Before they got married, Xiao Lin and Li Jing lived in their dorms. After Toyoko got married, they still lived in their dormitories, because the unit in Li Jing made it clear that the female employees would not give him a house, and Kobayashi's unit had never been able to give him a house.
Until Li Jingting gave Kobayashi an ultimatum with a big belly, he divorced if he couldn't get a house. Xiaolin begged grandpa to tell grandma and finally got a "bedroom". That is to say, although Xiao Lin and Xiao Fang were assigned to a house, they had to live under the same roof with another stranger, which, in present words, is called sharing.
The personnel in the organs and units are complicated, intrigued, sharing contradictions in life and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which makes Li Jing breathless and unbearable. Finally, she said a famous saying, "Sharing is fascism", which I very much agree with. This sentence often flashed in my mind in my later sharing career, and Jing Li's expression of anger, helplessness and humiliation appeared when she said this sentence.
This is a TV series of the same name "A Chicken Feather" adapted from Liu Zhenyun's novel, in which Xu Fan plays Jing Li and Chen plays Kobayashi, with a total of *** 10 episodes. It's an official story, and it's also a story of a young man from other places struggling to drift north.
1
Gine Lee
Used to be a quiet girl.
Now it is unreasonable and miserable.
Li Jing, who just graduated from college, is pure and quiet, loves Kobayashi wholeheartedly and just wants to be with him.
Xiaolin has a harmonica. When Kobayashi plays the harmonica, Li Jinghui will sit quietly and sing softly, "Outside the pavilion, beside the ancient road, the grass is blue."
Xiao Lin didn't have time to inform Li Jing because he went to accompany the hospital leaders temporarily. She waited alone at the rendezvous. Xiao Lin thought she would definitely break up, but she took the initiative to go to Xiao Lin's dormitory to find him. No blame, but she was worried. "There are so many cars in the street. What if something happens? "
When she was pregnant unexpectedly, Li Jing was very worried and wept silently. Xiaolin said "get married right away", so she didn't agree. She didn't even have a wedding. She just went back to her hometown to see each other and didn't complain.
After the wedding leave, the two took the train to the West Railway Station and returned to Beijing. It was one night. The pregnant Li Jing is embarrassed to go back to the single dormitory. Xiao Lin took her to the dormitory for one night. Although she felt uncomfortable, she was still very happy and felt that at least two people were together.
Such a quiet and sensible girl disappeared completely after giving birth.
In order to take care of the children, Xiaolin took her mother from her hometown to Beijing, and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got along, and the contradiction became increasingly serious. At first, Li Jing just complained, and gradually the complaint turned into resentment.
Finally, I couldn't help complaining to Xiaolin that "cooking can only cook porridge, and the urine pad can't be cleaned without boiling water." Four people live in a room and snore loudly, which keeps adults and children awake all night. I always have to act like a country mother-in-law. If I hadn't gone back, would he have given me energy? " .
Xiao Lin doesn't understand how Li Jing, who was so quiet at the beginning, became so mean.
After moving for the second time, although I no longer shared a room, life in the suburbs was inconvenient. Xiao Lin got up early in the morning and queued up to buy two kilograms of tofu because she forgot to let the nanny put it in the refrigerator. When cooking after work, two kilograms of tofu made Li Jing angry again. New accounts and old accounts are counted together, and she is angry to "separate".
Li Jing took his anger out on the nanny and kicked a teenage nanny out of Beijing.
Even Li Jing, a teacher who went to Beijing from his hometown to see Xiao Lin, refused to take him in. "This is not a hotel. Who wants to come, your hometown always comes like this, I can't stand it. "
Sharing is fascism, and life is a chicken feather. At the beginning, he was just a young man who didn't know the world. When you get married, trivial things such as quicksand slowly consume your enthusiasm, and when work is like the morning peak every day, it kills your fighting spirit day after day. Who can remain unchanged for many years?
2
holt
Once the literary youth who loved reading.
Finally bowed his head in front of life.
Xiao Lin, who has just arrived in the government, still has the habit of being a "college student". He doesn't like to curry favor with leaders, reads casual books at work, arrives late and leaves early, wears sandals without a tie, and is not interested in unit rating and personnel changes.
All this changed completely after Xiaolin got married.
On the first day after her wedding leave, Kobayashi went to the office early to clean up and get boiled water.
I heard that I led my daughter to the college entrance examination. I immediately found out my college entrance examination materials and took the initiative to coach her.
Even more than 100 yuan for ordering milk for my daughter was regarded as a gift to the leader. In order to put himself on the list of the next title evaluation, in Kobayashi's words, it is "to have more milk to drink in the future, giving up the opportunity to order milk this time."
When the deputy director was on a business trip, Xiaolin resolutely put down her daughter who had just been born for a few months and volunteered to accompany her.
Nowadays, Kobayashi never arrives late and leaves early, no longer reads "casual books", and is polite to everyone in the unit, even flattering.
Xiao Lin finally understood that he doesn't like government agencies and units, disdains officialdom, and his future depends on the unit. The two most important points are rating and housing allocation.
Shared life, a family of three adults and one child live in one bedroom, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law escalates. Xiaolin can only choose to defect her daughter-in-law and gently persuade her mother to return to her hometown.
When leaving, Xiaolin's mother talked about her experience of giving birth to a child when she was young. "Your grandmother gave me 15 eggs, and your daughter-in-law now eats five or six eggs at a meal." After that, she looked at Kobayashi tearfully: "Kobayashi, why are you unhappy all day?" .
This sentence touched Xiao Lin's last line of defense. He is helpless and sad about his situation and practice, and can only escape his mother's silent tears.
Xiao Lin, who is juggling between work and family, is exhausted. He met his old classmate in the vegetable market. It turns out that this old classmate sells fish in this vegetable market. He happened to be on a business trip and wanted Kobayashi to look after him 10 day, and 50 yuan for one day. Kobayashi was very moved.
After graduating from college, I went directly to the office of the government. For the first time, Xiao Lin was a little embarrassed. He wears a big hat to cover his face and is afraid of meeting acquaintances. After waiting for 500 yuan, he suddenly felt that he could make his wife and children happy and everything was worth it.
What completely changed Xiao Lin's mind was to help the deputy director move. Compared with the living environment of his family of three, Kobayashi sighed to Excavate: "I understand two reasons for moving this time. Why does everyone have a pursuit? The world is so big and there are so many people in China. In fact, it is these people who need to deal with and ponder every day.
Man, hard work is only one thing, patience is another. As long as you have patience and wait, you can wait for a good day. "
At the beginning, Kobayashi, who loves reading, has completely worn away the edges and corners of youth and completely put down the dignity and pride of literary youth. In the absence of gifts and flattering leaders, he chose to "endure" in the unit until he could live a happy life.
Kobayashi finally gave in to the officialdom he once hated and despised.
three
Xiao Peng
Everyone loves free and easy girls.
Unfortunately, not everyone has such capital.
Xiao Peng, like Kobayashi, is a newly graduated college student and assigned to work in the unit. She is the person I admire most in this TV series.
When she was sexually harassed by hooligans on the bus, she dared to scold the hooligans in public and told them to her colleagues as office talk.
Faced with the wooing of old Joe in the office, she flatly refused. In the face of old Joe targeting Kobayashi everywhere, she felt aggrieved and stood up for her words.
When Kobayashi is exhausted by the house, he can call the logistics office directly and persuade the newly promoted deputy director to help Kobayashi repair the house.
She does not participate in all conspiracies and cliques of government agencies and units. She only listens to her heart and does what she wants.
However, all this is because her job is not all she has. She doesn't rely on it to support herself, let alone a male colleague like Xiao Lin who relies on this job to support her family. The root cause of all this is that she is a local, her father is a retired old leader and her family is superior.
Free and easy Xiao Peng is everyone's dream, but unfortunately not everyone has such capital.
A Chicken Feather, a TV series of 1995, still feels a lot.
Every young man who chooses to leave his hometown and struggle in a big city may have one or several periods of common life. No matter whether the shared life is cold or warm, I hope that at the end of the shared life, you can have a longing home.
Career is not always smooth sailing, and life is not always smooth sailing. Everyone will change with the increase of life experience. I only hope that all this will only make you understand the meaning of living, the purpose of starting, and the value of your initial heart.