1. How does a weak husband get a lot of love from his wife?
If a woman doesn't want to live a hard life with a poor man, she will always be called greedy and vain by many people. If men can't eat sour hearts, they will be accused of not making progress. Most of these women, who are accused of being vain, have followed a man who is not enterprising. Because if a man is active and diligent, he will complain that this woman looks down on her poverty, but it is not easy to scold her for loving the rich. Only these men who are not enterprising and lack the ability to survive will blame a woman for being greedy for money. Because they can't reach the other side, but they are helpless, which is equivalent to admitting that they are an unsuccessful weak person.
Anyone can look forward to a comfortable life without worrying about how much oil, salt, sauce and vinegar are. If you love your wealth, you can complain directly, unless your family conditions are excellent and you want to feel the poor daily life. Poverty is ingratitude, forgetting who you are and not seeing your situation clearly. You can call it vanity. But before she was with you, she didn't know your standards. If she knows that you are poor and wants to live a daily life with you, too many sun hats will be deducted if you are too poor.
It is understandable to be angry with a poor woman, but to be angry with a woman who has lived a hard life with you but expects a happier life is to show your lack of confidence and weakness. Only men who value money and chemicals more than love will hate women talking about love because of selfishness. Maybe you can say, you are with me, and the person you love most is me, so why talk about love with me? But have you ever thought that no one wants to live with a poor man every day, but she chose you? She is not afraid that you are poor, but that you can't give her a future. If you are diligent, why can't she see everyone's future? Why can't she lose confidence in everyone's daily life? If you can't give her a happy life, vent your emotions and blame her for greed and vanity, it should be guilt, not confidence and anger. You really hurt her. You can try your best to give her what she wants. It is actually effective to hurt her and take the initiative to fall in love with her. Because she defends your self-esteem, is unwilling to severely attack you, and is not easy to complain about your poor woman, you can be grateful. She could have disliked you and stayed away from you, but she did.
Second, a man who wants to get the ultimate marriage needs to know how to solve family disputes.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a Millennium problem. Many marriages break up because of the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Men should do their part in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because both women have the opportunity to become a family because of you, it is necessary to understand that only by solving the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can the two women who love you get along well and make the family happier. So _, how should men deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
Making edible spices to regulate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Men play a key role in marriage. It is a man's duty to maintain good family relations and make them harmonious. In order to have a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men need to know how to reconcile and shoulder this obligation. If two mother-in-law live together, it is really not recommended. Because the lifestyles, concepts and personal behaviors of several generations are very different, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of friction when living together, but it is not completely impossible to communicate. This requires men to solve this relationship with wisdom, that is, to be good at blending, to be a spice among them, and to say good things about each other in front of their eyes, for example, not to let their wives give gifts to their lovers on holidays. It's just that I'm completely ready. In front of my mother's eyes, I mean my wife bought it for her to be a good person and remind her lover on her back that she is not allowed to lose the title of filial piety. In front of his wife's eyes, he clearly told the other party what his mother had done for her, so that the other party could feel the warmth of this home. That kind of adjustment can enhance their feelings and make their relationship develop in a good direction.
I didn't avoid the dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Some men avoid the battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. They are afraid that the war will rush to their bodies, and they will choose to be onlookers or not to make all comments. Such a man is weak and responsible. That kind of practice always makes the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law worse and worse, which in turn harms the relationship between husband and wife. When there is a war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we should understand that it is not good to transfer the war to ourselves. Tell them in front of them that all this is for themselves, causing them to quarrel, gossiping about each other in front of their mothers, and expressing that you are actually cheating each other because of yourself, then your wife's brand image can be maintained more firmly. In front of his wife, he said that her mother actually did that because she did a good job of communication, but not very well, so that the other party would not have to blame her for herself, so that they who love you deeply would undoubtedly be unwilling to blame you for the problem, and their differences would be solved casually.
Third, how to go from the most beautiful love to the best marriage?
From exclusive memory to never giving up, how many people envy marriage. It is said that feelings are as gorgeous as fireworks, and marriage is as dull as running water, so many people will complain about each other after marriage. They have been as good to themselves as before, and have lost their enthusiasm and interest in love. Even some people will not be able to integrate into the change, resulting in emotional differences between them.
In this period when the divorce rate in China is getting higher and higher, fewer and fewer people can really go from exclusive memory to never giving up, from the most beautiful love to the best marriage. Why? Is it because lovers have no feelings for each other? No, it's just that they know how to run a marriage. Why do couples always complain that marriage is "dull" after marriage?
Just because the subconscious can't contact, it's very dull. After marriage, I often hear couples complaining about each other. Women complain that men don't understand their care and care, and they have been busy with their work and can't wait for themselves; Men, on the other hand, complain that women have been unreasonable, demanding, ignorant of gentleness and men. In fact, this is not to say that the other person is not good to himself, but that there is no connection in the subconscious.
Subconscious connection is a very important factor leading to differences between each other in marriage. After marriage, many lovers feel that they are already husband and wife, and it is not as easy to spoil each other as in the case of falling in love. Gradually, they will not know each other's thoughts, and the situation that they can't contact subconsciously will lead to their feelings becoming more and more "dull".
Only by creating * * * connectivity can marriage be dull. In order to get from the most beautiful love to the best marriage, subconscious connection is very important for emotional maintenance. Mcgregor, a well-known emotional counselor, once said, "If _ has the same language connection, it will inevitably separate _ fruit in the end". So to make marriage dull, it is necessary to create * * * communication between each other.
* * * Commonality is the key element of subconscious contact. We can make each other understand the requirements, master each other's ideas, and make each other's feelings closer and closer. When they are subconsciously connected, their emotions will be more stable. So _ How to make * * * universal?
The key to establishing a * * * connection is to learn to put yourself in others' shoes. Think from the other person's point of view and understand the other person's mentality, and you will understand why the other person has such an idea. In addition, you can try to do some interesting things with each other, go to the movies together, travel together, and participate in various theme activities together, which will enhance the exchange of ideas, create memories that belong to each other together, and make our relationship closer.