Can a relationship counselor help keep an unfaithful husband?
Yes, but it depends on the actual situation of the affair and how to save the ex-wife's heart. As an emotional counselor, an extramarital husband with some conditions is not recommended to stay. The big problem we encounter in our marriage life is extramarital affairs. It is irresponsible to have an affair, whether it is social morality or feelings, but for many people, we must fully consider our own emotional factors, family factors and the natural environment in which children grow up. We have no choice but to stay. However, retention is also discussed in different situations, and not all situations are suitable for saving the husband's heart. The other party has long felt nothing in this family, and he is completely reluctant to part with it in this family, so _ this feeling is _ necessary to keep. How to save the heart of ex-wife? But if the other person still has feelings, it is nostalgia for family, children and you. This is the most valuable retention. So it is possible to keep the husband studying abroad, but we need to discuss the situation.
_ You don't have to keep a trace of emotion.
There is a feeling of sadness. The cheating party has long been indifferent to this family and this married life. Basically, it has long been unscrupulous not to go home and live together after marriage. Although the other party has no name, it has been torn. It also shows that there is a mentality of reserving space, and how to save such an ambiguous relationship if you don't want to break up, which is of little use value and can't be reserved. Emotions are far away from you, and even children don't care. Why do you want to stay? So in this case, the best way is to divorce immediately, don't procrastinate, fight for your own interests, let the other party leave home cleanly, and ensure the greater rights and interests of yourself and your children. I don't want to break up How can I find myself after leaving Playboy? Only in this way can I have a wider range of talents and meet people who are more suitable for me.
Those who want to repent after losing their senses must be retained.
Impulse is the devil, all people will be tempted by various natural environments, and it is inevitable that they will be irrational. If he can't bear it, he will divorce. If he is irrational and has feelings for his family, children and you, it is very easy to keep him. First of all, we should change the status quo, dress ourselves up more, improve ourselves, and communicate with her husband more, so that we can truly feel the true thoughts in her heart, prescribe the right medicine and save her heart. This kind of person is often able to retain, but also very worth retaining, just because of the existence of emotion, so emotion is the basis of retention. Whether for children or for their own feelings, how to save their wives, as long as they have, there will be expectations, which is very worth retaining.
Retention is not once and for all.
What the emotional counselor can do is to give you the best advice and specific guidance, but how to re-operate the your relationship after retaining it is still up to you. After check-in, it is not once and for all. Only by learning business feelings well can you control your husband in the palm of your hand and let him learn how to take care of his family, how to save his wife and cherish his children. Emotion is also sociology. Emotional counselors are teachers who help you deal with some difficult problems. Do you really know them or do you have to rely on yourself?