As for my boyfriend, he also wants to get married, but he wants me to get the certificate directly with him, not as agreed before.
Two months ago, my boyfriend brought his parents to my house to propose marriage. At that time, the prospective in-laws said it was beautiful. Before getting married, they will buy her a house with two bedrooms and one living room and give our family100000 as a bride price.
My parents are not difficult to talk to, and since my boyfriend's family agreed to these two things so readily, they didn't mention other conditions.
However, two months have passed in a blink of an eye, but my boyfriend's family has not yet started buying a house. I mentioned it to my boyfriend several times, but he kept saying that he was in no hurry and was already considering it. I asked him where he was going to buy a house, what the budget was, whether the house was hardcover or rough, and how long it would take to get it. My boyfriend didn't answer completely, and he blamed me for only seeing the house and asked me if I liked him or his room.
I don't ask my boyfriend to buy a house in full, even if it's just a down payment, but his attitude makes me a little unacceptable. What girl doesn't want her husband to have a house and a car when he gets married? This is not reality, but a sense of security. I feel good already. I didn't ask my boyfriend to add his name to his room, nor did I ask him to buy a car or anything, but he didn't want to do so.
My boyfriend coaxed me to get the certificate several times recently, and the romantic proposal made me move, but I flinched at the thought that the house and bride price promised by his family had not been fulfilled. My boyfriend said to get the license first, and then we'll have the wedding. After a while, the house will definitely be bought.
We are all adults, and we all know that it is always good to speak well and do well. If my boyfriend and I get the license first, what can I do with him if their family is not going to buy a house for the wedding? You can't threaten divorce because it's not good for me to ask him to really agree.
My boyfriend's family still has a younger brother who is unmarried, and his parents may not spend all their thoughts on him, which is one reason why I have many concerns. If we can't get his parents to give us some money when we get married, we won't even think about it until we get the license.
Judging from the current high housing prices, it is really difficult for my boyfriend and I to buy a house on our own without the help of our parents.
But every time I tell my boyfriend about the house inspection before I get the license, he will get angry and say that I am too realistic. For this reason, the two of us always break up in discord. My boyfriend even tried to force me to get a license. Once he said angrily, if I don't agree, I will break up directly. I don't know if he is joking or serious.
Do you think I should get a license with my boyfriend? Still insist on buying a house first? Can you believe what your boyfriend said? If there is no room after marriage, will we be happy?