Meet sb. in person
On the wedding day, the man will put the prepared sedan chair, pig legs, chicken and fish in a mahogany box.
It's better for married people to have even numbers (together with the groom). (Six, ten, twelve people)
Take two, six or twelve cars (depending on the number of women accompanying him), and each car takes an even number of people.
Hi car's front windshield has the word "happy" on the upper right, and the door handle of the car is tied with ribbons of the same color for identification.
Add two bright red belts and car colors to the bride's car or insert flowers on the hood.
Complete the motorcade before departure. The first part is the vehicle leading the way. The person sitting in the front seat is responsible for leading the way and setting off firecrackers along the way.
The fourth part (usually the second part) can't arrange the bride's gift car. The matchmaker sits in the front seat, and the groom and flower girl sit in the back seat.
Call the drivers of all cars before departure, and tell them the time, process, route, assembly point, contact number, woman's address and telephone number in detail. Try not to overtake or cut in line and keep the team intact. (You can draw a road map in advance and distribute it to drivers or prepare to contact by radio. )
The groom puts on his clothes after checking the articles, vehicles and personnel, and pins the corsage and name tag on his left chest.
People attending the wedding will put wedding flowers (red) and name tags on their chests. (male left and female right)
The man's master or elder accompanied the groom to twist incense to worship his ancestors and told him to go out to meet his wife and bless peace and success.
The groom gives red envelopes to the married people.
The groom should get on the bus with a bouquet.
Ready, start at the right time, the leading car will burn all the guns, light firecrackers in front of the door, and the team will start in turn.
Press: According to the ancient ceremony, the leading car should shoot at intersections and bridge heads to exorcise evil spirits. Today we can simply cooperate with environmental protection.
When the leading car approaches the woman's house, it should inform her of the upcoming news by firing a gun, and then slowly drive in after the woman fires a gun to welcome her.
The woman is driven by a male relative (junior), and the groom gives the man a red envelope and gets off with a bouquet.
The groom is accompanied by a matchmaker to enter the door together.
Married people will take the things out of the car and give them to the woman's relatives and friends.
The woman's elders led the married into the living room.
The bride's relatives and friends give the dress to the bride to dress up, and pin a corsage and name tag on her right chest or waist.
The matchmaker counts the gifts and red envelopes with the woman's officiant and discusses the wedding process.
The bride's dowry staff should pin the wedding flower (pink) and the name tag on her chest. (male left and female right)
The woman's relatives and friends put the sacrifices in front of the sacred case and prepared to worship the ancestors.
The woman invited the man to eat glutinous rice balls (unfinished) and egg tea (only tea).
After the bride is dressed up, she eats the sister table first, and then is helped out of the hall by the matchmaker and lucky elders.
The bride and groom stand side by side, facing the immortal Buddha statue (male right and female left). The bride's mother and uncle lit candles and incense, and offered incense to the immortal Buddha and ancestors.
The bride and groom turn left and right, face to face, and the groom gives the bouquet to the bride, and the two bow three times to each other. (If you don't bow down, the groom will cover the bride's veil at this time.)
The bride and groom knelt in front of the hall and warned them to live in love. Both the bride and groom wish the bride and groom a "long and healthy life" and then kowtow three times. The bride and groom put on veils, give them a red envelope, and then lift them up.
When the auspicious moment comes, the bride is assisted by the groom and the woman (male left and female right) and walks out of the hall together (don't step on the threshold). The matchmaker is outside the door, holding a gossip rice screen (or a black umbrella) and covering the head of the bride and groom.
The bride gets on the bus first and the groom gets on the bus through the other door. (male left and female right)
The man tied the bamboo and sugarcane prepared by the woman to the roof of the limousine, and hung a piece of pork and a red envelope at the root.
The woman gave the dowry items and gifts to the man and loaded them into the car.
The man arranged for the woman's dowry to get on the bus. (Every car needs people, even numbers are preferred. )
When the lead car starts with a gun, the woman should also fire a gun to show good luck and avoid evil spirits.
At the same time when the limousine starts, the bride throws a fan (a red envelope and handkerchief tied to the tail) from the window for her younger brother and sister to pick up, which is commonly called "letting go of her temper", or leaves the fan (kindness) to her parents, and feelings are inseparable. Brides should not look back.
While the limousine is moving, the host of the bride pours wine behind the limousine or water (or rice) in the washbasin (or bowl) to show that there is water under the bridge. The bride should not have the idea of turning back (or regretting) or divorcing her wife.
Press: According to the ancient ceremony, the leading car should shoot at intersections and bridge heads to exorcise evil spirits. Today we can simply cooperate with environmental protection.
Reference: Some customs just don't want to go back because the departure and return directions are different or the roads are different.
The groom should have finished the wedding, but before the opening ceremony, he drove to the woman's house to deliver the 12-page post and invited her to officiate. Sometimes it's a long way or time is short, so after a while in the garage, the groom and the matchmaker get off the bus together, go back to the woman's house and send the 12-page post to the woman's wedding party, and arrange another car to send it.
When the motorcade is about to arrive at the man's home, the leading car should fire a gun to inform.
The man welcomed him with a pike, and the motorcade entered in turn.
This man, a boy, is holding a red lacquer wedding tray with two big oranges in it. He came to the bride's limousine, opened the door and asked the bride to get off, commonly known as sedan chair. The bride will touch the orange, switch places, and then put a red envelope under the orange, and the boy will come back.
The groom and the matchmaker get off the bus first, the matchmaker prepares gossip rice screen (or black umbrella) and lead powder, and the groom goes to the bride's door.
The man invited a blessed woman to help the bride and groom get off the bus together, and the matchmaker lifted a rice screen over the head of the bride and groom and entered the gate together.
When they came to the gate, the matchmaker put down the rice screen and walked into the gate, sprinkling lead powder and saying, "Before people arrive, enter the hall first to gain popularity." In front of the threshold of the hall, put a brazier (oven, burning charcoal inside) and tiles (or use sandalwood and jasmine grass). When the fire is strong, the bride will cross the stove with her right foot and then step on the tiles, which is commonly known as excessive fire.
The man invited the woman's dowry staff to sit at the door.
The man unloaded bamboo and sugarcane and hung them on the door frame. The pork hanging on the bamboo was given to the man, and the red envelope was taken away by the person who unloaded it.
After the bride and groom enter the hall, the man will accompany them to hold a wedding ceremony to worship the immortal Buddha. In the face of the immortal Buddha, men and women stand side by side, worshipping the immortal Buddha first and then the ancestors. The man's wedding ceremony should tell the immortal ancestors face to face that someone in the family is getting married today, and pray that the immortal ancestors will bless the prosperity, home and prosperity of the fifth century.
After the visit, the groom lifted the bride's veil with both hands and the bride and groom bowed to each other. If there is no tea ceremony, the bride and groom will go straight to the bridal chamber.
The man's wedding ceremony is to sit in front of the hall, and the bride and groom immediately bow to the man's wedding ceremony. The bride holds a teacup in both hands. Once tea is served at the man's wedding, the bride and groom will be given a red envelope at the man's wedding.
Note: In the past, after the bride got off the sedan chair, she went straight to the bridal chamber and went out to worship her ancestors three days later.
There are two chairs in the bridal chamber, with the groom's black trousers on the chairs and copper or paper money on the trousers. After the bride and groom enter the bridal chamber, they sit side by side, symbolizing the unity of husband and wife, sharing weal and woe, wealth and wealth.
If not, the groom will lift the bride's veil at this time.
The bridesmaid enters the bride's room and the groom gives the bridesmaid a red envelope.
The bride's brother carried the bride's lamp (uncle's lamp) into the bridal chamber, put it on the bed, and read: "Uncle enters the lamp, the newly married couple", commonly known as uncle enters the lamp.
People who pick their children's buckets (in Five Blessingg, they must be rich or expensive, talented, childlike and well-off) carry their children's buckets into the new house and take away the red envelopes in the buckets.
The matchmaker or the elders of men and women bring a bowl of pig hearts into the new house and feed them to the bride and groom, commonly known as "eating pig hearts will make a heart", and the bride gives people red envelopes.
The matchmaker or the elder of the man or woman brings a bowl of glutinous rice balls into the new house and feeds them to the bride and groom, commonly known as "eating glutinous rice balls", which symbolizes sweetness and completeness, and the bride gives people red envelopes.
The younger generation of the man will come into the house to offer sweet tea or candy and call the bride. The bride should respond one by one and prepare a red envelope or handkerchief for it.
The man asked the boy who belongs to the dragon in the zodiac to roll on the bed of the new house, and the matchmaker read auspicious words: "Turn over the shop, make tea shop, turn over the shop, make a scholar, turn over the shop, make a scholar", commonly known as turn over the shop.
If you don't ask someone to turn over the bed, the groom will take off his shoes and walk around the bed.
The bride's dowry can enter the new house to take photos with the bride and groom.
Note: No one is allowed to sit on the bed.
The man asked the woman to accompany him to eat glutinous rice balls.
After a short break, you can arrange family photos and group photos as a souvenir.
If you are free, you can also arrange to shoot outdoors.
Men prepare banquets and observe ceremonies. The groom personally delivers the twelve invitations to the bride's wedding banquet before the banquet opening, and the groom picks them up or goes by himself.
Shi bride cha
This is a custom in the southern provinces of Taiwan Province. After the wedding day, relatives, friends and guests ask the bride to hold sweet tea to invite their elders and relatives, commonly known as "eating bride tea".
When eating bride tea, we should pay attention to ethics, put elders and relatives first, and then peers and friends, and arrange seats according to seniority. When the bride serves tea, she is usually accompanied by a matchmaker. When guests receive tea, they should recite four auspicious words, commonly known as quadruple.
The procedure of eating bride tea
The bride holds sweet tea in her hand, reads "The bride is full of money when she leaves the hall", enters the hall, presents them in order of seniority, and then turns back to the new house.
Offer winter melon candy, candied fruit or candy to worship.
Cigarettes and betel nuts.
Get a lighter and light a cigarette.
Take back the teacups and give red envelopes to relatives and friends.
The bride presents gifts, such as handkerchiefs and soaps, to every relative and friend attending the tea party. As a symbol of reciprocity.
Tansy
On the third day of the bride's wedding, as usual, the bride's brothers (at most two) bring cakes and red flowers to visit the newly married couple, and the groom gives them red envelopes, commonly known as "meeting the bride".
Red flowers should be given to the bride and exchanged with the headdress flowers inserted at the time of marriage, indicating that they will "blossom and bear fruit" and "have children".
Modern customs are mostly on the wedding day; After the newcomers enter the bridal chamber, they will explore the room.
Visit her parents.
Three days after marriage, the bride returns home, which is called "mothering in the province", "going home in three dynasties" and "turning around to entertain guests", meaning "never forgetting her mother after marriage". When the new son-in-law visited his parents-in-law, he thanked them to strengthen the friendship between the in-laws.
Usually the bride's sister-in-law goes to the groom's house and invites the bride and groom to go back to their parents' house together. It is advisable to accept invitations in most mornings, have lunch at noon and go home before sunset. Don't spend the night outside for four months before marriage, so after the mothering feast, the bride and groom will go back to the man's house together. )
Note: it is a custom in the north for the woman to treat you on the day of engagement; According to southern customs, women eat and drink on Mother's Day.
When visiting relatives, the groom should bring gifts, such as oranges, apples (sweet), bananas (greetings), rice cakes or oranges (symbolizing that the bride's stomach will swell up and get pregnant), wine and other gifts (even numbers) to the Yue family.
The woman should prepare a gift in return: six fragrant rice cakes, glutinous rice cakes, peach cakes and candied fruit, two sugarcane branches with roots and leaves (wishing the couple sweet and sweet, head to tail), one pair or two pairs of breeders (one rooster and one hen for two or three months, for the bride to supplement when giving birth), oranges and bananas for the couple to bring back to the man. The modern custom has been changed to bring the above items back to the man by limousine on the wedding day. )
Note: On the third day after the wedding, I went back to my mother's house and called it "the head turned to the guest"; On the sixth or twelfth day, I went back to my mother's house and called it "second turn"; The full moon back to her mother's house is called "three-turn guest"; There is also the custom of going back to my parents' home after four months. When returning to her parents' home, the couple should bring gifts to the woman, and the woman should also prepare gifts in return. Newcomers bring fruits, and women return gifts: red circles (even numbers) and rice cakes represent "full moon", hearts (even numbers) and other cakes represent "April".
Marriage taboo
Marriage taboo Zodiac is a gift of the tiger, because the tiger will hurt people, so as not to lead to discord or infertility between husband and wife.
The mirror in the bride's room should not be lent to others within four months of marriage, so the mirror in the dowry closet or dressing table should be covered with red paper and can only be taken down after four months.
Avoid staying out overnight within four months of marriage.
Avoid participating in other people's weddings, funerals and festive activities within four months after marriage to avoid conflicts.
Ceremony viewing procedure
Wedding begins (music and guns are fired at the same time)
Male and female guests are seated (seated)
The officiating party is seated.
Introduce people to their seats.
The witness is seated.
The bridesmaid and groom are invited to sit down (play music).
The witness read the marriage certificate.
The bride and groom bowed three times at the wedding.
Bride and groom exchange ornaments (from bridesmaid to witness)
Finishing seals
Bride seal
Introducer seal
Host seal
Witness seal
play music
Witness's testimony
Introducer's speech
Congratulatory message from guests
The officiating guest delivered a speech of thanks.
Speech by the bride and groom.
The bride and groom thanked the witness and bowed.
Avoidance of witnesses
The bride and groom thanked the introducer and bowed.
Referrer withdrawal
The bride and groom thanked and bowed to the couple who presided over the wedding.
Retirement of married people
The bride and groom bowed their thanks to the guests.
The bridesmaid led the bride and groom into the bridal chamber.
Li Cheng (shooting while playing music)
Declaration of household registration and marriage registration
Within 0/5 days after marriage/kloc-,one party needs to declare the household registration and marriage registration at the household registration authority, and will be fined if it fails to do so within the time limit.
Carry files:
Two copies of marriage certificate. [Pay attention to whether the date and place of marriage, the signature and seal of the man, the woman, the witness (II) and the married person (groom and bride) on the certificate have been filled in and sealed]
Seal, ID card, photo of husband and wife. (Get a new ID card)
household registration