My idea is to face up to the difficulties first. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. I know why it is called a hard experience. I don't want to tell you that life is a kind of tempering, a melting pot of self-cultivation. Many people who live a happy life may have such problems with their relatives around them, but they have turned themselves into Buddhas and are immune to all kinds of poisons. Becoming a nun is an escape, and there is no essential solution to the problem, because as a China person, getting married and being a relative is a lifelong matter. After many years, he is still your husband and your child. How can you escape ~
3. Whether the child enters the rebellious period is beyond his control, but you should know that because he can't control it, you need to know his situation first, and let him feel that someone really knows his ulterior secrets through direct and indirect ways, so that problems that may not be solved will be less nagging, and acquiescence is an infinite force. Silent support is the greatest concern;
4. Husband is weak and ignorant. This definition is vague. Everyone has something to fear, some people are afraid, and some people are not afraid at the same time. You should analyze what kind of person he is, why he is like this, how much you can change him, and whether you have any negative influence on this definition. As the saying goes, it takes two hands to clap, and his definition must have your negative influence, or your positive influence is not enough. Have you tried any other ways to improve these? If you really work hard and have a clear conscience but it doesn't help, then you can choose to give up, because it's beyond your control and God can't blame you.
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