are the animals that need security most. What she fears most is to live a life that she feels very happy. A man suddenly pushed her off a cliff and betrayed his happiness. How many women will be disappointed? Even despair? However, women who have often experienced despair, some will be vulnerable and some will give a beautiful counterattack.
Here, I want to tell you that when a man hurts himself again and again, you should stop the loss in time, because he is not worth being guarded for a lifetime. You have wasted your proudest youth, why waste the rest of your life?
As a woman, you should have the courage to leave at any time and stop loss in time. Women can serve your parents and take care of your family for love, and at the same time, they can make you bite off more than you can chew.
As a man, you should know how to cherish the woman who accompanied you through the most difficult time. Only by accompanying you through the most difficult road can that person really love you.