Everyone from birth to adulthood, from early education to compulsory education, to continuing education, and even to old-age education, the word education seems to have been with us all the time.
Today, I mainly talk about what kind of influence a good education will bring to children when they are students.
The most critical stage that affects children's lifelong education is family education.
As we all know, parents are children's first teachers. Since infancy, children have been babbling with their parents. From the beginning of understanding the card drawing, parents' education for their children began to be subtle. Then the first threshold for education from home to outside is kindergarten. Many parents feel that going to kindergarten is meaningless and they can't learn anything. What can kindergarten bring to our children? What children can learn in kindergarten:
1. Peer cooperation 2. Collective rule 3. Habit formation
This is the first time a foreign teacher has helped a child. Children should start from an early age, and kindergarten is the first scene that can make children grow up best.
Here's what parents should do at home. Many parents have a headache when they mention this topic. On the one hand, they disagree with the teaching methods of the previous generation of parents. Another, they are parents for the first time, and there is no proper discipline. They can only explore and learn from their parents around them.
Research shows that parents cultivate their children's habits from childhood better than in the school environment, which means that parents communicate with their children every day and teach them well, which is closely related to their future development.
So what is good family education guidance? Bian Xiao summed up the following points:
1, make friends with children
Many parents don't want to be friends with their children, but don't know how to be friends with their children. According to a survey conducted by the National Association of Adolescent Mental Health, it is precisely the children of families whose parents are "teachers" and "executives" who are very rebellious, because the children have been living in a state of mandatory orders, and their parents have always taken a condescending attitude and brought their work home. This is a wrong behavior method. We should read children's minds and communicate with them in different identities in different situations.
2. Pay attention to children's interests
Good parents will certainly help their children develop hobbies that suit them, and give them support and encouragement, which will make them feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction in this process, and will also be more involved. Don't deny the child's interest. Interest is the best teacher, even if parents inadvertently deny it, it will ruin your child's interest in this matter.
3. Change your tone and attitude.
Speaking of this, many parents will ask, my temper and personality are like this, and there is no way to change it. At this time, we should think about it. If your parents treat you like this, will you still obey? Whether in adolescence or adulthood, communication is always the best solution. I heard a case that my mother only asked her children every day. It's time for dinner. Have you finished your homework? What is a child's heart? I feel that every time my mother asks me this question, she is questioning my slowness in doing my homework. Then I just don't write, or I just make up. A casual remark can affect children's many changes in things, so remember, tone and attitude are very important.
Children are neither good nor bad.
We all say that other children are the best. As parents, we should not affirm other people's children and deny our own children. Speak in the right way, such as watching xxx. Although he did well in the exam, he heard from his mother that he was studying his lessons carefully every night. The result of this exam is an affirmation of his process. Then we must be as good as others, right? Come on, mom will take you to eat what you want, and we will prepare for the next time. Above, in fact, the state of the child is decided by the parents.
Let's call it a day. We hope that every child can have a healthy mental state, and we also wish every family full of love. Let's work hard for it and change our children from ourselves!
Warm sun education, let the family have love, let love accompany.