0 1 Ming Lan knows how to marry Gu, which means not only accepting Gu, but also accepting everything that Gu brings, including his feud with Hou Fu and his daughter Rong Jieer. I didn't realize this until I promised Gu. But Gu didn't want to embarrass him, so he also promised in advance to ensure that Mannia's baby wouldn't threaten the status of the baby. I will also pay more love to Ming Lansheng's children. Even Sister Rong and Gu had planned to eat and live her in the house until she was old enough to get married. And how to raise the specific, but also depends on the will, regardless of will not ask. This is a very clever point of Gu. Sister Rong represents his miserable future. Due to the influence of the past, it is difficult for Gu to treat Sister Rong with a very fatherly attitude. It's better to be direct than to pretend.
I won't embarrass myself, and I won't give Sister Rong unnecessary expectations. Plus, he knows very well that with her personality, Sister Rong will grow up safely and will not be mistreated by her. Then Gu simply expressed his thoughts directly and chose to let go. After learning Gu's thoughts, I also made plans for getting along with Rongjie in the future-don't be too close, but do what you can, but ask for a clear conscience. Therefore, when Sister Rong hated and refused to accept it because of Mannia's instigation when she was young, she didn't take it to heart. Ming Lan is waiting, waiting for Jungle to figure things out. Make sure the general direction is correct and don't interfere excessively. Ming Lan has been performing his duties in a measured way. When it was discovered that people around Rong Jieer couldn't even do cultural enlightenment well, Ming Lan asked for information and turned to the wife of the General's Office for help, thus finding a good way for Rong Jieer to go to school. After Sister Rong goes to school to be sensible, she will also be taught some ways to be a mistress director, so as to prepare for her future marriage and do her best.
But Ming Lan didn't do it, because she suddenly became a "virgin" and wanted to treat her stepdaughter well without reservation. She just lives up to her conscience, does her best and has a clear conscience. And everything Ming Lan has done doesn't count on Rong Jieer's return. As she said when talking about Jungle with Gu:
I never wanted her to respect me.
I just want her to understand that people live not for anger, not for depression, not for resentment, but for living well.
She still has a lifetime to live, and there will be children in the future. She didn't cause the past, and she shouldn't dwell on it.
The world is big, the sea is wide, the mind is open and the vision is far away, so that the days can be long.
It is such a state of mind that Ming Lan always keeps calm when facing Jungle, and her attitude finally affects Jungle.
Sister Rong's manners are different from Chang's brother's. Chang's brother is always led by Mannia and poisoned by Mannia's thoughts. Sister Rong has already entered Hou Fu. With the increase of age, Mannia's influence on Sister Rong is gradually weakening. When Sister Rong was sent to school, she listened to Mr. Xue's class, so that Sister Rong had her own judgment on things and would no longer be influenced by her own mother's thoughts. Sister Rong likes Mr. Xue very much, and secretly makes up her mind to be an honest and clean person like Mr. Xue, with her head held high, not like her own mother.
Therefore, when Sister Rong is acting, she always demands herself according to Mr. Xue's standards, so as to correct her judgment on things. In her struggle with, if she has her own child, will she regard the illegitimate child as a thorn in the side, as outsiders say, and when her mentality is out of balance, she will rely on Teacher Xue's idea of "straighten her heart when something happens, don't think things wrong first". If you are right, you will be open-minded and clear-headed. "Adjust your mentality back. When she is thinking about being good to herself, whether she really likes herself, or whether she wants to win her father's favor and gain a good reputation, she will also think of what Mr. Xue said, "Good is good. People who have received good things should be grateful, cherish their blessings and be modest and kind. In this way, we can leave a long-term blessing and help others "and let go of the entanglement."
It is with this kind of continuous learning and introspection that Sister Rong's mind is more and more open. Although on the surface, she still can't get close to her first mother. But in her heart, she clearly understood her gratitude to her first mother. In addition, Sister Rong had a good impression on the group boys from the first mother. Plus Jun Gang looks like himself, even worse than his younger brother Chang Gang. Sister Rong looked at the boys and became closer. Because of this affection and closeness, Sister Rong will rush to protect the group when they are in danger, without thinking much. As the saying goes, heart for heart. Because of this hard work, Sister Rong has really integrated into her father's new family. Ming Lan treated her better, made plans for her future from the bottom of her heart, and found her a good husband's family to marry herself. Since then, Sister Rong has also ushered in her own good day.
Because I always feel that in a complicated and troubled world, people can "be ignorant because they know the world", thus finding a simple way to settle down. Ming Lan is like this. If she can't be nice to Sister Rong, don't force her to be a clean face. But stick to the principle of always doing things, live up to your conscience and have a good ending. Sister Rong is like this. If she can't figure out why the first mother was nice to her, she won't be embarrassed. She just followed Mr. Xue's teaching, recognized her kindness, didn't ask why, and looked for opportunities to repay her. At present, we can do the same. On the big principle, we don't give up and stick to it. We don't have to embarrass ourselves in small matters. I can also live a relaxed and happy life.