Through studying in the era of brain coffee, I changed from an anxious mother to a happy mother.
There are many examples of children benefiting, but the biggest one is themselves. Their sleep has improved, and their mood is easy to fluctuate from the original, without realizing their shortcomings as parents. Now they are slowly awakening their souls and gradually stabilizing their emotions. It is easy to perceive their emotions, really listen to their children's voices, and discover their bright spots.
Share the outline,
First, how to bring me peace of mind in the era of brain coffee and harvest a happy and learning-loving child.
Second, why did I come to the age of brain coffee?
Third, how to be a wise parent and let children fall in love with learning without beating and cursing.
Good evening, parents and friends who have the most energy, love learning and wisdom.
I am Zhou, from the beautiful Ludao, which is a very beautiful scenic spot in Xiamen, Fujian. Gulangyu Island is here. You are welcome to visit us when you are free.
First of all, thank you very much, Miss Yun Hui. Thank you, General Manager Wu, for providing me with such a good platform and giving me the opportunity to grow with you. I appreciate you taking the time to listen to my sharing tonight. If my sharing can bring you some help and inspiration, I feel very satisfied. Finally, I am very grateful to Mr. Wu for sharing the headphones in the cerebral palsy era and giving me such a good product. It changed me from a very anxious mother to a very happy mother.
I used to be a stay-at-home mom. As we all know, on the one hand, when you take care of your children, they are around 24 hours a day, and no one can replace them, so it is easy for you to become irritable. On the other hand, without income, I feel more stressed. Even when the child was about two years old, he suffered from depression for a while. It is when the child is crying that his heart is dark. Thought about throwing the baby upstairs. I thought it was horrible.
Later, I learned the growth process of women and slowly got out of depression, and the situation was relatively better. Last year, children began to go to kindergarten, and with some time of their own, the situation is even better. Not so depressed. But I often get angry with my child, especially when she is crying or telling him not to eat for a long time, she puts a hanger next to her and often threatens him that I won't want you if you do this again. Therefore, in fact, children are timid and insecure. They often sleep until midnight and cry. I used to go to kindergarten, sometimes I could cry until 7: 00 am 10 am, but I just refused to go out.
As you can imagine, my mood is also very volatile. I said I wouldn't hit the children before, but I still couldn't help it.
In September this year, I came into contact with the headphones of the brain coffee era. We should know that the original offline courses cost tens of thousands, and our headphones are the first whole brain development product to drop below 1,000 yuan. I am also grateful that I made a quick decision that day. The idea at that time was to give their children a better education.
By listening to headphones every day, I become very stable and happy. After learning from Jimmy, I also understand the pressure of children. So far, I haven't hit her for a long time, and I haven't even said a word to my child. Sometimes I joke that I haven't hit my baby for a long time. When I call to play, she will say, no, the more children love, the cuter they are. It's not cute or ugly if you fight. I think she has become better and happier.
Now our parent-child relationship is very good and we are very happy every day. The methods taught by teachers are also practiced, such as reading classics. When the child is young, she can let the Chinese learning machine at home play for 24 hours. After school, she consciously writes a copybook every day, about 100 Chinese characters. One day, I asked him to sleep before finishing, but she refused, saying that she had promised to write a page every day and sleep after finishing. Read at least four or five picture books before going to bed every night. I am willing to accompany her to read ten books. Every time I tell her it's late today, I go to bed after reading five books and read it tomorrow. Then listen to each other's heartbeat for a minute, and finally leave the headphones on and listen to sleep together. One day she forgot to wear it. She called headphones!
I think to make children love learning, we must first make the link and flow of love between us and our children very smooth. If you break the link of love, set an example first, face the photo or write a love post, tell her how you feel, your love, and let love flow slowly.
My daughter often tells me that my mother listens to me and I listen to her. When I was a skinner occasionally, I told her that my mother didn't listen to you, and she said that you didn't listen to me and I didn't listen to you. So you see, it's a vicious circle. If the child is disobedient, whoever suffers will change, and the change will start with me. The biggest advantage of brain coffee is being awakened.
When I was not awakened before, I thought about my contribution to my children all day. I am angry that the child hasn't changed and hasn't eaten well. The relationship will definitely not be good, right?
Now I will consider her problems from her point of view. Will ask her why she did it? Ask her how she feels.
Many times before, for example, if she didn't eat, I hit her, saying it was for her own good, because I was afraid that the food would get cold and my stomach would be bad. In fact, I read an article that day that you said you loved me, but your face was ferocious, just like the other half was afraid of your cold and said you were so stupid that you didn't know to add another dress. What we feel is not love, but anger, so it is important to speak well and express correctly.
According to Jimmy's course, 95% of the 140 high school students he learned after investigation wanted to stab his father. This is a terrible thing. We used to think we were being nice to our children, but they didn't receive it at all. How to make love flow well with children is also what we need to learn and practice.
Please, as mothers, let's all think about it. From our pregnancy to the birth of a child, our care and love for her are based on respect. Slowly, the parent-child relationship will get better and better.
Finally, I will hug her and tell her that I love her. We should listen to and care for each other. Another game I often play is kissing the rain. When the child was young, he always kissed his head, face, nose and stomach. She also likes to play.
When the parent-child relationship is good, let her feel that learning is a very interesting thing. Guide her to form the habit of studying every day, and let her slowly fall in love with learning.
Headphones are just a tool, a bridge. Listening to headphones can make children's concentration better and their memory improve rapidly. We know that the core principles of memory are rapid transformation, efficient storage and rapid encounter. Children who often listen to headphones have faster conversion speed, better memory, richer imagination and easier writing.
Children used to watch mobile phones when they were bored. Now, with high-quality companionship, encouragement and hugs, she hasn't picked up her mobile phone for a long time. Whether headphones are useful or not has a lot to do with whether we treat our children with care.
Finally, I will share with you some cases of changes after children put on headphones, all of which are real examples of friends around them. I wish everyone's children are getting better and better, their parents are getting happier, their families are happy, and they are happy and safe. Today's sharing is over. Thank you for listening. Thank you.