Some things you think are rambling and incomprehensible because you first assume that analysis is professional and want to learn. In fact, some analysis itself is really sloppy. But behind that rambling, there may be a rich, knowledgeable or profound heart. If your heart is rich and open enough, you can draw nutrition from those gossips.
I think the most important and basic thing to be an excellent psychological counselor is to know and experience the inner self. Human nature is interlinked. When you know yourself well enough, you will be able to grasp other people's hearts more accurately.
As you feel, Mr. Li's analysis is the most accurate. I feel that most other experts are applying and explaining theories. People's psychology is complex and diverse, and the theory cannot be applied to everyone. The same emotions may also come from different reasons.
External knowledge and theory only help and inspire our inner self. When you have enough detailed and profound experience in your heart, external knowledge actually just gives you an exact answer that you have already experienced.
As teacher Li analyzed, first of all, you already have a general and vague feeling in your heart. After hearing his explanation, you will feel, yes, that's it.
Talent may be innate, or it may be perfected through life experience. As Li Zixun once said, life is a process of experience. The more you experience, the richer your life will be.
But it is not necessarily that people with more life experiences can understand how people help others, because the diversity and complexity of experiences will also bring shocks, conflicts, troubles and constraints to people's hearts. Therefore, it is also very important and crucial to be able to sort out, release, balance and integrate the feelings in your heart. I think you think that those rambling and complicated analyses come from some knowledgeable and experienced hearts, and you don't know how to sort them out.
Just like the sea, it can hold hundreds of rivers, but it will not be blocked by the influx of hundreds of rivers, because the sea is vast and far-reaching.
Give you an address where you can ask Mr. Li questions. He will pick out some questions to answer. If he can pick out your problems, congratulations on winning the lottery. In fact, I really want to know how Miss Li will answer your question.
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