First, Song Qian's love is too heavy. After Song Qian and Qiao Weidong divorced, she took care of Qiao Yingzi wholeheartedly. She regards Joe as all she has. No matter what she did, she did it for Joe's good.
She gives Joe a brain-nourishing medicated diet every day, cooks the most nutritious breakfast for Joe every morning-stewed bird's nest, and makes a schedule for Joe every day. She also repaired a soundproof room for disguise and set up a special monitoring window.
Put your heart and soul into Joe Joe knew that his mother loved her, and she was afraid that she would let her down. She did her best. She tried to listen to her mother and do everything best.
However, as time goes by, Joe can't stand Song Qian's love for her more and more. What she wants to do is not motivated in Song Qian's eyes, but a kind of procrastination in Song Qian's eyes.
Second, Joe suffers from moderate depression. Joe can't stand her mother's control. She wanted to pursue freedom and independence, but every time she couldn't escape the cage set by Song Qian, she finally gave in. She chose to surrender and break the jar, and began to feel that everything was meaningless, even her favorite stars were bored.
Song Qian didn't realize her mistake when she saw her daughter's change. Instead, she repeatedly asked the doctor why Joe was depressed. When the doctor asked her about her relationship with her ex-husband, Song Qian panicked. Song Qian knew that Joe was depressed because of his conflict with his ex-husband.
Third, the relationship between husband and wife determines the mental health of children. Song Qian thinks Qiao Weidong is unreliable. We are jealous of each other every time we meet, and we don't even want our daughter to be with this unreliable father.
Joe wants to be with his father, but on the other hand, she is afraid of her mother's disappointment. She can only suppress herself and then suppress herself and bury her thoughts in her heart.
When she learned that Joe was depressed because of his family environment, she began to reflect on herself. She began to relax her demands on Joe and began to support her preferences and ideas.