Why do you think the word graduation is melodramatic?
Speaking of graduation, there are many related topics in Zhihu:
It's been three years since graduation. How have you been?
Are the various sentiments and feelings of graduates true?
What kind of experience did you have before and after graduation?
Why is the gap between classmates getting bigger and bigger three or four years after graduation?
It's been a year since graduation. Are you in good shape?
Graduation, as an important dividing point in life, seems to be crowned with a specific meaning by many people, namely graduation and success, graduation and employment, graduation and parting. ......
What comes to mind is a picture of you saying goodbye to your classmates with a runny nose and tears, stepping into the workplace and heading for the peak of your life. There have been many successful studies and chicken soup articles, which are more or less melodramatic.
For a time, I always felt that graduation was like a young eagle being pushed hard on the edge of a cliff, so that you had to learn to fly high by yourself. It doesn't have much time for you to feel how the years pass by in a hurry and how precious the sentimental classmate friendship is.
As you are about to graduate, you may not have found your favorite job yet, and you are very anxious and at a loss.
Before the internship ended, I asked my friend Y about finding a job. She told me that many of us are just filling a loophole in job hunting. If the recruitment information meets your requirements, we will fill it in. We have no idea what we are going to do or what we can do.
So many confused people submitted countless resumes, but few people replied. I finally got in touch with HR, but they all sell insurance. They are really weak, pitiful and helpless.
As you are about to graduate, you may have found a job, but you don't have any work experience or social experience. Compared with the old bird who has worked hard in the workplace for many years, you look really bad. Maybe you find that you don't like this job at all, but you still have no motivation to change.
S, a roommate who is also a biological dog, I once teased her: "Will you stage a sequel to Resident Evil, a person who feels like blowing up the laboratory when doing experiments?"
Now, she is still engaged in the professional work she has studied for four years. In the first week of work, she was discouraged by the old-timers of the unit and asked her to change careers quickly. What a college student can do is too wasteful for her undergraduates.
But she told me that she wanted to change careers, but she felt that she should maintain her professional self-esteem that she had studied for so long.
Looking back on her words later, I feel that the so-called self-esteem that some people want to maintain is because they are too confused and have no clear positioning for their careers.
But think about it carefully, in fact, there are many people who have worked for more than ten years and have not yet figured out their career orientation and what they want to do.
As you are about to graduate, you may be single, introduced to the so-called "friends" by your parents, and gradually face the three mountains of family, car and house.
At the beginning of 20 18, I was busy with my internship and missed several video chat invitations on my dad's wechat, thinking that something important had happened.
Finally, when I had time to reply, I heard him say that his colleague's son and I were colleagues and wanted us to make friends.
Make friends, just make friends, thinking that there are many friends and many roads, and then my mother said, "This man is not very tall."
What is the relationship between making friends with peers and height! !
In March, this busy month of writing papers, I suddenly received five long tones of more than 30 seconds from my mother.
First, the tone is gentle and concerned, and then the style of painting changes suddenly. According to the story Hagrid and I told at that time, it was probably two dog in our village who took a fancy to me and told my mother that he had a house and a car, a stable job and a monthly income of xx, and asked me to meet his precious son everywhere.
Alas, what kind of experience is it to have a mother who is eager to find a partner for her daughter?
You are about to graduate, and you may have a stable relationship. You have learned the trade-offs for your Ta and are working hard for your future life.
According to my best friend, she attended a job interview.
Training for a week, all the way through, won the great recognition of boss.
However, she gave up a few days ago.
Because her people are still waiting for her in the north.
I think she still has regrets.
Along the way, she told me how good the company environment and people are, and that it was her dream workplace.
But the person who mentioned her immediately became a little woman, saying that they discussed how much salary they needed to live in his city in the future, what preparations they should make, saw that there were delicious desserts, and specially asked the boss for a recipe, saying that they would make it for her.
You thought it would be easier to find a job after graduation, but now it seems that this is not the case.
Looking back suddenly, you find that every decision after graduation is becoming more and more important, but the social test paper is full of subjective questions without standard answers, such as what kind of job to look for, whether to be single or married, whether to go home to develop or go to a big city, etc. And no one can help you make a decision.
In fact, you may feel particularly anxious because your vision is not long enough.
You only see 1~2 years in front of you. You think you can have a job in any job after graduation, no matter how much money you earn, so you have entered a screw industry with a dead salary.
Finally, I don't want to be a coward. I want to enter a large-scale industry and find that I don't know what job I am suitable for. So you give in to reality and muddle along.
In fact, at this time, you can think about it.
What kind of person do you want to be in five years, such as in which city, with a house and a car, and married?
How much salary do you need to meet to achieve the life you want in five years?
What industry do you need to engage in to get so much salary?
Then choose your favorite industry and see what skills you need to enter this industry.
Just follow this line of thinking and refine what efforts need to be made every day.
If you want to find a stable job, then find a stable one that can support yourself;
If you simply want to earn a lot of money and pursue a higher quality of life, then find a high-paying industry and see what skills you need to enter this industry.
When looking for a job, it's not what you want, but what you have and what skills you don't have, so from now on, learn by yourself.
When you are anxious and confused, try to calm down and think:
How long will it take you to solve this situation, a day, a week or a year?
Can you accept the cost of solving the problem?
Can you bear the worst result of this matter?
What kind of life do you want to be in five years or 10 years?
Going forward according to your own goals is to recognize the reality and work hard, or to change the status quo.
In short, don't let graduation leave only sadness and sigh "if at the beginning"
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