What stories have you seen about widowhood and parenting?

On the issue of educating children, cousin advocates intensive cultivation, such as buying clothes for children, all of which are pure cotton and the quality is guaranteed; When buying shoes for children, we specially chose some brands such as Nike Adi. In education, she bought many picture books and parenting books for her children, told stories to them every day, and even chose a kindergarten for her future study.

The former brother-in-law thinks that the child can be raised. Why spend so much money on him? They often quarrel because my cousin bought some expensive things. Cousin said it was her own money and she could spend it as she liked. Is it wrong to buy things for her children? My ex-cousin thinks it's a waste, a waste of money.

A few days ago, my 26-year-old cousin finally ended her three-year marriage and successfully dumped her cousin with a two-year-old child. Of course, he should call his former cousin now. The reason for her divorce is the discord between husband and wife. In fact, the deeper reason is that her husband is indifferent to the family, indifferent to the children and has no sense of responsibility, so my cousin can't stand it and left.

She said that she got married because she didn't want to embarrass her parents and let them be judged by others, so she reluctantly agreed to step into the siege of marriage. Indeed, many women nowadays, no matter how excellent, if you never get married, others will definitely think that you are abnormal in some way. So I have to let nature take its course and have a legal baby.

My former cousin said before that the ultimate goal of marriage is to have children. After the child was born, many problems appeared in their relationship, and the contradictions became more and more acute. On the contrary, in the early days of their marriage, they were able to sit down and chat. After having children, every day is full of quarrels.