Crossing oneself and crossing others is the purpose of Mahayana Buddhism, which complements each other; Helping others is actually improving yourself; Improve yourself to help others better. People who only think about themselves are selfish. Only by thinking of others and lowering themselves can they surpass others.
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When you think you are misunderstood, you will spend a lot of time arguing. But it's useless, because there is still judgment and right and wrong in my heart, and I can't find absolute balance. Give everyone more time and space to understand, save the effort to defend, and jump out to see everything, but it's just a dream. Buddha said, "Crossing people is like crossing yourself, crossing yourself and crossing others."
When misunderstood, it takes a lot of time to defend. Everyone is actually stubborn. Instead of trying to painfully reverse other people's judgments, it is better to bear it silently and give everyone more time and space to understand.
If you can't open it, just carry it. If you can't let go, just remember. I can't bear it, just keep it. Just saying that others are right or wrong, I am not perfect; I only say the length of others, but I also have defects; Look at the right and wrong of others, I am not a saint myself.
Come to this world naked, go back naked in the blink of an eye, and the happiest day is to find your own trace in the present time; Crossing people first and then crossing yourself is a soul without depth and sharpening; Everything is regular, and everything in this life is a causal past life; The direct result is all the commands under the universe; With a clean heart, life is beautiful; If you are soft-hearted, everything can be stable.
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