What are the misunderstandings of the elders' experience in the process of parenting?

I think the experience of parenting keeps pace with the times. With the development of the times, the concept of parenting should be constantly changed. Some of the elders' experiences are reasonable and some are wrong. We should take the essence and discard the dross. The traditional parenting style in China is not conducive to the cultivation of children's independent concept, and this misunderstanding should be corrected in time.

If you want to cultivate an excellent child, you must adopt the correct parenting style. In the process of parenting, the way of parenting keeps pace with the times. With the development of this era, the demand for talents is getting higher and higher. We should constantly change our educational methods. As long as the concept does not advance, talents can make progress and children can get a better education. Older people often participate in the parenting process of younger parents. However, there are many misunderstandings about the parenting experience of elders, so don't accept them all. In order to have a harmonious relationship, we should solve the child-rearing purchase between us through communication, so that children can grow up healthily.

In fact, the elders are really good to their children, but sometimes the parenting style is too backward to meet the requirements of this era. We should take the essence and discard the dross. China's traditional parenting style is too protective for children. In fact, it is a kind of doting. You want to bear all the difficulties and difficulties for your child, and even the future path of your child is paved for your child. It's easy to create a dependence on your children. When children grow up, they will not have the ability to solve problems independently, which is not conducive to the development of their independent personality. Many older people don't pay much attention to hygiene because they come from the countryside. For example, when using chopsticks, they don't understand that adult chopsticks and children's chopsticks should be used separately, because there are many bacteria in adults' mouths, and mixed use will have adverse effects on children.

In view of the above misunderstandings, we should abandon them in time and educate our children with modern and healthy parenting methods to make them grow up healthily.