On Saturday in March 1, wedding cars decorated with roses and lilies can be seen everywhere on the street. Unexpectedly, there is a couple, the blessings of relatives and friends are still there, the joy of the new house is still there, and the two sides began to divorce.
In just a few days, what happened to make the bride make a decisive choice and let the groom ponder?
■ Written by reporter Zhang Yan.
■ Narrator: Heart Fog (a pseudonym)
■ Gender: Male
■ Age: 27 years old
■ Education: Master's degree
■ Occupation: study
■ Time: March evening 13
■ Location: Wuchang No.1 Western Restaurant
Heart fog anxiously found me, hoping that his story could be published as soon as possible, so that he could take the newspaper thousands of miles away to C city, S province, and beg his new wife Zhu Zhu (a pseudonym) to change their minds.
His anxious and vacant look is completely invisible. Just a few days ago, he became the groom's official with great joy.
On the second day of the wedding reception, the two families quarreled.
Rome was not built in a day. Is the story of Heart Fog too dramatic? Or is there a reason? To this end, Xin Wu told me a lot of details before and after the wedding. "Let me analyze it. Did these misunderstandings lead to the subsequent quarrel? "
My wedding room with Zhu Zhu is located in my home, and the wedding reception is scheduled for the evening of March 1. Her parents and brother arrived early and stayed in a hotel near our home.
The wedding day was very busy. Zhu Zhu went to make up in the morning, which may be slow. She 1 1 returned to the hotel. The bride is coming to my house 12. I was afraid that time was tight, so I urged Zhu Zhu several times. Sure enough, too many people got married that day, and our motorcade was caught in a traffic jam, but I finally walked in with Zhu Zhu at 1 1: 55.
At noon, we planned to have a simple meal with our family, but when my mother went to the hotel to meet Zhu Zhu's parents, she didn't see anyone. Later, she learned that they found a place to eat by themselves. This incident may make them misunderstand that we have neglected our parents.
The wedding scene was full of guests, and my previous fatigue in preparing for the wedding was swept away. I am very happy. After all, I officially married my wife. Who knows, a thunder started from the ground, and the quarrel on the evening of March 2 instantly swept away all the happiness.
That night, Zhu Zhu and her parents sent her brother away and went to our house for dinner. Zhu Zhu expressed dissatisfaction that I didn't play with his brother during the day and didn't send him away. I explained that it was not because I didn't want to send it, but because I was drunk at the wedding. Zhu Zhu also said some small things at the wedding, suggesting that our family neglected her family. In this way, the atmosphere became more and more wrong, and everyone began to get excited and argue. Suddenly, Zhu Zhu raised his hand: Divorce! My mother blurted out: leave!
During the quarrel, Zhu Zhu said something terrible to my parents for the first time. Zhu Zhu's parents asked Zhu Zhu to stay with them for one night, and his father said, Don't come in again if you leave this house.
I implored them to stop quarrelling. At this time, Zhu Zhu and her parents said that they could not divorce, but on one condition: I would go back to Chengdu with them and settle down in Chengdu.
This request is too unexpected. First, I didn't graduate. Second, I am an only child. Even if you settle in Chengdu, you should take a long-term view!
Still have to persuade back and forth, until 12, Zhu Zhu's parents finally took Zhu Zhu back to the hotel.
Minefield, the two divorced.
On the morning of March 3rd, I went to the hotel to find Zhu Zhu and her parents-in-law. I think, despite some angry words, it's time to calm down after a night. I didn't know that Zhu Zhu and his parents were still very determined, saying that I would go to Chengdu with them if I didn't get a divorce.
There was a deadlock. I think there are many leaders in Zhu Zhu's unit and law firm at the wedding. Can you ask them to do the work? So, in the afternoon, I, Zhu Zhu and our parents went to this law firm together. That night, several leaders of Zhu Zhu came to my house to make peace, but Zhu Zhu was stubborn.
On the afternoon of the 4th, I quarreled with Zhu Zhu again, and she insisted on divorcing me. On impulse, we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau. When it was time to sign, I said to the office staff, let me think about it and talk about it tomorrow. So before we left the Civil Affairs Bureau, we left everything there.
On the morning of the 5th, I stayed up all night. I made up my mind not to divorce, but I couldn't find Zhu Zhu. I have a hunch that she went to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce alone. Sure enough, when I arrived at the Civil Affairs Bureau, I was surprised in a cold sweat: Zhu Zhu came, but because I was not there, I couldn't go through the last procedure-getting a divorce certificate.
In the afternoon, Zhu Zhu and his parents left Wuhan by train. We haven't seen each other since. She said to me on the phone, then leave the agreement, or I'll see you in court when we meet again.
"I don't want to leave. I've only been married for a few days." Heart fog is still a mysterious expression. "What I said may be trivial, but it really happened these days. It's too fast to accept ... "Yes, I also think that what happened to him was reversed too suddenly.
Getting to know each other, falling in love and knowing each other used to be so interesting.
I met Zhu Zhu (a pseudonym) in September the year before last. She is studying in another university, and a fellow villager and I live in the same school and dormitory. She often asks me to help her with her homework, and we often eat and chat together for a long time. Gradually I fell in love with this girl. Our relationship is developing smoothly. I remember that during the National Day, we decided on a relationship.
In June last year, Zhu Zhu faced graduation and left school, but he didn't find a job and had nowhere to go. After discussing with my parents, I let Zhu Zhu live in my house. During this period, her mother came to Wuhan to visit Zhu Zhu, and the parents of the two sides met for the first time, expressing their recognition of Zhu Zhu and me.
Soon, Zhu Zhu went to work in a real estate company.
"Something happened during this period. Did this also lay the groundwork for later conflicts? " Heart fog asked again. Now, in his mind, there are many unknowns.
That was last August. Zhu Zhu's sister-in-law wants to go to Xuzhou, Jiangsu via Wuhan to take care of Zhu Zhu's brother who is going to have surgery. Let's meet her on the day she arrives in Wuhan. I was preparing for the national examination, so I didn't let my sister-in-law stay at home. Zhu Zhu is very dissatisfied with this. After we quarreled a few words, she didn't go to work the next day, but walked from Wuchang to Hankou Railway Station in anger and stayed in a hotel with her sister-in-law. Not long after, she proposed to visit her brother in Xuzhou.
Zhu Zhu may have left some prejudice on this matter, but I didn't mean to. I was very nervous about preparing for the exam, which may be due to some negligence in etiquette.
After returning to Wuhan, Zhu Zhu went to a unit canteen as a waiter. I am very touched and distressed. After all, she is an undergraduate, and that job is busy and tiring, but she doesn't care, saying that she can't stay idle all the time. So, I pick her up every night and get up early every morning to prepare breakfast for her.
After doing this job for a month or two, Zhu Zhu applied to a law firm. The treatment of this unit is good, and Zhu Zhu quickly won the praise of his colleagues with his own efforts and ability.
Everything is getting better, and our feelings are gradually maturing. Last year, on the ninth day of the ninth lunar month, we got a marriage certificate. She said: two nines means that we can last forever. I can still hear those words, but she left me.
Every drop is love, and a person is sad.
After Zhu Zhu left, my heart seemed to be hollowed out. My parents also got old a lot overnight.
It should be said that Zhu Zhu and my parents get along well. After living in my home, Zhu Zhu often took my mother's hand to buy food, go for a walk, talk and laugh, which made the neighbors envious. Except that night, my parents and Zhu Zhu didn't speak loudly, and they didn't blush. Now, my mother is reluctant to go to the yard for fear of telling her neighbors about our marriage.
Father is a more emotional person than mother, and even likes Zhu Zhu better than mother. Dad gave Zhu Zhu a cup last Christmas and Zhu Zhu took it to the office. When we went to Zhu Zhu's office that day, my father cried as soon as he saw the cup on her desk.
I got the cup back. I didn't pour the tea. Mom asked me why I didn't pour it out. I said, that's Zhu Zhu's drink, and I can't bear it.
Speaking of which, the heart fog could no longer bear it, and my voice choked.
Our wedding DVD has been engraved. I watched it again and again at home. I hope she can sit next to me and watch it together.
I want to go to Chengdu. I want to clear up the misunderstanding between her and her parents about me and my family. I want to ask Zhu Zhu to believe that her parents are my parents again, and I will honor my parents like her.
Heart fog spent nearly three hours talking about this sighing marriage change. Walking on the road, he pointed to Chutian Media Building and said, "your Newspaper Building is very beautiful. It took us a few minutes when the wedding car arrived here on the wedding day ... "The sad words were full of helplessness and helplessness.