So, Ceng Hui found Lulu and asked her: "You are a woman, working hard outside every day, ups and downs, isn't it good to stay at home? I don't need you to work, just take care of my parents at home. " Lu Li looked at Ceng Hui. She didn't expect Ceng Hui to find her own problems instead of reflecting on herself, so she replied, "This is not the happiness I want. What I want is to have a small house of my own and a good job. " Ceng Hui strongly disagreed with what Lu Li said. He thinks that the happiest thing for women is to stay at home to educate their children and enjoy a comfortable life. So, Ceng Hui said, "I don't think you need to do this at all. You get married, live with my parents and enjoy a relaxed and comfortable life. Is this a happy thing? "
Lu Li listened to Ceng Hui. She felt that Ceng Hui didn't understand her at all and couldn't give her the happiness she wanted. She was disappointed with him and said angrily, "I just want to have a house of our own through our efforts." If you think you can't compete with me, then break up. " When Ceng Hui heard the word "break up", he felt a little scared. He is very far away from home, and he doesn't want to break up. Besides, they are engaged and only one step away from getting married. Therefore, Ceng Hui strongly advised and comforted Lu Li.
However, Lu Li didn't listen at all, and finally packed up and left Ceng Hui's home. Through the events of Ceng Hui and Lulu, we can find that Ceng Hui wants to give Lulu happiness, and Lulu also wants to live happily with Ceng Hui in the future. But because of their definition of happiness and values of life, they broke up later. It's not that I don't love or don't want to be together, but the happiness I want is different from the happiness you want to give me. Although two people walk together because of love, although two people love each other, because of different definitions of happiness, lovers who love each other often break up as soon as they leave.
Men and women love each other because of love. The reason why men and women can stay together for a long time is not only because of love, but also because they have the same definition of happiness. Love can make men and women hold hands tightly, and love can make men and women get the happiness and satisfaction they want. However, if men and women want to go longer and keep the same definition of happiness, they can make two people in love go longer in the future. Maybe some friends will say that as long as two people love each other, all difficulties and setbacks are faced and spent together. I agree with this sentence, but I don't agree.
I agree that as long as two people love each other, some difficulties and setbacks in life can be overcome. It's just that if two people have different definitions of happiness in the process of holding hands, how can they make each other feel the existence of happiness? This requires two people to keep running in, and both need to take a step back and have the same understanding of the pursuit of happiness. Therefore, the love between men and women not only needs love, but also needs two people to reach an agreement on the pursuit of happiness. It's like a love story between Ceng Hui and Lu Li. At first, they were very happy together, but after their engagement,
Two people live together, because of the different definitions of happiness, which makes them have contradictions and quarrels, and finally leads to the breakup of Lu Li. In this relationship, Ceng Hui loves Lu Li, and he wants to give Lu Li happiness, but this kind of happiness is not what Lu Li wants. In this relationship, Lu Li fell in love with Ceng Hui, and she also wanted them to live happily. What she wants is a house for two people and their lives. That's why she works hard, and that's why Ceng Hui is against working away from home.
In fact, if two lovers have different definitions of happiness, if they take a step back and reach an understanding, they will often pursue the happiness they want, which will often make their love blossom and bear fruit. In this love affair in Ceng Hui, if Ceng Hui can work hard, do his own business well, make sure to give Lulu the happiness she wants and put it into action, Ceng Hui can still save her love. In this long-lost relationship, if she can understand Ceng Hui's love for herself, and he also wants to give himself a happy state of mind, put down some work appropriately, and set aside more time with Ceng Hui, then the long-lost five-year love can be saved.
Whether men and women in love or in marriage, if two people have different definitions of happiness, sit down and communicate well, reach a certain understanding, and let both of them work hard for the happiness defined by both sides, then not only love will blossom and bear fruit, but also both men and women will get happiness. Since we choose to hold hands, we should understand our respective definitions of happiness. Since you have chosen to love each other, you must want to spend your life together with each other. Therefore, after understanding your respective definitions of happiness, we should communicate and run in according to different points, so as to reach a * * * understanding. Only in this way can our love last for a long time. Men and women walk together because of love. When men and women walk together, they will go farther and farther, longer and happier, because their definitions of happiness are the same.