1. Listen to each other: While expressing your own views, you should also fully listen to each other's opinions and emotions. Respect each other's feelings and don't interrupt or ignore each other's words.
2. Communicate calmly: Don't rush to quarrel or make fierce remarks when you are in high spirits. Calm down and make sure you are emotionally stable before communicating with your partner.
3. Seek * * * knowledge: Finding the similarities between you and seeking * * * knowledge will help to ease the contradiction.
4. Express feelings rather than blame: Pay attention to your feelings rather than blame the other person's behavior. This helps to avoid putting the other side on guard.
5. Use humor to resolve tension: Moderate humor can resolve the situation in a tense situation, but make sure that your humor will not hurt each other's feelings.
6. Propose solutions: not only point out the problems, but also discuss possible solutions together. This shows that you are willing to work hard to solve the problem.
Two. To deal with emotional problems, we need to pay attention to the following aspects:
1. control your emotions, don't be impulsive or cold war, but calm down and think carefully and deal with problems rationally.
2. Change your way of thinking. Don't always look at who is right or wrong in an emotional way, but separate yourself from other people's affairs and figure out what you can control.
Learn to say sorry. If you do something wrong, you should apologize to the other party and sincerely apologize for what you did wrong.
4. Listen and communicate, respect each other's views and feelings, respond to each other's demands, don't guess or speak for each other, and don't threaten, manipulate or escape.
5. Increase * * * the same memories, make some beautiful memories, and let the other person think of his lover happily.
6. Enhance the freshness of getting along, and play tricks from time to time to improve the freshness of getting along, so as not to make the other party tired.
In short, resolving contradictions requires the efforts of both sides, and mutual respect and understanding are the key. Either way, it should be based on love and respect, with the goal of establishing a healthier and more stable relationship.