1, don't care too much about the eyes or thoughts of people around you?
If you feel that other people's eyes or behaviors make you feel inferior and uncomfortable, so you dare not face them, then think about what caused it. If it is because of children's inappropriate behaviors and manners, then we must find ways to change these behaviors and teach children how to deal with them in public. If it is a matter of one's own mentality, as parents, we should have a correct attitude and learn to accept children's differences, so as to drive people around us to accept them. ?
2. Create a happy family atmosphere?
The living environment in early childhood plays an important role in the formation and development of personality. Intimacy and harmony between parents will make children feel warm and happy. On the contrary, parents' discord and quarrel will make children feel great psychological pressure, which will affect their physical and mental health over time. ?
3. expand the scope and get out of the family?
Parents should often take autistic children out for a walk, cultivate their sentiments, feel the beauty of nature, guide their children to observe the lives of people around them, and encourage autistic children to have simple contacts with them. For example, when shopping in supermarkets or shopping malls, children are encouraged to explain to the shop assistants what they want to buy. After selecting the products, they can pay their own money under the guidance of their parents. After buying back what you bought, you will say "thank you, goodbye". This not only cultivates the independence of autistic children, but also enhances their ability to communicate with others. ?
4, according to the imitation ability, cultivate their communication skills?
Imitation is a very important skill for autistic children. Parents are the children's first teachers and the main imitators of autistic children. In order to provide children with opportunities to learn and communicate, parents should first set an example. ?
For example, when guests come to play at home, parents should warmly receive them, pour water, give them fruits or drinks, or simply talk. When guests leave, they should say goodbye politely. Welcome to come again next time. The essence of this is to set an example for children, so that autistic children can be educated in a subtle way and form a good code of conduct. With a good code of conduct, parents should also provide opportunities for autistic children to communicate.
The biggest demand of autistic children is to receive language training and learn basic life and social skills. ?
1. Language training: Parents should first arouse their children's desire to speak, and children can express themselves through things they are interested in. Parents can try to expand his speaking ability, learn from games, and tell him relevant explanations, meanings and comments according to his behavior, such as shaking his head to show that he doesn't like it. Parents remember to step by step, let the children start with words and gradually extend to the reviewed sentences. ?
2. Basic life skills: teach him general life skills, such as buttoning, wiping his mouth, dressing, using a knife or chopsticks, and even more complicated activities, such as washing his face, brushing his teeth or taking a bath. These studies are not easy for autistic children, because they usually don't take the initiative to pay attention to the outside world, but helping children take care of themselves and live an independent life is the ultimate goal of every parent. ?
3. Social skills: If parents want their children to behave appropriately in social activities or public places, they will be more easily accepted by the society and reduce the pressure brought by embarrassing situations, they must help their children master certain basic communication skills, including: teaching them to respond to their own names. Say hello by raising your hand, nodding, smiling, waving, etc. ?
Finally, parents can recognize autism as early as possible, find a truly effective treatment, train early and intervene early, which can avoid many unnecessary injuries and delays and reduce a lot of burdens for families and society. More children's health questions can be answered in private messages in the background! ?