The urban TV series Ode to Joy also exposed this problem. Fan, a patriarchal family, has had a hard time since childhood. When she grew up, she was dragged down by her family and finally met a Wang Baichuan. However, whether Fan's name should be added to the engagement before the marriage breaks down.
Just at the moment when Fan turned away from the house with tears in her eyes, she heard her heartbreaking voice through the screen. Then, if she bought a wedding room with a loan before marriage, should she add the woman's name?
I remember in the first movie, my parents' eldest brother and sister-in-law put pressure on them and even sold the house. Fortunately, in the end, they met a positive "handsome king". You think it's over, but the tragedy has just begun.
In Ode to Joy 2, Fan completely pinned his desire to buy a house on "Wang Handsome", and then "Wang Handsome" was cheated. However, our "handsome king" soon made a comeback and buying a house was put on the agenda. At this time, the problem came, and Fan asked to add his name to the real estate license.
But at this moment, Wang Baichuan hesitated. This is his parents' life savings. He remembers that his mother warned that Fan's name could not be added to the real estate license, and told her son that Fan's family had no bottom line. After marriage, maybe this house will be counted.
Seeing this, many people will think that Wang Baichuan doesn't love Fan Meisheng enough, but think about it rationally. The family behind Fan will definitely help her family after marriage. Even if she doesn't help, her family won't let Fan go. Intellectually, Fan should not add a name.
Having been in love for so long, Wang Baichuan can't know what fans Mei Sheng value most, but she played a trick in buying a house. In my opinion, the most realistic in the play should be Wang Baichuan. Buying a house not only hit Fan's "sense of security", but also trampled on their feelings.
In fact, isn't Wang Baichuan's mother's worry a property issue? People who know the law should know that the marriage law has provisions on pre-marital property. Even with Fan's name, Fan can only be divided into a part of repayment.
Worried about divorce before marriage, although we are ready, we are still a little disappointed. If we have confidence in each other, then all this is not a problem.
Both of them have their own problems: Fan's problem is that her independence is weak. Blindly rely on men, insist on "pinching the tip", and then fail, or pin their dreams on Wang Baichuan and ask Wang Baichuan to think for himself, but he can't face up to his own problems and Wang Baichuan's family.
As for his ability, he can't support Fan's request, but he lacks the confidence to face him directly. He paints big cakes and drinks chicken soup, but he doesn't know what to do when he meets practical problems, and rarely solves practical problems. Even when Fan proved his determination to fight with him and start from scratch, he changed his clothes and stayed with Fan, but he had no confidence to keep him. What he said and did was not what he said.