The counselor monk is here. Where's me?

Introduction of Huaxia Psychological Counselor: Jobs said that your time is limited, so don't live for others. Don't be limited by dogma, don't live in other people's thoughts, and bravely follow your own heart and intuition. Only my heart and intuition can know what you really think, and everything else is secondary. A messenger named Zhang San escorted a sly monk to serve. On the way, in order to prevent mistakes, he counts all the important things every morning. He touched the luggage first and said to himself, "Here is the luggage." He touched the official document of escorting the monk and said to me, "The official document has arrived." Then he touched the monk's bald head and the rope tied to him and said, "Here comes the monk." Finally, he touched his head and said, "I was there, too." Monk Zhang Sanhe has been walking on the road for several days. Every morning, they count like this. They don't lack anything, so they can go on their way with confidence. Not a day goes by without missing it. The monk saw Zhang San's every move. One day the monk had a brainwave and came up with a good way to escape. One night, as usual, they both stayed in an inn. At dinner, the monk advised Zhang San to drink: "Sir, it doesn't matter if you drink more. In a day or two at most, we will arrive. When you come back to the present, you will be selected by your superiors for your meritorious service in escorting me. Isn't this something to celebrate? Isn't it worth drinking more? " Zhang San was elated and drank one cup after another. Gradually, his hands and feet didn't listen to him, and finally he got drunk and snored in bed. The monk quickly found a razor, shaved Zhang San's hair three or two times, untied himself and tied it to Zhang San, and then fled overnight. On the third morning, Zhang Sanjiu woke up. He absently opened his eyes and began to count routinely. He touched the luggage first and said, "Here's the luggage." Touch the document again and say, "Here's the document." "Monk ... hey, where's the monk?" Zhang San was frightened. Suddenly, he saw a mirror in front of him, saw his bald head and felt the rope tied to himself, so he was happy: "OK, here comes the monk." However, he immediately wondered: "The monk is here, so where did I go?" After laughing, the counselor talked about the principle. Knowledge is power. Psychological counselors explain the psychological term "self" as "unfamiliar friend", which is familiar and often confused. It is your "thing in my hand", but we often turn a blind eye to it, as if it is far away and the mystery is vague. Self-awareness is gradually formed and developed in the process of socialization. The multi-faceted and multi-level cognition, experience and evaluation of self and its surrounding environment is the sum of all the thoughts, feelings and attitudes of individuals about themselves. Including my physical condition, such as height, posture and appearance? It also includes understanding my psychological characteristics, such as understanding my interests, hobbies, temperament, temperament, talent and so on. It also includes knowing your relationship with the surrounding environment and others, such as knowing your relationship with the people around you and knowing your position and role in the collective. Self-awareness is not an isolated psychological function, but a multi-level, multi-positive and multi-dimensional psychological system. Self-awareness includes two parts. One is "subjective self", that is, subjective "I", who is the discoverer of my activities; The other is the "objective self", that is, the objective "I", which is my perceived physical and mental activities. Anthropologist Meade called the former "I" and the latter "I". The distinction between "subjective self" and "objective self" is the basis and prerequisite for the formation and development of self-consciousness. Who am I? What kind of person am I? what would i like to do ? what can I do? What should I do? These problems that often haunt every college student's mind are related to their self-awareness. It is also in the process of interpersonal communication, in the process of fulfilling the learning responsibilities of various universities, and in the process of answering the above questions from time to time, college students examine themselves from time to time and gradually become perfect and mature. This is about counselors and monks. Where is "I"? The answer. 766