But the actual situation is often restricted by many conditions. It doesn't mean that you have a small rural courtyard at home. If you want to go back to the countryside, you can really go back to life. My neighbor, Grandma Wang, has two sons, both of whom study best in the village. Later, both sons were admitted to famous universities and stirred up in the village for a while. Many years later, the eldest son went abroad to study. The youngest son works in other places. He is in his thirties, almost 40 years old, and he is not married. Moreover, the city where the youngest son lives is quite far from Grandma Wang's house. After his wife died, he was very worried about the life of his youngest son. My son was also worried about his mother's life, so he took Grandma Wang to live in that city.
Two people live alone, sometimes there are contradictions, and the old people in the city are not used to life, so it is very inconvenient to go there. Grandma Wang sometimes has a headache. It is always too expensive to buy medicine in a pharmacy near the community, but the new rural cooperative medical system in the village is not used here. Sometimes grandma Wang wants to go back to her hometown in the countryside alone, and her son is too old to allow it. Only when the old people in the village are given subsidies every year to go back and take pictures by themselves, can Grandma Wang have the opportunity to go back with the help of relatives and friends. The small courtyard of the rural hometown has long been dilapidated because it has been uninhabited for a long time. Grandma Wang is also very helpless, but there is no good way. So many times, even if there is a small yard in the rural home, it is not easy to return to the rural hometown.
In addition, for young people, it is two different things to be willing to live in the small courtyard of their hometown in rural areas and to really live in their hometown in rural areas. The rural hometown in imagination and memory is always so beautiful. It is romantic to think that "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely", but if you ask the old farmer who is working, he will tell you that "rural life is not so romantic". It is very likely that you will want to leave after staying in your hometown for ten days, because after all, there is still a big gap between the present situation and living environment in the countryside and the life that young people want to pursue.
So sometimes I think that living quietly and leisurely in the small courtyard of my hometown in the countryside may be a luxury. Why do you work so hard? Because everything you like is expensive. Only by unremitting efforts can we live a quiet life in the small courtyard of our hometown in the countryside.