First, love spouse consultation:
First marriage counseling
Through interview or questionnaire evaluation, this paper analyzes the personality characteristics and spouse selection tendency of the help seekers, and provides matching spouse selection suggestions according to the social psychological knowledge of spouse selection, the situation of the help seekers and the legal conditions of marriage.
(2) Love counseling
Analyze and evaluate the love relationship of help seekers, and give suggestions on improving love communication skills; Suggestions on the rights and obligations of settling love disputes, trial marriage and cohabitation; Help the parties to alleviate or eliminate love barriers and psychological trauma, and carry out crisis intervention when necessary; Prevent dating violence.
(3) Premarital counseling
Help the help-seekers understand the values, personality characteristics and communication methods of both sides, guide the help-seekers on marriage, and overcome their fear of marriage; Give advice on legal procedures, weddings, family planning, marital property agreements, financial management, etc.
(4) Remarriage and spouse selection consultation
Provide psychological guidance for those who are ready to remarry, and provide predictive guidance for reorganizing the property and children in the family; Negotiation of rights and obligations between stepparents and children.
Second, the relationship between husband and wife counseling
(1) Psychological counseling during the running-in period of marriage
Provide advice to help seekers and establish a suitable relationship model between husband and wife; Provide suggestions for help seekers to solve disputes such as rights and obligations, housework distribution, living habits and property management during the newly-married running-in period; Help seekers solve common sexual problems in their new marriage.
(2) the adjustment of the relationship between husband and wife
Based on the theory of family system arrangement, this paper analyzes the important factors affecting the relationship between husband and wife of help seekers, and provides suggestions for the help seekers to coordinate their relationship with family of origin. Master the skills of dealing with the contradiction between husband and wife, provide suggestions on the communication skills of husband and wife, and help the seekers to establish appropriate family rules; Adjust the relationship between husband and wife, adjust the relationship between husband and wife in empty nest families, and provide advice and help to help those who ask for help on difficult issues such as foreign-related marriage, extra-marital childbirth and bigamy.
(3) fertility counseling
Provide solutions to psychological problems caused by fertility and husband-wife relationship; Help those who ask for help to realize the transformation of their parents' roles.
(4) Marriage change consultation
Analyze the causes of the marital changes of the help seekers and provide solutions to the marital crisis for the help seekers; Provide advice to help seekers on handling separation, divorce, property division and child support; Provide counseling for help seekers and solve psychological problems caused by marital changes; Provide solutions to the problem of property concealment and transfer in divorce; Provide solutions for disputes such as child support and visits after divorce.
(5) Counseling on the effectiveness of marriage
Analyze and judge the invalid marriage, revocable marriage, de facto marriage and other issues of help seekers and put forward suggestions for treatment;
Third, parent-child relationship consultation
(A) Parents' education consultation
Guide and help clients to understand the role of parents, and improve their role ability and knowledge of their rights and obligations as parents.
(2) Parent-child communication and consultation
Evaluate the relationship between clients and children, analyze the causes of parent-child conflict from the perspective of family members, explore and utilize the resources of family system, conduct group consultation on parent-child relationship, provide suggestions for clients to deal with parent-child conflict, and help clients improve their communication skills with children; Assist the help-seekers to correct their children's behavior and provide suggestions for solving difficult problems such as adolescent internet addiction, juvenile delinquency and running away from home; Provide suggestions to solve the problem of child abuse.
(3) Consultation on the relationship between adoptive parents and children
Provide advice to help seekers to solve the relationship between adoptive parents, biological parents and adopted children.
(d) Stepparent-child relationship counseling
Instruct help seekers to deal with the relationship between stepparents, biological parents and stepchildren, and improve their skills in getting along.
Fourth, family conflict counseling.
(1) Domestic Violence Counseling
Analyze and evaluate the causes, types, development process and danger degree of domestic violence, and provide suggestions and referral services for help seekers to prevent domestic violence; Give advice to help seekers solve difficult problems such as sexual abuse.
(2) Family change consultation
Help the help-seekers to change their cognition of family changes such as death, disappearance and accidents of their loved ones; Provide crisis intervention suggestions for major accidents, suicidal tendencies and threats of violence. In the family of the helper; Providing advice to help those seeking help to deal with sexual conflicts, sexual abuse, incest and other problems;
Five, other family members relationship counseling
(1) Brother-sister relationship consultation
In view of the rights distribution, economic disputes, emotional conflicts, parental support and other issues in the relationship between brothers and sisters, provide solutions for help seekers.
(2) consultation on the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren
This paper analyzes the main family patterns of the help-seekers, and puts forward some suggestions for the help-seekers in view of the problems of education, support and upbringing in the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren, so as to improve the communication skills between generations.
(3) In-laws consultation
Provide targeted solutions to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Weng Xu, sister-in-law, sister-in-law, emotional conflict in brother-in-law, economic disputes, power distribution and other issues;
Consultation on family property disputes with intransitive verbs
Provide solutions to disputes over marital property and inheritance.