1. Father and son passed the gate of a five-star hotel and saw a very luxurious imported car. The son disdainfully said to his father, "People who ride in this kind of car must have no knowledge in their stomachs!" "
Father replied airily: "People who say such things must have no money in their pockets!" "
Q: Does your view of things also reflect your true attitude? )
After dinner, mother and daughter wash dishes together, and father and son watch TV in the living room. Suddenly, there was a sound of breaking dishes in the kitchen, and then there was silence. The son looked at his father.
Pro said, "Mom must have broken it."
"How do you know?" "She didn't swear."
We are so used to judging others and ourselves by different standards that we are often strict with ourselves. )
There are two sightseeing groups traveling to Izu Peninsula in Japan. The road conditions are poor, and there are potholes everywhere. One of the tour guides repeatedly apologized and said that the road was just like pockmarked. However, another tour guide
But he said poetically to the tourists, "Ladies and gentlemen, the road we are taking now is the famous Izu charming dimple avenue."
Although it is the same situation, different ideas will produce different attitudes. How beautiful your thoughts are and how you think about them are up to you. )
Students in grade three of primary school also said in their compositions that their future wish is to be a clown. China's teacher denounced it as: "Without ambition, you can't teach a boy!" foreign teacher
They will say, "May you bring laughter to the whole world!"
As elders, we not only tend to demand more than encourage, but also have a narrower definition of success. )
My wife is cooking in the kitchen. Her husband has been nagging: slow down! Watch out! The fire is too big! Turn the fish over! Shovel up! Too much oil! "husband"
The wife blurted out, "I know how to cook." "Of course you know, wife." The husband replied calmly, "I just want you to know that I was talking to you when I was driving."
How do you feel? "
It is not difficult to learn to be considerate of others, as long as you are willing to seriously look at the problem from the other side's point of view and position. )
6. A bus full of passengers is driving fast on the downhill road, and a man is running after it. A passenger stuck his head out of the window and said to the car chaser:
"Dude! Forget it, you can't catch up! "
"I must catch up with it." The man panted, "I am the driver of this car!" " "
Some people must work very hard, because otherwise, the consequences will be very tragic! However, it is precisely because we must go all out that the potential instinct and unknown characteristics will eventually be filled.
Show it. )
7.a: "The new neighbors are so hateful. Last night, in the dead of night, he suddenly came over and rang my doorbell hard. " B: "How hateful! Did you report it right away?
Police? "A:" No, I think they are crazy. Keep playing my trumpet. "
Everything happens for a reason. If you can see your mistakes first, the answer will be different. When you are faced with contradictions and disputes, first think about whether there is any problem, and maybe you can put it down soon.
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8. One day, Zhang San was driving on a mountain road. Just as he was enjoying the beautiful scenery, a truck suddenly came head-on, and the twisted driver rolled down his window and cursed:
"Pig!" Zhang Sanyue thought more and more puzzled, more and more angry, so he rolled down the window and turned to curse: "You are the pig!" " No sooner had he finished cursing than he ran into a group of pigs crossing the road.
Don't misinterpret the kindness of others, it will only hurt yourself and humiliate others. Before unknown so, you should learn to hold back your emotions and observe patiently so as not to regret it afterwards.
Meaning. )
9. The little boy asked his father, "Does the father always know more than his son?" Dad replied, "Of course!" The little boy asked, "Who invented the electric light?" Dad said:
"It's Edison." The little boy asked again, "Then why didn't Edison's father invent the electric light?"
Strangely, people who like seniority are particularly prone to get into fights. Authority is often just an empty shell that can't stand the test, especially in today's pluralistic and open era. )
10. Xiaoming accidentally swallowed a small piece of soap in the shower, and his mother called the family doctor for help in a panic. The doctor said, "I still have several patients, maybe half a year old."
We won't get there until later. Xiaoming's mother said, "What should I do before you come?" The doctor said, "Give Xiaoming a cup of boiled water, and then let him jump hard, so that Xiaoming can use his mouth."
Blowing bubbles kills time. "
Relax, there's no need to be too nervous in life. Now that it has happened, why not face it frankly? It's better to rest assured if you are worried, and it's better to be poor and happy if you are nervous. )
(2) A short story reflecting that attitude determines everything.
Attitude is everything!
Attitude is everything!
A hamburger with a "goal"
In a city in the midwest of the United States, my wife Ruth and I were invited to visit the elegant mansion of an extremely successful industrialist, a great man who founded a famous American enterprise.
In the past, I was honored to have the opportunity to award him the Henashow Yalga Award. This award aims to reward people who come from humble origins, strive for the top, and finally make their mark in society.
"Where were you born?"
I asked him. The answer is unexpected:
"I don't know, maybe Atlanta. I don't know who my parents are. I am an orphan, brought up by my adoptive parents, and then stepped into this society with a few dollars. "
He changed jobs several times and finally worked as an intern waiter in a restaurant in Fordwayne, Indiana. He is clever and diligent, and he does a good job. As soon as the restaurant owner saw it, he gave him a small shop that was about to close down in Columbus, Ohio, to test his ability.
At first, he couldn't make the shop prosperous anyway. Later, he found that the reason for the business failure was that there were too many dishes and it was easy to waste when purchasing, so there was no profit. So he cut down on the dishes, and sure enough, his business is booming. Later, he used the money he earned to open a hamburger shop, because he liked hamburgers since he was a child. He named the shop after his daughter Wendy. The reputation of this small shop has spread far and wide, and its storefront has gradually expanded.
He is Dolby Thomas. He always pays attention to the use of the best beef and constantly puts forward new ideas. Popular chain stores are opening one after another. Driven by his motivation and belief, Wendy now has as many as 3,200 chain stores. Ranked first in the fast food industry.
But if someone asks him if he has reached the peak of his life, Dube will definitely deny it.
It is people like him who have made great progress in the American economy. These people constantly set new goals to achieve higher ideals.
(3) stories about attitudes
attitude
One thing left a deep impression on me when I was a student-
Once the teacher came up with a math problem and asked me and another classmate to solve it on the platform. I quickly thought about the solution steps, while another classmate was still there. In order to show my cleverness, I proudly "brushed" the blackboard with chalk, and I fiddled with it. At this time, the classmate was still writing one by one. I was so proud that I threw the chalk head away and swaggered back to my seat. As a result, my classmates and I answered correctly, but the teacher gave a completely different comment. She pointed to my handwriting on the blackboard and said, "Look, hurry up, scribble, so-so. Is this a rigorous attitude towards learning?" In the case of equal ability, learning actually depends on a person's attitude ... "To be honest, I am not convinced. What I value is the result, but what the teacher seems to want is the process.
A few years later, I applied for an accounting position. Due to relevant work experience and higher professional titles, my competitors have fallen off the horse, leaving an insignificant guy to meet the final interview with me. The accountant in charge of that department received us. He took out a pile of account books and asked us to count the annual income and expenditure of a project. Although it is only a "pediatrician", I dare not slack off. I firmly grasp every number and add and subtract on the abacus seriously. About an hour or so, I finished the task. 10 minutes later, the contestants also call it a day. The accountant told us to wait aside. Then take our "test paper" to the boss's office.
The result surprised and annoyed me-I was hired! Why? The accountant in charge replied, "You didn't do the month-end statistics. He not only did, but also did the quarterly statistics." I asked, "Don't you want annual statistics?" The supervisor smiled and said, "Yes, but the annual statistics should be drawn from the monthly accounting-this is not accounting knowledge, but it reflects the rigorous attitude of accounting." Maybe you are equally capable, so the last thing we want to see is everyone's attitude. "
Then the word "attitude" took root in my heart-the same ability, under different attitudes, will produce a completely different future. Attitude may be another ability, sometimes more important than ability.
④ Learning attitude stories
See if the following story is what you want.
1978, 75 Nobel Prize winners met in Paris. Someone asked one of them, "What you learned in which university and laboratory is the most important?" Unexpectedly, the white-haired scholar replied, "It was in kindergarten." Ask again: "What did you learn in kindergarten?" The scholar replied: "Give half of your things to your friends; Don't take things that are not your own; Put things in order, wash your hands before meals and rest after lunch; Apologize for doing something wrong; Learn to think more and observe nature carefully. Basically, I have learned so much. " The scholar's answer represents the general view of the participating scientists. To sum up the general view of scientists, they think that the most important thing they have learned in their life is the good habits cultivated by kindergarten teachers. Bacon, a British materialist philosopher, the originator of modern experimental science and the founder of scientific induction, made great achievements in his life. When talking about habits, he said with deep feelings: "Habits are really a tenacious and huge force that can dominate a person's life. Therefore, people should cultivate a good habit through education from an early age. " Contact people and things in real life, and then carefully analyze them, you will feel that what those scientists and Bacon said really contains profound truth, especially in learning, which is applicable to almost everyone. If you are eager to get better academic results, if you are eager to use your time effectively, and if you are eager to make achievements in your studies, please develop good study habits as soon as possible.
(5) Common mental story
1, the wealth of wealthy businessmen
There is a story about a wealthy businessman who spent a lot of money and collected many precious antiques, calligraphy and painting, pearls and jadeite. In order to guard against theft, he installed a strict security system, and rarely went in to enjoy it on weekdays, only showing it off as part of his personal wealth.
One day, the rich businessman had a whim and decided to let the building cleaner come in and open his eyes. After the cleaners went in, they did not show envy, but slowly browsed and appreciated them carefully. When he walked out of the thick iron gate, the rich businessman couldn't help but say proudly, "How's it going? You didn't live in vain after reading so many good things, did you?
The cleaner said, "Yes, I feel as rich as you and happier than you." The rich businessman was confused and looked unhappy. "I have seen all your treasures, but aren't they as rich as you? I don't have to worry about those things. Isn't it happier than you? " The rich businessman was speechless at once.
Feeling:
Happiness is like a treasure. If you close the door, happiness will not flow to you. When you open your heart, happiness, wealth and true freedom will enter your heart.
4. Happiness is the bowl of water at this time.
A rich man and a poor man are talking about what happiness is. The poor said, "Happiness is now."
The rich man looked at the poor man's hut and shabby clothes and said contemptuously, "how can this be called happiness?" My happiness is a hundred buildings and a thousand slaves. " A fire destroyed hundreds of mansions of the rich, and the slaves went their separate ways. Overnight, the rich became beggars.
In July, a fire broke out, and sweaty beggars passed by the poor man's hut, trying to beg for water. The poor man brought a big bowl of cold water and asked him, "What do you think happiness is now?" The beggar said eagerly, "Happiness is the bowl of water in your hand at this time."
Feeling:
Happiness is now. Only by stringing together the happiness of the present can we have a lifetime of happiness.
Step 5 stay in the green hills
Once, a man called a counselor for help. He said, "It's all over. I'm finished. I don't have a penny, I lost everything. " The counselor said, "Can you still see it?" He said, "I can see." The counselor asked, "Can you still walk?"
He said, "You can still walk." The counselor said, "You can still make phone calls, so you must still hear them." "Yes, I can hear you." The counselor said, "Well, I believe you still have everything. The only thing you lose is money."
Feeling:
When we feel desperate to the extreme, we just lose some external things-money, power and honor, but we still have enough air to breathe and enough food to avoid hunger. Shepherd would rather lose wool than sheep.
6. Mentality story.
Be grateful for the loss.
In a remote town in France, it is said that there is a particularly effective water spring, which often appears in Shenneiqi and can cure various diseases. allow
One day, a veteran with a crutch and a missing leg limped through the streets of town. The villagers nearby said sympathetically, "Poor guy, is he going to ask God for another leg?"
This sentence was heard by veterans. He turned to them and said, "I didn't ask God for a new leg, but asked him to help me and teach me how to live without legs."
Teacher Xiaoman tells you: Learn to be grateful for what you have lost and accept the fact that you have lost. Regardless of the gains and losses of life, always make your life full of light and glory, stop crying for the past and try to live a good life.
⑦ A short story about mentality.
1, the wealth of wealthy businessmen
There is a story about a wealthy businessman who spent a lot of money and collected many precious antiques, calligraphy and painting, pearls and jadeite. In order to guard against theft, he installed a strict security system, and rarely went in to enjoy it on weekdays, only showing it off as part of his personal wealth.
One day, the rich businessman had a whim and decided to let the building cleaner come in and open his eyes. After the cleaners went in, they did not show envy, but slowly browsed and appreciated them carefully. When he walked out of the thick iron gate, the rich businessman couldn't help but say proudly, "How's it going? You didn't live in vain after reading so many good things, did you?
The cleaner said, "Yes, I feel as rich as you and happier than you." The rich businessman was confused and looked unhappy. "I have seen all your treasures, but aren't they as rich as you? I don't have to worry about those things. Isn't it happier than you? " The rich businessman was speechless at once.
Feeling:
Happiness is like a treasure. If you close the door, happiness will not flow to you. When you open your heart, happiness, wealth and true freedom will enter your heart.
4. Happiness is the bowl of water at this time.
A rich man and a poor man are talking about what happiness is. The poor said, "Happiness is now."
The rich man looked at the poor man's hut and shabby clothes and said contemptuously, "how can this be called happiness?" My happiness is a hundred buildings and a thousand slaves. " A fire destroyed hundreds of mansions of the rich, and the slaves went their separate ways. Overnight, the rich became beggars.
In July, a fire broke out, and sweaty beggars passed by the poor man's hut, trying to beg for water. The poor man brought a big bowl of cold water and asked him, "What do you think happiness is now?" The beggar said eagerly, "Happiness is the bowl of water in your hand at this time."
Feeling:
Happiness is now. Only by stringing together the happiness of the present can we have a lifetime of happiness.
Step 5 stay in the green hills
Once, a man called a counselor for help. He said, "It's all over. I'm finished. I don't have a penny, I lost everything. " The counselor said, "Can you still see it?" He said, "I can see." The counselor asked, "Can you still walk?"
He said, "You can still walk." The counselor said, "You can still make phone calls, so you must still hear them." "Yes, I can hear you." The counselor said, "Well, I believe you still have everything. The only thing you lose is money."
Feeling:
When we feel desperate to the extreme, we just lose some external things-money, power and honor, but we still have enough air to breathe and enough food to avoid hunger. Shepherd would rather lose wool than sheep.
8. A short story about learning attitude.
1978, 75 Nobel Prize winners met in Paris. Someone asked one of them, "What you learned in which university and laboratory is the most important?" Unexpectedly, the white-haired scholar replied, "It was in kindergarten." Ask again: "What did you learn in kindergarten?" The scholar replied: "Give half of your things to your friends; Don't take things that are not your own; Put things in order, wash your hands before meals and rest after lunch; Apologize for doing something wrong; Learn to think more and observe nature carefully. Basically, I have learned so much. " The scholar's answer represents the general view of the participating scientists. To sum up the general view of scientists, they think that the most important thing they have learned in their life is the good habits cultivated by kindergarten teachers. Bacon, a British materialist philosopher, the originator of modern experimental science and the founder of scientific induction, made great achievements in his life. When talking about habits, he said with deep feelings: "Habits are really a tenacious and huge force that can dominate a person's life. Therefore, people should cultivate a good habit through education from an early age. " Contact people and things in real life, and then carefully analyze them, you will feel that what those scientists and Bacon said really contains profound truth, especially in learning, which is applicable to almost everyone. If you are eager to get better academic results, if you are eager to use your time effectively, and if you are eager to make achievements in your studies, please develop good study habits as soon as possible.
This is a story about good study habits. I hope it helps you.