1, personality characteristics. Temperament does great harm to married life. Psychologists have investigated the temperament of more than 1000 couples in France, Canada and the United States, and found that people with stable emotions, high affinity and a sense of responsibility are more likely to have a happy marriage, and their immediate family members have a stronger "compatibility model". If both husband and wife are such people, it is naturally easier to have a happy marriage. Anxiety, depression and other temperament will bring inconvenience to married life. In order to get rid of personality defects, in addition to purposefully correcting their behavior, both husband and wife should put communication first.
2. similarity. People usually prefer lovers similar to themselves. Other scientific studies have also confirmed that the higher the similarity between lovers, the more positive the correlation, especially in industries such as values, outlook on life and personal hobbies. But don't worry, even if we don't look alike now, because the research of Michigan State University in England found that the longer the marriage lasts, the easier it is for the couple's temper and posture to influence each other. Emotional counselors remind everyone that even if they find that both of them will stumble after marriage, they don't have to kill each other with a stick. With a tolerant heart, husband and wife can become more and more alike, and their married life can last longer.
3. Be happy. Only a married life based on love can be successful. Whether it is a boy or a girl, personal behaviors full of affection, such as singing and laughing with each other and enjoying daily experiences, are all important elements of a happy marriage. Love must be operated, and the key is communication. No matter how busy they are, couples should maintain daily communication. Even if one party is upset, it is necessary to maintain necessary physical communication by hugging and kissing.
4. Fairness and justice. Some people say that marriage has some justice. A survey emphasizes that married life brings more benefits and happiness to boys than to women. As we all know, a long and fair marriage is not easy. For example, if both husband and wife have to work together, it is very easy to cause contradictions in marriage life if housework is unreasonable. For another example, even couples are likely to quarrel because of the difficult problem of money. If one side is frugal and the other side spends money like water, there will soon be an argument between them. If one party feels unreasonable, it must speak out calmly and clearly put forward the overall solution.