I have a friend Xiao Wu, who has been working as a project engineer in Shanghai since he graduated from university on October 20 14. At first, he liked the prosperity of Shanghai very much and planned to settle here.
Three years later, urged by high housing prices and parents in Hubei, Xiao Wu's belief in staying in Shanghai was seriously shaken. 20 17 He decided to look for a job in Wuhan. Although the job opportunities and development prospects in Wuhan are not as good as those in Shanghai, at least it will be much closer to his parents. Besides, Wuhan is also a big city.
In June, Xiao Wu received an interview invitation from a technology company. After some questions and answers, Xiao Wu successfully passed the entrance examination. Then, he retired the house he rented in Shanghai, had dinner with his old friends and came to Wuhan.
A month later, Xiao Wu began to feel the difference between the company culture and the previous company style: it was very rigid, and my original job didn't need to punch in, so there would be many mechanical requirements in this respect. And the hierarchy is very serious. There is even the phenomenon of accompanying wine, which is basically invisible to Internet companies in Shanghai.
After a long time, Xiao Wu felt a little overwhelmed. He even missed his work in Shanghai. But not long after I came, I turned around and left, which was very embarrassing.
Therefore, in such anxiety, Xiao Wu's life pressure increases and his life becomes disordered. In addition to the above, unfamiliar language environment, different cultural customs, even climate factors and air quality will have a subtle influence on job-hopping experience of job-hopping people in different places.
Therefore, it is a mature decision for women not to accept job changes in a city, which should not be used as a yardstick to measure whether to break up.