Emotionally, Xu Lang, played by Edward Zhang, experienced various difficulties and misunderstandings, and finally gained such a love story.
From this TV series, we can realize several reasons:
I got married after I graduated from An 'an, hoping to find a lifelong support. However, if one party in the marriage relationship is making progress, but the other party is standing still, then the relationship imbalance is inevitable.
Just like An An, she has been married for several years and her son is five years old. She still lives in a fairy tale world. Her son is ill and has a nanny to do the housework. She plays drama and games every day. She calls Lao Yu when she is unhappy. No matter where Lao Yu is or what she is doing, she must appear at home at once.
Because of how much wine Lao Yu drank and how much effort she made, she didn't know that she had no worries about food and clothing. She doesn't understand that the relationship between husband and wife needs to be maintained by both sides.
She didn't know what she had done wrong until the other party was tired and filed for divorce. Take care of this family and take care of yourself for a lifetime. Isn't that his vows when he got married?
However, husband and wife need mutual understanding and tolerance. When Lao Yu came home at eleven o'clock, what he saw was not his wife's warm arms, not a bowl of warm noodles, but a room full of snack garbage. When his son lies on the sofa without a blanket, everyone complains!
Austin said that a happy marriage needs not only the exchange of ideas, but also the exchange of feelings. To keep your feelings in your heart is to keep your wife out of your life.
When Lao Yu came home and stopped sharing his heart with Ann, their hearts became farther and farther away.
Communication between husband and wife is the basis of maintaining a relationship.
Divorce is not terrible, what is terrible is leaving the person you love the most, which is the most unacceptable thing for An An. Because she is married, she is a full-time wife at home, and all her financial resources depend on her ex-husband's charity. After the divorce, she didn't even get custody of her son because she had no financial resources, which was the most unacceptable thing for her.
Therefore, in order to get her son back, she must join the workplace as quickly as possible. Although I was high flyers of Jiao Tong University Animation at school, I had to help in a friend's coffee shop because I didn't go to work for six years and had no work experience.
Fortunately, the Star Comic Book Award gave her a chance to perform. Although she missed the chance to win the grand prize and sign the contract because of her opponent's mischief, her talent was recognized by experts, which gave her the opportunity to learn from the master.
She found her hobbies again, and got out of control in her professional field, so that she could show herself and regain her self-confidence. Later, even Lao Yu looked at her with new eyes. Her ex-husband asked for remarriage, but she refused. She said, "I feel good now, although I have a lot of troubles and I am very tired. Sometimes I want to hide and don't care about anything, but after solving the problem, I feel particularly fulfilled. "
As the saying goes, relying on the mountain to eat the mountain will fall, and everyone will run. Therefore, the one who can accompany himself to the end is himself.
In fact, it also tells us that no matter how much the other person loves himself, we can't lose ourselves, because no one can guarantee that a person will never change his mind about you all his life.
In a word, The Second Time is Beautiful is an urban romance film, but its plot is thought-provoking. Personally, I think it is a drama full of positive energy, which is worth watching.
The second time is beautiful is about a woman, An An, who became a full-time wife after marriage and later became a full-time mother, but was abandoned by her husband and became a single mother. A car accident turned Xu Lang, the legal leader who had never been married, into a single father born in 1980s. Later, they met and fell in love and became a family.
The truth of this TV series is that when you encounter setbacks in life, you should build up confidence when you encounter obstacles, and you can't give up life. One day, a beautiful life will come to you, because God is fair! !
What is commendable is that in the low years, An An clearly understood the essence of life and thoroughly saw that a woman without self-worth would be defeated in a big mess. Ann walked out of the shadow of divorced women and entered Jin's studio, winning everyone's appreciation with her strength and hard work. An An's creativity has been recognized by Master Qingshan, and she is one step closer to the great cartoonist.
Suffering makes dreams shine.
Representative: An An
If Ann and Yu are not divorced, and she is still living the life of a rich and powerful wife, then she must have missed the cartoonist. An An's dream can be realized by suffering. She wants to give Doudou a good material life and can't let Doudou look down on his incompetent mother. She also wants to go out, accumulate wealth for herself and make her life prosperous. She wants people around her to think that she is also a woman with dreams, pursuits and values.
Love dreams by going up a flight of stairs.
Representative: Chloe Wang.
Although Wang Lei, a female companion, is a scheming bitch, she has done many bad things in order to get close to and win Yu's heart, including framing An 'an many times. Throw away Wang Lei's disappointments in life, and love makes her bravely pursue her dreams. In Wang Lei's eyes, Yu is everything to her. In order to be worthy of him, she can only be strict with herself, make herself better and better, keep up with his pace, get the recognition of Yu, and she will succeed. Chloe Wang desperately pursues dreams, mostly for the sake of love. Love is everything to a woman, which has been verified in her.
Dreams are poems, and they are far away.
Representative: Travel around.
Zhou You is the most humble supporting role, but he yearns for poetry and distance. Susan fell in love with him at first sight In order to create opportunities to meet him, Susan often goes to izakaya to eat buckwheat noodles. When Susan confessed to him, he decisively rejected Susan. His dream is to travel around the world, and he doesn't want to be bound by feelings. It seems that there is an interesting soul who travels around, and his dream is always on the road.
Dreams are success.
Representative: Yu
Yu is a best-selling author and a rich second generation. He founded the extraordinary studio and became the best boss for his employees. He signed the book, representing the copyright, and even made Xu Lang the legal adviser of his studio for the copyright. On the road of pursuing his dream, he succeeded, accumulated popularity, possessed wealth and won everyone's respect.
Unemployment ignited dreams.
Representative: Xu Lang.
Because of Wang Lei's cheating, Xu Lang lost his job. Instead of being depressed, he succeeded in starting a business and started his own law firm in partnership with Lei. On the road of dreams, Xu Lang is quite satisfied. He didn't dare to tinker around for fear that he wouldn't create a good environment for his daughter to grow up.
Although these young people in The Second Time is Beautiful have different dreams, they all made sacrifices for their dreams on the road of pursuing them. For example, Xu Lang opened a law firm because he bought his own house. Ann became a cartoonist because she realized the hardships of life after divorce.
How can we make our dreams come true? Xiaoying watched The Second Time is Beautiful and summed up the following points, hoping to help you.
1, know yourself
After losing his job, Xu Lang clearly realized his advantages and opened his own law firm. Xu Lang decided to take the first step after considering his comprehensive ability. He is not daydreaming.
2. perseverance
After Ann lost her marriage in the play, she realized that the reality was cruel and she had no other skills to bring her considerable income. Only by picking up the initial dream, relying on hard work and persistence to succeed step by step, with flowers and applause.
Don't confuse dreams with reality.
Many times, reality is far more cruel than dreams. You solve the problem of food and clothing first, and then talk about dreams. Otherwise, it is also an unrealistic dream, but it will make you fall into a strange circle.
These young people in The Second Time is Beautiful set an example for everyone. What if the dream comes true?
However, whether your dream comes true or not, you should treat it with normality. Everything is fate. As long as you work hard, you will eventually get something. If you don't realize your dream, don't despair of life. All roads lead to Rome, and what is suitable is always the best.
The main characters of this TV series are Olivia and Edward Zhang, who play divorced "single parents" with children.
The title of the play is "The Second Time is Beautiful". The main core value concept is to tell many people who have had similar experiences. Although you may have experienced a failed marriage, it doesn't matter. Don't be afraid because you have had setbacks. Everyone has the right to be happy again.
"The Second Beauty" takes marriage as the topic, integrates the workplace, dreams, self-seeking, friendship, affection and parenting education, and launches an urban emotional drama around An Anhe and their friends.
In recent episodes, children's psychological activities have been presented by comparing the ways of getting along with Doudou and An 'an, and the ways of getting along with Xu Lang and Guoguo.
For most people, they will choose Xu Lang's education method, thinking that children should be taught more knowledge and plan their future direction from an early age.
But from the performance of Guoguo and Doudou, we can find that Ann is with Doudou, and Doudou has the final say at home. She just wants to teach Doudou, a five-year-old child, how to play better and have a happier and more relaxed childhood.
Obviously, accompanied by An 'an Education, Doudou grew healthier, more positive and optimistic, and more imaginative.
However, under the strict instructions of Xu Lang, fruits are also under great pressure invisibly. This part also provides reference for many parents to educate their children.
In addition, this drama combines the role of a lawyer and the role of a cartoonist, in fact, it also appeals to commercial users to respect the copyright of the author's works from the side, and some villains appear just to let people choose the proper way to get what they want.
But the main core of this drama is naturally to convey some positive attitudes to us, so that people can't give up on themselves no matter how hard and desperate they are, and always stick to their original intentions. Only by being yourself and becoming a spiritually and economically independent individual can we get better happiness.
This "The Second Time is Beautiful" and "My First Half Life" are both routines, which are simple and clear. Women should do well whether they are full-time wives or not, and full-time wives should be excellent and perfect. If you become a full-time wife, addicted to eating, drinking and endless shopping in buy buy, that kind of woman is really not cute.
I have met many stay-at-home wives in my life. They all take good care of their families, watch their children cook and have a well-organized family. Such a woman is also cherished by her husband. The key point is that the woman in the play, after becoming a housewife, did not do a good job as a housewife.
In the first half of my life, I bought it in buy buy. All kinds of luxuries.
In The Second Time is Beautiful, An An is not as sensible as a child.
Therefore, the simplest truth is that when you are a full-time wife, you should be perfect, not let yourself run amok. How happy it would be if Ann could fully improve herself and be a wife for her husband! It's a pity that she is not as sensible as a child. It's amazing.
In the end, the heroines were forced to come out and choose jobs, and both of them were very successful. Of course, this is a TV series. Once a woman has been isolated from society for so many years, it is still difficult to re-enter society. However, at least point out a direction for women, that is, people still have to work hard and stand on their own feet!
Women in the workplace are the most attractive women!
I'm currently following the play. Judging from the current plot, it is a drama that expresses college girls going straight from bunk beds to double beds. After marrying Gao Fushuai, they had a son, and her husband's various loves were lost by himself. Her husband is tired of asking for a divorce. Since graduation, she has already thrown away all her glory, leaving only her husband and children. After the divorce, the hostess worked hard to raise her son. In other words, stay-at-home mothers can do well. As long as she gives them a chance, she will stick to it. In fact, divorce is also a good thing, so that she can be more perfect for the second time. From the family, career and children, it will be a perfect ending. Only by striving to be better and more beautiful and not attached to anyone will her independent personality be more attractive, so let her husband regret it!
Actually, only a little. Women should be independent.
However, compared with The First Half of My Life, there is not enough drama conflict, and the audience is always treated as fools. An An didn't grasp the emotions at all in the episodes of divorce, and the audience would feel perfunctory, even though the employment seems to have no twists and turns.
The ordinary plot depends on Chloe Wang, and all the turning points in this play are on Chloe Wang.
In terms of acting, Chloe Wang, an actor, is promising in the future, a little clever, unlike An An.
Girlfriend one, Girlfriend two, episode, nothing to see. Girlfriend two just wants to make time, okay?
Except Olivia, no one can play Ann as a natural ignorance.
The only relief is that I feel a little sweet when I see An An and Xu.
1, don't stay married for the children.
2, the first marriage is unfortunate, in order to change the shortcomings of both sides.
3. The importance of mistress
4。 Second marriage is also very happy.